09/30/2026
Calling a girl “troubled” does not make her less deserving of protection or give adults permission to dismiss her allegations of s*xual misconduct.
The Frontier reports that Mary Baerg says a teacher at New Lifehouse Academy placed his hands between her legs on at least two occasions. She says she reported him, but remained in his classroom.
The school says it had no record of her complaint and reported the information to Oklahoma DHS after questions from The Frontier. The teacher’s wife denied the allegations. The Frontier could find no record of the school reporting him to law enforcement.
These allegations demand an independent investigation and clear answers.
When adults control where a child sleeps, who she can speak to, and whether her complaints reach anyone outside the building, that child needs meaningful protection and a safe way to report misconduct.
A history of depression, self-harm, or behavioral struggles does not erase a child’s credibility. It increases our responsibility to protect her.
No school, ministry, or residential program should be beyond scrutiny. Religious affiliation should never shield an institution from accountability. A promise to help vulnerable children must come with safeguards that protect them when the concern involves someone on staff.
Oklahoma needs independent oversight, confidential reporting channels, and protection from retaliation for children in residential programs. Any investigation must examine both the alleged misconduct and how adults handled the reports.
At Safe Haven Oklahoma, we believe a child’s safety must come before an institution’s reputation.
Children should never have to prove they are “good” before adults take their safety seriously.
Read and share The Frontier’s reporting:
https://www.readfrontier.org/stories/oklahoma-boarding-school-promised-help-for-troubled-girls-students-say-they-got-punishment-instead/
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