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Stop It Now! Stop It Now! (the Child S*x Abuse Prevention & Protection Ctr) - 30 years of preventing abuse.

Helping adults, families and communities prevent the s*xual abuse of children before they are ever harmed.

Now! Director Jenny Coleman, MA, LMHC and Helpline Consultant Brittany A. Gordon, LCSW, Ph.D. are excited to be attendin...
10/14/2026

Now! Director Jenny Coleman, MA, LMHC and Helpline Consultant Brittany A. Gordon, LCSW, Ph.D. are excited to be attending, tabling, and presenting at on October 21-22, hosted by The Children's Trust (MA).

This is a great opportunity to connect with Now! staff and other colleagues from across the family support field, share ideas, and explore practical strategies that strengthen support for children and families.

If you stop by the Now! table, we have plenty of free resources, educational materials, and training incentives to offer - we hope to see you there!

Learn more and register: childrenstrustma.org/view





Just as we teach in our foundational training addressing s*xual abuse prevention, in domestic violence prevention, aware...
10/08/2026

Just as we teach in our foundational training addressing s*xual abuse prevention, in domestic violence prevention, awareness is a starting point and action is what comes next.

This Domestic Violence Awareness Month, we're asking ourselves:
• How can we better support survivors?
• How can we make resources easier to find?
• How can we create safer, more supportive communities?

There isn't one way to take action. Every community has a role to play.

Domestic Violence Hotline is here 24/7 to help people experiencing relationship abuse explore their options and find support. Learn more at thehotline.org.

If you have concerns about child abuse please contact the Stop It Now! Helpline at https://www.stopitnow.org/get-immediate-help



"The training...puts a different perspective on s*xual abuse … the proactive perspective as opposed to our usual reactiv...
10/07/2026

"The training...puts a different perspective on s*xual abuse … the proactive perspective as opposed to our usual reactive response when we get disclosures. Having the opportunity to be more proactive about something and having the education to go about doing that will certainly benefit our staff here.”
- 2026 Awareness to Action Participant

Change from an adult with awareness of child s*xual abuse into an adult who is a proactive member in your organization or community - one who is capable of taking action to prevent harm before it occurs.

Our upcoming Live Virtual Training in October gives you the skills and confidence to create healthy environments for children and respond to potential warning signs of harm, all within an engaging and safe learning environment.

Secure one of our few remaining spots and register here: https://lp.constantcontactpages.com/ev/reg/fjsu34e/lp/a0e40318-0beb-4494-928d-0a2523ce133b

Or learn more our trainings at: https://www.stopitnow.org/virtual-classroom-series
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Stop It Now! Director, Jenny Coleman, was recently interviewed as part of Slate.com'spiece on prevention-based helplines...
09/30/2026

Stop It Now! Director, Jenny Coleman, was recently interviewed as part of Slate.com'spiece on prevention-based helplines:

"...'if we’re going to create an environment where kids grow up safe from harm, we need to include all of the people that impact that, and that includes the people who are at risk or who are already abusing.'

Last year, Coleman’s team responded to 2,500 calls about child s*xual abuse, 61 percent of which were from abusers and those at-risk to abuse. Coleman explained that when answering the phones, the first step is often correcting the way callers think. Some will argue that they’re not abusers because they’ve only looked at child s*xual abuse material, but haven’t touched a child. The response is: 'Well, this is abuse. This is illegal. This is harmful. Let’s talk about that.' The helpline doesn’t offer therapy, but instead directs callers to professionals who are trained in treating harmful s*xual behaviors.

While the people who answer these phone lines are required to report any illegal behavior they hear about, this can be hard to do because the helplines offer complete anonymity to the person calling. Unless the caller volunteers their name or other identifying information, there’s not much that can be done. However, for everyone I spoke to, anonymity was absolutely paramount to the work they were trying to accomplish."

