06/07/2026
"Cody was blessed to have parents who loved him very much. They, along with his grandparents, raised an amazing son. He was an incredible young man and a wonderful friend to many people.
Cody had a larger-than-life personality with a great sense of humor. He could light up a room the minute he entered. Cody knew no stranger, and he met friends wherever he went (Cody’s friend, Colten, mentioned that Cody could walk into the grocery store and come out with six new friends). He was surrounded by 20 friends who dropped everything to be with him in his final moments when he suffered a stroke. What a testimony of his friendship.
We heard from so many of Cody’s friends once they learned of his passing. South “Motown” reached out with this message:
'I’ll never forget the times Cody and I had as kids. Thank you so much for sharing him with us. We always kept in touch and caught up every now and then. We talked not too long ago, and he told me he followed along on some of my adventures. I’m still deployed on yet another adventure and know there’s not much I can do from the other side of the world. But, we have a pretty awesome mission out here and a great group. If it’s alright with you, I would like to send you a U.S. flag that I’m going to have flown on our newest aircraft currently on a mission in honor of Cody. I could even bring it if I return home on time.'
Motown was able to receive leave to attend Cody’s celebration of life, and she presented the flag to us at that time.
Cody accomplished a lot in his short 30 years—so much more than many who live to be 80. He enjoyed fishing trips to Vermilion Bay, Ontario, Canada, traveling all over the country with NMC, and working the adventurous oil fields in North Dakota. He loved to go cave spelunking, water skiing, hunting, fishing, camping, and hiking every chance he got. Cody thoroughly enjoyed riding his motorcycle with his friends which took them west through the Rockies, east through the Smoky Mountains on the Tail of the Dragon, and wherever the road would take them. He was always happy when he was exploring the outdoors.
Cody was a solid friend and always there for his family and friends. Trenton Graham, one of his college friends, wrote that 'Cody was the type of man that would look out for you, over himself, and wouldn’t ask for anything in return after helping you out.' Cody had a big heart and was very generous. It was important to him to be a donor—always wanting to help others. Cody’s Uncle Henry went through a double lung transplant at Northwestern just a few months prior to Cody’s passing. Cody always checked on Henry’s progress and was excited to hear good reports. I would like to believe that Henry’s successful transplant confirmed Cody’s decision to be a donor. It has been 18 months since Henry received his new lungs, and Cody would be pleased that his uncle is doing so well. A stranger’s generosity extended Henry’s life, and we are happy to know that Cody’s generosity is helping others.
Cody had many wonderful friends, and he also had a great relationship with his family, spending as much time with them as he could traveling back and forth between Wisconsin, Illinois and Nebraska, taking vacations with family, working on projects with his dad, and just hanging out with his beloved dog, Sweet Pea.
Cody’s family prays that his generosity, humor, adventurous nature, and passion for life continue to inspire us as his love remains forever in our hearts." - Ruth Ann Belding - Mom to donor hero, Cody ❤️