07/24/2023
My time as the first coach, and ultimately the Executive Director of the Tibet Women’s National team, which was as grassroots as it gets in the world of football, emulated what continues to be a theme even at the highest levels of the women’s game.
Underestimated
Underfunded
Disregarded
But in our case, Team Tibet went from total non-existence and zero funding, to within two years having astronomically MORE funding than the men’s side.
Not because the federation cared, but because they put me and the players in charge of our own destinies, totally unaware of what we were capable of. I had zero expertise. The players even less. But by the sheer will of our own hearts, we funded an entire women’s football program for Tibet.
We told the story of these players’ lives, their escapes from Tibet as children, and their undervaluation by the federation.
The money came pouring in.
That’s where the trouble started. The Tibetan federation couldn’t handle the idea of the women growing and doing so well. Getting so much press. Playing internationally.
I was straight up TOLD to give the money to the men’s side because women’s football was cancelled. At which I said, “Over my dead body.”
I quit my position with the federation. Twelve courageous players approached me, asking if we could somehow continue our story.
Those twelve players showed up at a small refugee settlement in the middle of India, against the instructions of their federation, their government and much of their community.
They came. We had a camp. The federation tried to stop us.
We boarded a plane in secrecy, landing in Berlin. We played a tournament. A Chinese team was there. We made history.
The story just got more dramatic from there.
Years later, after a mega tour to Canadá with the whole world watching, I felt my life could be in danger.
I left and never returned. After 7 years.
I’m ready to tell the whole story. So are the players.
Are you listening?