Black Queer Roar: A Guide to Self Care in the Face of Trauma

Black Queer Roar: A Guide to Self Care in the Face of Trauma Lyssette Horne is a q***r Brooklyn native, artist, activist and filmmaker. I want survivors to not just be told to move on.

We are calling on the voices of the marginalized to spring up and share their stories: their methods of coping, healing, and growing with others in a radical act of self love and solidarity. It’s something so near and dear to me because, as a disabled q***r, survivor of sexual assault, artist and activist I have had to navigate the world with several roadblocks and no instruction manual. I've lear

ned through my own life the importance of sharing resources and being transparent. For many, being a part of a marginalized community (or several in my case) create more barriers to adequate care and even a sense of belonging. I want to look at healing, grief, chronic illness, identity in all the ways that it affects us and maybe molds us. While my healing has taken many shapes, and affected many areas of my life, it also has created a community of folks that are kind, vulnerable and courageous even when they are scared. By speaking out on it, I take it out of my body. By speaking I give permission to others to feel afraid, to be sad, to feel numb, to celebrate life and the lives of others. Healing isn’t linear, and it’s not in a vacuum either. It’s important that we embrace the healing process in whatever form that looks like for the individual. BGR is not just a resource but a platform to create community survivors in their voice – in their roar for justice, visibility, and community.

9 hrs in the OR to laparoscopically excise endometriosis, adenomyosis and fibroids. 4 surgeons, 7 incisions, 1 Jackson P...
04/14/2025

9 hrs in the OR to laparoscopically excise endometriosis, adenomyosis and fibroids. 4 surgeons, 7 incisions, 1 Jackson Pratt drain. 0 ostomy bags! I can p**p out of my own butt! 😝🎉🎉🎉 I’m so thankful for the medical team. I’m still waiting for surgical reports and pathology but I can’t wait to see all the places they excised disease that were NOT visible on mri / ultrasound imaging. 2 MIGS, a colorectal surgeon and a general surgeon to grab the pesky gallbladder too. I gave all my surgeons thank you cards and I found the perfect card for my colorectal surgeon who got a good kick out of it. 🤣 I’m so thankful for all the well wishes and love. It means so much in my recovery. 💖

I can’t believe I’m almost there. And honestly I think I’m more scared of this surgery than I was for my double mastecto...
03/04/2025

I can’t believe I’m almost there. And honestly I think I’m more scared of this surgery than I was for my double mastectomy. I have been dealing with terrible pelvic pain before I even experienced my first menstrual cycle. To be at 40 years old and finally having surgery to relieve these symptoms is wild. I’ve been formally diagnosed with for over a decade now. But it’s been the last 8 years have been truly unbearable. The meds I can access no longer work to cover symptoms. I’ve had to put my endo surgery on the back burner for a while so I could heal from my double mastectomy and the complications.

I have a complicated health history. I have undergone a sea of medical treatments in my life, and I will always try to avoid invasive surgeries as much as possible. After my DMX and the 2 infections I can’t help but admit that I’m scared of infection. There is a chance l’ll need a colostomy bag. Depending on what they find when they go into surgery. A cool snag doesn’t mean forever, but I know that it has its own risks and benefits. I have quite severe disease and I trust my team. I’m excited for this next chapter and I hope that not only I get some immediate pain relief but that I also get to p**p out of my own butt. 😝💖

The   short documentary premiered at the  this weekend!  I’m so grateful to have had the opportunity to watch this on th...
10/23/2024

The short documentary premiered at the this weekend!

I’m so grateful to have had the opportunity to watch this on the big screen with a few of the cast and crew.

✨ in Slide 7 we opted for a funny photo. 😳My inspiration was that feeling when you’re having an MRI with contrast and and you think you’ve peed yourself. 😂😂😂

Ten years ago I had emergency Ovarian torsion surgery and in one fell swoop was diagnosed with Endometriosis, Skin Cance...
09/08/2024

Ten years ago I had emergency Ovarian torsion surgery and in one fell swoop was diagnosed with Endometriosis, Skin Cancer and breast cancer. 2014 knocked me to my knees. I was just about to turn 30, and I was suddenly confronted with my own mortality in one fell swoop.

It was Ct scan after endless MRIs, surgeries, panic attacks and white lab coats. But here I am; boobless and skin cancer free but still dealing with stage 4 Endometriosis and possibly Adenomyosis as well. The surgeon I was working with left her clinic and I have had to start my search over. I am undergoing tests to prepare for excision surgery and meeting the new potential surgical team. It’s terrifying to start over but I am hopeful that excision surgery will offer me such a drastically better quality of life. It’s been such a long journey that was prolonged by numerous cancer surgeries and complications. I’m talking to a team that I feel safe with and that is giving me hope. We’re doing whatever exams we can to plan for the big day.

✨💖If you are able to donate to my excision surgery and recovery please know that it would be life changing surgery for me. Sharing this post or my GoFundMe also helps a ton. 💖

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