Safe Haven Oklahoma

08/18/2026

Children who fall through the cracks become adults who society blames for falling through the cracks.

08/12/2026

It's everywhere, a global epidemic!

A former Oklahoma School for the Deaf coach faces r**e and child po*******hy charges. See link below ⬇️

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07/30/2026

Victims of human trafficking endure unimaginable suffering. On this World Day Against Trafficking in Persons, help the raise awareness of this exploitation and hold criminals accountable. Learn the signs of trafficking and how to report it at fbi.gov/humantrafficking.

06/14/2026

Would you force another adult to hug someone they didn't want to hug?

Then why do we force children to do it every day?

It dawned on me today while listening to a discussion about consent that we spend a lot of time teaching adults and teenagers about boundaries, body autonomy, and the importance of consent. But why do we so often ignore those same principles when it comes to children?

How many times have we seen a child clearly uncomfortable, hiding behind a parent, refusing a hug, or pulling away from a relative they barely know?

And what do we say? Don't be rude, give them a hug. You don't want to hurt their feelings do you?

I understand the intention. We want our children to be polite and respectful, but what lesson are we really teaching?

When we force a child to hug, kiss, or touch someone they don't want to, we are teaching them that other people's feelings matter more than their own boundaries. We are teaching them that they don't get a say over who has access to their body.

Children are not property. They are people. They feel fear, anxiety, discomfort, embarrassment, insecurity, and uncertainty just like adults do. The fact that they are young does not make those feelings less real.

We can teach respect without teaching submission.

A wave is respectful, so is a handshake or a high-five.

Consent should not begin at eighteen. It should begin the moment a child is old enough to understand that their body belongs to them.

Maybe it's time we stop telling children to ignore their boundaries for the comfort of adults.

~ Troy W. Green

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06/01/2026

There are many ways to support the mission of Safe Haven Oklahoma. Whether you volunteer, donate, advocate, or partner with us, every effort helps protect the vulnerable, support survivors, and strengthen our communities.

Learn more and get involved at SafeHavenOK.org.

06/01/2026

Safe Haven Oklahoma exists to protect children and victims of human trafficking, support survivors, and strengthen communities through investigation, rescue, and education. Our mission is rooted in awareness, advocacy, and hope for those who need it most. Learn more about their work or find ways to support at SafeHavenOK.org.

05/31/2026

Summer should be filled with sunshine, laughter, and the freedom to just be a kid. Every child deserves to feel safe, protected, and free to enjoy the season. Learn more at SafeHavenOK.org.

05/29/2026

If someone asks your child to keep a secret, it’s important to pay attention. That kind of request can be a warning sign and a conversation starter for parents, guardians, and caregivers. Stay informed, help protect children, and learn more about Safe Haven Oklahoma at SafeHavenOK.org.

05/27/2026

Every child deserves to feel safe, protected, and free to enjoy life. Join Safe Haven Oklahoma in helping build a safer future for every child. Learn more or get involved at SafeHavenOK.org.

05/25/2026

Today, we honor and remember the brave men and women who made the ultimate sacrifice for our country.