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08/23/2024

08/23/2024

Mark your calendars! Join us for the 6th annual Cops & Cars car and truck show, benefitting CASA Marion!

Date: Saturday, November 9
Time: 10 a.m. - 2 p.m.
Location: Police Department Headquarters

This family-friendly event will be a fun-filled day for everyone! Bring your loved ones and enjoy an impressive display of classic and modern cars, delicious food trucks, vendors, music, and more.

You won't want to miss this event! Mark your calendars and spread the word. We can't wait to see you there!

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11/26/2023

A lot of times we place Congratulations with materalistic things we can see!
But, SIS💜

Congratulations for not losing your mind!💜
Congratulations for not cussing them out! 💜
Congratulations for not giving up! 💜
Congratulations for not telling your side!💜
Congratulations for breaking that habit!💜
Congratulations for being the best healed YOU!💜

11/16/2023

How does a narcissist maintain long term supply?

THEY don’t. The partner does all the work to maintain a ‘relationship’. Well, actually, parasitism is also a relationship, they are capable of that. I call the “long term supply”, their primary or main supply (MS), so as long as the partner is able/willing to tolerate their BS - that relationship goes on. And they are desperate to keep their MS for the sake of appearance. “See what a great dad and spouse I am.”



All the while they collect their side supply (SS). This is ANYONE (or thing) that gives them attention and ‘fuuuun’. They find others like them, who lie and cheat and betray…and have ‘fun’ w/them. Flirting, flattering, praising, screwing (if possible), USING each other. They each believe they are the ONE w/ALL the power and control, but they all use and betray each other as needed. The ‘relationships’ may last or come and go - whatever works to keep them occupied.

Sad but true...

11/11/2023

What happens when you're no longer feeding Narcy?



A lot of things will happen, such as:



1. Narcy will hate you with a vengeance.

2. The fog you've been in will lift…slowly but steadily until it's completely gone.

3. The good memories you had of Narcy will be hit with the functional reality of what they were…lies.

4. You'll get angry.

5. You'll become determined.

6. You'll get down to business of rebuilding you and your life.

7. You'll learn to gracefully tango away from attempted hoovers while delivering devastating blows of narcisstic injury to ward off future hoover attempts.

8. You'll heal…mentally, physically, spiritually, financially, and emotionally.

9. You'll let go of your anger and resentment, but will never change your opinion of Narcy (he simply won't matter anymore)

10. You'll hold boundaries more firmly than Killamanjaro. You will tolerate no one who attempts to cross them.

11. You'll set goals and achieve them.

12. You'll learn to smile again, laugh again, and love again.

13. You'll learn to love yourself, respect yourself and walk with grace and dignity..

14. You'll work on fixing things about you that you don't like.

15. You'll accept your share of responsibility.

16. You'll open up sexually and love with sheer reckless abandon, while still maintaining healthy boundaries and your independence.

17. You'll have your life back…but better than it ever was before.

18. You'll help other victims thru the murky waters of recovery.



If you've found yourself no longer as Narcy’s supply, count your lucky stars and the graces of God for the freedom and new lease you've been given on life, and then make the most of it!



You're free from hell….the hell of abuse. Don't ever go back to it.

11/07/2023

Go where you are celebrated not Just tolerated!

11/07/2023

Some times.. you have to shake things up & fill in the gaps..
Good things are coming♡

11/05/2023

How do Narcisis treat their main supply...
Remember that nearly every ex was the main supply at some point!

*They will treat you like you are special to them, as if they are completely in love with you, and you mean the world to them.
*They treat you like you are their soulmate, that they are lucky to have you, and plan to spend the rest of their life with you.
*They treat you like they're not so sure about you anymore.
*They treat you like you really aren't as great as you pretended to be at first. That you tricked them into the relationship.
*They treat you like they wasted their time getting involved with you and might put an end to that shortly.
*They treat you as if you are not as smart as they are and are unable to see through their lies.
*They treat you like there are other men / women who are better than you, that they can be with.
*They treat you like your emotions do not matter at all. That the things they say and do to you do not hurt you.
*They treat you like they hate you and need you to know how despicable you are to them.
*They treat you like you have no value, that all that you do for them means nothing.
*They treat you as the lesser part of the relationship, the part that is inferior and always working to prove your worth.
*They treat you like trash to be discarded with the other junk mail and yesterday's leftovers.
**Then… they treat you like all the others who have come before you. You are one more indistinguishable member of their Harem Of Exes, to be treated like every other one. There only for their continued use.
***Then… they proceed to treat the new main supply the same way!

11/03/2023

How should you deal with a Narcissist?



Stay away! Run and don’t look back. Do not have any expectations. You are never going to get any empathy from Narcissists. They don’t compromise, they don’t bring any consideration.



Narcissists play by different rules.



They do not apologize, do not take responsibility, do not self-reflect, do not forgive, do not act selflessly, do not express their real feelings, they avoid honest communication, refuse accountability. They do not listen, they do not like to admit they have feelings “I do not have emotions” they say. They don’t do anything that doesn’t benefit them, they don’t like losing control, they don’t incorporate security into relationships.



If you are a partner: you will be left with a broken spirit and a broken heart if you are waiting and hoping that someday your relationship will get better. You will be wasting your life away.



♥️

11/03/2023

What do covert narcissists do when they know we are onto them?

I think most of the time, they discard you for the first time when they believe you aren't completely “captivated” by them.



When you do something they don't like for the first time- they'll discard you OUT OF NOWHERE- to see how Trauma Bonded you are.



If you break down crying, and begging them not to break up with you- because you are SO confused as to what you did that was enough for them to break up with you- the Covert now KNOWS they have you hooked.



So, after this moment they begin mistreating you. Giving you the Silent Treatment. Not responding to your texts for the majority of the day.



Then- they may begin flirting with other people. Putting you down, in passive aggressive ways- that make you go, “okay, did he MEAN to say that, or is he just in a bad mood today?”



But you start to see, as the days go by- this person just gets colder, and colder. You then begin to think, “okay, this is just NOT normal. I'm trying absolutely everything to make this person happy, and it seems with each passing day, the more I try to do what they want- the more they gaslight, and mistreat me.”