06/09/2026
Natsarim Sonship Charles Maris agrees with this because The Ruach Ha'QoDesh 🕊️ taught me this years ago. This is for the Husband that desires to let YAHU'SHA live thru him. As a Husband, I'm commanded to Love My Wife, and to never let the sun go down on my anger. I love the friendship that I have with My Wife, so making it right with her is more important than me being right in Heated Fellowship (disagreement). When I let The Ruach Ha'QoDesh 🕊️ do the ministering to both us, the one who truly needs to apologize will do so when you take the first step. YAHU'AH will see your efforts and then touch the heart of the one who needs to be corrected. Let YAHU'AH be AL'UAH! I didn't need to be GOD in my marriage, I just need to Love!
Married Men:
Before you shut me down on this, just hear me out.
Ephesians 5:25 instructs us husbands to love our wives ‘just as Christ loved the church, and gave Himself for her’.
One key element of this Mashiach-like love is the willingness to apologize first and initiate reconciliation, even when we’re not at fault. The Bible says, “While we were still sinners, YAHU'SHA died for us” (Romans 5:8). That’s the ultimate example of unconditional love and humility.
You might think—“Doesn’t that make me a simp?” Doesn't that make me look weak?"
Absolutely not!
Taking the first step towards reconciliation isn’t about being a “simp” or showing weakness. It’s about embodying the strength and selflessness of true leadership. As husbands, we need to ensure there’s no lingering conflict in our homes and create an environment of peace and unity.
Apologizing first, even when you think you’re not at fault, shows deep commitment to your wife and your relationship. It proves you value harmony over pride or the need to be right. This kind of love and humility strengthens your bond and sets a powerful example for your family.
So, let’s lead with love. Be the first to apologize, seek peace, and reconcile. Reflect YAHU'SHA'S love and build a foundation of mutual respect and enduring love in your marriage. Let’s make our marriages stronger by leading with humility and love.
David Burrus