Ladies Auxiliary, Oklahoma Society Sons of the American Revolution

10/09/2026

Great senior event today sponsored by the Caregiver magazine

10/09/2026

Great senior event sponsored by Caregiver Magazine today!

10/08/2026

YOU ARE INVITED! The OK Quilts of Valor will be making a presentation sponsored by the Ladies Auxiliary and the OK Society Sons of the American Revolution Tulsa Chapter.

10/08/2026

YOU ARE INVITED! The Oklahoma Quilts of Valor will be making a presentation sponsored by the Ladies Auxiliary and the OK Society Sons of the American Revolution Bartlesville Chapter.

10/07/2026

We had a great dinner at Mission Barbeque tonight. They have our certificates posted!! Go by and check them out!

10/04/2026

Looking sharp! 🇺🇸 Our exceptionally well-dressed members representing us tonight at the National Society of the Sons of the American Revolution Fall Leadership Saturday Night Banquet in Louisville, Kentucky.

We’re always proud to see our members and Ladies Auxiliary, Oklahoma Society, representing our chapter and our state at the national level and enjoying the fellowship that makes the SAR such a special organization.

Looking good, Compatriots and Ladies! 🇺🇸




Oklahoma SAR

Sons of the American Revolution Oklahoma City Chapter

10/03/2026

She was 22 years old when she first met him at a winter ball in Morristown, New Jersey, in 1780.

The war was still unresolved. Her father, General Philip Schuyler, was one of the most powerful men in New York. She had grown up watching revolution happen, not as spectacle, but as consequence, as hunger, as the sound of distant artillery through the parlor windows.

Her name was Elizabeth Schuyler. History would borrow her last name from someone else.

She married Alexander Hamilton that December. He was brilliant, restless, and already acquiring enemies. She was, by every account, the steadier of the two: organized where he was impulsive, loyal where he was competitive, patient where he was impossible.

For 24 years they built a life together in New York. Eight children. A house called The Grange, named for the Scottish estate his father's family had come from. She managed the household, the finances in his absences, the children during his crises, and her own considerable intelligence alongside all of it.

Then came the Reynolds pamphlet. In 1797, Hamilton published a document confessing to an extramarital affair with Maria Reynolds, releasing it himself to clear his name of a financial corruption charge. It worked politically. At home, Eliza had to decide what it cost her.

She stayed. History has argued about that decision ever since. What it meant, what it took, whether it was strength or endurance or something more complicated than either word can hold.

On July 11, 1804, Aaron Burr shot Alexander Hamilton in a duel at Weehawken, New Jersey. Hamilton died the following day. Eliza was 47 years old.

She had another 50 years ahead of her.

What she did with them is the part that tends to get abbreviated. She spent decades collecting her husband's letters, his drafts, his unfinished manuscripts, working to ensure his historical record was complete and accurate. She lobbied, corresponded, testified, corrected. She was not preserving a myth. She was insisting on a specific truth against a political culture that preferred simpler stories.

She also co-founded the New York Orphan Asylum Society in 1806, one of the earliest private orphan relief organizations in the United States, and served as its director for decades.

Eliza Hamilton died in 1854 at 97 years old. She had outlived nearly everyone who remembered the war firsthand.

For most of the two centuries that followed, the name Hamilton eclipsed hers almost entirely. She existed, in the popular account, as a footnote to someone else's biography.

The fuller version of her life is worth finding. She survived scandal, widowhood, financial instability, and a half-century of deliberate historical erasure, and she left a paper trail the rest of us are still reading.

09/17/2026