Read the full article: https://slate.com/technology/2026/06/domestic-abuse-violence-hotlines-controversy.html
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In order to create healthy environments for children and to prevent child s*xual abuse, our Awareness to Action training...
09/24/2026

In order to create healthy environments for children and to prevent child s*xual abuse, our Awareness to Action training provides you with:

• Factual information about the scope of abuse and a shared language to create the foundations for your learning and primary prevention efforts
• Understanding of children's safe and healthy s*xual development and methods for how to support it
• Skills to identify and respond to warning signs in children's and adults' behaviors
• Ability to design safety plans to address safe boundaries, privacy, consent and respect
• Activities, personal reflections, and role plays to help you practice thinking about experiences through a prevention lens, and to give you confidence in putting prevention into practice
• Research, personal stories, and experiences from Stop It Now!'s Helpline and public education activities in order to reinforce your prevention knowledge

There are still a handful of spots left in our Awareness to Action training this October so now is a great time to reserve your space and join others in learning the essentials of preventing child s*xual abuse: https://lp.constantcontactpages.com/ev/reg/fjsu34e/lp/a0e40318-0beb-4494-928d-0a2523ce133b
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A parent of a boy in kindergarten reached out to us explaining that a girl in her son's class told him that she wanted t...
09/24/2026

A parent of a boy in kindergarten reached out to us explaining that a girl in her son's class told him that she wanted to play a “pants down” game. The game was putting her hands down his pants and having him to put his hands down her pants.

This parent was told about the "game" by her son, but when she talked to the teacher about it the teacher wasn’t very concerned.

While this may be normal play, we recommended that the parent monitor the activity and work to create safe boundaries and guidelines for the children by:
• Collaborating with other parents - communicating about the situation without blame and planning for safety cooperatively
• Speak to school administration and staff about their child s*x abuse prevention policies and trainings
• Learn more about how children of different ages undergo healthy s*xual development
• Talk to your own children about healthy s*xuality and body safety

Read our full advice to this parent in our column:
https://www.stopitnow.org/advice-column-entry/what-to-do-when-two-kindergartners-play-a-pants-down-game-at-school
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Do you know who your child plays with online or what they would do if something feltwrong?You don’t have to be a gamer t...
09/23/2026

Do you know who your child plays with online or what they would do if something felt
wrong?

You don’t have to be a gamer to talk about gaming safety.

’s FREE Gaming Safely Playbook can help: ncmec.org/gaming

Our Triennium Report represents not only data from 2023 - 2025 , but the stories, relationships, and achievements of our...
09/22/2026

Our Triennium Report represents not only data from 2023 - 2025 , but the stories, relationships, and achievements of our work and mission throughout those years.

We have recorded the reach and power of both our Stop It Now! and Helplines, the strengthening and performance of our online resources and trainings, the vitalization of our partnerships, and the progress of our evidence base for effective prevention with this report.

See some of the highlights of our impact in this post and access the full report to learn more about our work from 2023 - 2025 and the individuals who helped to make this work possible:https://www.stopitnow.org/sites/default/files//now_report_2023-2025_final.pdf
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Protecting child from s*xual harm means knowing the essentials:• Understand the facts about abuse: ◦ Children are most a...
09/21/2026

Protecting child from s*xual harm means knowing the essentials:
• Understand the facts about abuse:
◦ Children are most at-risk to be s*xually abused by someone they know and trust -about half of s*xual abuse (40% to 60%) happens within families.
◦ There is no typical s*x offender profile – child s*xual abuse happens in all racial, religious, age and ethnic groups, and at all socio-economic levels.
• Understand that children do s*xually touch other children - more than a third of those who s*xually abuse children are under the age of 18 themselves.
◦ In many instances, especially with younger children, a child may not understand that his or her forceful s*xual actions toward another child are harmful.
• Learn what s*xual behaviors are developmentally expected for a particular age group.
• Learn warning signs exhibited by someone who may be having s*xual thoughts or feelings towards children.
• Recognize the importance of speaking up, and in certain cases, of reporting as well as the best methods of speaking up and reporting

Access our detailed list of Safety Tips for Daycare and Education Settings and integrate this knowledge into your life in order to create safer environments for children:
https://www.stopitnow.org/ohc-content/safety-in-daycare-and-education-settings

Learning that a staff member at your child’s school was involved in abuse can be jarring. School staff should ensure tha...
09/17/2026

Learning that a staff member at your child’s school was involved in abuse can be jarring.

School staff should ensure that clearly stated safety polices and procedures are in place, and that parents and staff are informed of warning signs of abuse and encouraged to trust their instincts. These tactics help to create a culture of prevention that keeps children safe.

Read more about how we advised a school administrator wondering how best to respond to a concerned parent who had learned that a former staff member was accused of s*xual misconduct: https://www.stopitnow.org/advice-column-entry/what-should-i-do-after-an-adult-who-worked-at-our-school-was-accused-of-abuse

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