01/04/2024
I have personally experienced (and still do) the loss of very special people in my life--my husband, parents, in-laws who were my second set of parents, best friends, pastors who touched my life, relatives whom I cherished & loved, fellow LWML sisters in Christ, fellow LFL partners, and so many more friends & acquaintances. Heaven truly will be a huge family reunion for me. But right now my heart still hurts and grieves for the loss of these people. No, not all at one time but suddenly without any warning it just occurs. My mood changes, tears flow, and it still hurts.
Do you have grief issues? Where or what do you do when they occur? With whom can you share that sadness? Or do I even dare admit I'm having these struggles? After all, I am God's child; I know & trust in His promises. Promises of hope, peace, being with me ALWAYS in all circumstances, and being taken to heaven when He calls me home. Then I'll not only see Jesus my Savior but be reunited with my loved ones. Personally, I am blessed with Stephen Ministry books for comfort, a recent LWML booklet for widows, etc. Do you wish you could have comfort each day from an email? Perhaps you have thought of joining a Grief Support Group but some are unsure which one to attend or should you do it. I have been there. Before my husband passed away, I had joined support groups which were amazing.. Thanks to my husband's neurologist suggestion. But grieving was different & I didn't go to one for 6 months. I finally decided I needed to share my feelings with others who could understand what I was experiencing. I went to the one Hospice recommended. There were about 20 of us in the group. My sorrow was not nearly as devastating as some others where there was murder involved, family situations unbelievable, an individual who was so devastated couldn't even speak for weeks. Me, being who I am, made a point to sit next to that individual to say hi & share a touch at our meetings. I also took my Christian comfort information & shared it. We were told that was inappropriate & not to do it. But those grieving around the table were wanting it--listening & wanting more. So I discreetly shared the best I could so I wouldn't be kicked out. And I "HAD" to be there for the new friend who was unable to speak but after 3 or 4 weeks shared name and eventually was able to share more.
So why am I sharing? Because we are humans who have hurts, losses of various kinds, daily struggles, and grief that sneaks upon us without warning & can cause depression. I know. I've been there. It's not fun. But there is hope--in Christ. We have His Word. But there are other helps available to whom we can reach out.
I want to encourage anyone who is struggling with issues such as these, please reach out to someone for support.
Our LFL Chapter provided seed money for a Grief Share Support Group in the communities of Sacramento Foothill Farms, North Highlands, Antelope, Citrus Heights, and more. It's leader is a friend of mine, Ali Bohnhof who also lost her husband. Sessions are held at Zion Lutheran Church, North Highlands.
Please contact us at [email protected] for additional info.
God's blessings on your day.