SOE Leadership

10/13/2025

Join Rev. Dr. Selina D. Carter of Spirit of Excellence Leadership Guidance, Inc. and Rev. Dr. Carol Lynn Patterson of Set the Captives Free Ministries — co-hosts of the 4th Annual Voice of Silence Domestic Violence Conference — along with our inspiring facilitators for a special StreamYard Live Chat!

We’ll discuss this year’s theme, “Using Our Words: Creating an Emotionally Safe Black Community,” with a focus on Emotional Intelligence for the Black Family. Tune in for a powerful conversation on faith, healing, and building emotionally safe spaces in our communities �

10/13/2025

✏️✏️PENCIL US IN! ✏️✏️

Tonight, we're chatting with the Facilitators of SOE's Conference @ 7pm. It'll give you a sample of the resourceful information coming on Saturday, 10/18.

DON'T MISS Tonight's Convo‼️
DON'T MISS Saturday's Experience‼️

🟪 https://www.soeleadership.org/voiceofsilence 🟪

10/12/2025

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🟪 SOE FACILITATOR FEATURE 🟪
🌟🎉 Meet Dr. Althea T. Simpson, MBA, MSW 🎉🌟

Dr. Althea, LCSW, RPT-S is . . .

■ The AUTHOR of "Hurt to Healing: Child Witnesses of Domestic Violence and Their Invisible Injuries", a book written to help communities understand the “invisible injuries” children carry when they witness violence in their homes.

■ A THERAPIST, a REGISTERED PLAY THERAPIST-SUPERVISOR, and TRAINER. Dr. Althea has seen firsthand how powerful it is when children are given permission to feel and share their emotions. She believes that when adults, whether parents, mental health professionals, teachers, or community members, create safe spaces for children to express themselves, healing and resilience become possible.

■ A TEACHER known for her down-to-earth teaching style. Dr. Althea blends real-life stories, professional expertise, and practical tools that anyone can use to support children’s emotional well-being. Her passion is helping children and families go from “Hurt to Healing,” and communities learn how to listen to children’s hearts, validate their experiences, and remind them every day that it’s okay to feel.

Dr. Althea has spent over 20 years walking alongside children and families as they navigate the challenges of trauma, conflict, and healing. As a Facilitator, she'll discuss for children "It's Okay to Feel." JOIN US:
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https://www.soeleadership.org/voiceofsilence

10/11/2025

Since the Summer, we've posted info about the Conference. On Monday, we're going live with our facilitators and you don't want to miss it!

🟪 "Like" our Page - SOE Leadership
🟪 Get Comfortable on Facebook
🟪 Join the Conversation @ 7pm

GOT QUESTIONS? Contact Us @ [email protected] or (973) 981-3750.

10/11/2025

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🟪 SOE FACILITATOR FEATURE 🟪
🌟🎉 Meet Wil DuBose 🎉🌟
https://www.facebook.com/wil.dubose.7

Mr. DuBose is . . .

■ A GRADUATE of Johnson & Wales University (Providence, RI); Mitchell College (New London, CT); and New Jersey District School of Ministry (Northvale, NJ).

■ A Past COORDINATOR with the State of Rhode Island for an adjudicated youth outreach and tracking program.

■ A Former APPOINTED REPRESENTATIVE to the State of New Jersey Board on Domestic Violence Fatality and Near Fatality

■ A Past COMMITTEE MEMBER on the New Jersey Coalition for Battered Woman Standards Committee for Batterers Intervention Programs

■ A PREVENTION DIRECTOR at the New Jersey Coalition to End Domestic Violence. The NJCEDV leads collaborative community and systemic responses to domestic violence by providing public awareness, training, advocacy, policy development, technical assistance and supportive services.

Wil has worked in the domestic violence field for nearly 16+ years providing batterers intervention services. As a co-facilitator of the Barbershop Conversations, Wil offers tools and resources to elicit positive change. REGISTER & JOIN US:

https://www.soeleadership.org/voiceofsilence

10/10/2025

💜🩷 LONG, YET IMPORTANT POST ALERT!!🩷💜

October is an important month for health awareness. Our nation typically embraces this month as and the pink explodes everywhere. However, did you also know that October is ?

I'd love to see a purple explosion, too! This cause does not get as much press as . Why? Is it still taboo to talk about ? Both causes are crucial to the health and well-being of GOD's Family. Open conversations about awareness and prevention are necessary in homes, workplaces, schools, and churches.
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As a Christian Elder, my care and concern extends to all. As an African American, I have particular concern for my brothers and sisters of the African Diaspora. These statistics are staggering for domestic violence:

• "More than 40% of Black women experience physical violence from an intimate partner in their lifetime. This is higher than the rate of 31.5% for all women."

• "Approximately 40% of Black men have experienced intimate partner physical violence, sexual violence, or stalking in their lifetimes. This is also disproportionately high."
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What can we do to positively decrease these stats? The tactics are similar as for other causes . . .

• : Seek opportunities to learn and then teach about domestic violence. E.g., (VoS) Conference

• : Find and volunteer for organizations, e.g., Spirit of Excellence - Leadership Guidance, Inc.

• : Develop, model, and maintain healthy relationships within the community. Its especially essential for our youth.
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Let's not turn away from domestic violence conversations or situations. If you truly love and support your brothers or sisters, like me, please take an assertive approach and show me.

This year is my second year supporting the development of the . While I appreciate you reading and liking the posts, when will you take a leap of faith and attend the conference? We've made it easier to access...

• It's on a Saturday, 10/18.
• It's available in-person and on Zoom.
• It's affordable for $45 to $95.
• It's nourishing literally and figuratively.

If you are a member of men/women ministries, fraternities, sororities, and/or non-profits, there's no excuse for your absence. You can invite groups of people to be a part of a transformative experience together.

Come on y'all, stop playing. Put on your purple and show up!
https://www.soeleadership.org/voiceofsilence
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If you absolutely cannot attend next Saturday, we encourage donations to this worthy cause.

Love 💜 Always! PAM
Elder Pamela D.R. Smith, Event Administrator
Spirit of Excellence -- Leadership Guidance, Inc.

10/10/2025

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🟪 SOE FACILITATOR FEATURE 🟪
🌟🎉 Meet Rev. Elizabeth Tracey Tisdale 🎉🌟

Rev. Tisdale is . . .

● A SCHOLAR with degrees from Virginia Union University and American Academy McAllister Institute. She is currently earning a Master of Divinity degree from New Brunswick Theological Seminary.

● A 2nd Generation OWNER & VP of Perry Funeral Home (Newark NJ) that was founded in 1958 by her parents, the late Orlando K. Perry and the late Virginia A. Perry. She is a LICENSED FUNERAL DIRECTOR and MORTICIAN.

● A Licensed MINISTER since 2008 and has served in active ministry in various capacities. She currently serves at Community Baptist Church (Englewood NJ) under the leadership of Rev. Dr. Lester Taylor. She served as the Executive Pastor at Bethany Baptist Church in Newark, New Jersey until May 2025.

Previously, she served at Liberty Baptist Church (Elizabeth NJ) under the leadership of Rev. Anthony Walcots. In 2010, she was ordained by the late Rev. Dr. Lloyd P. Terrell and served as the Youth Minister at Franklin-St. John’s United Methodist Church (Newark NJ).

● The CONVENER of the Grief Ministry at Bethany Baptist Church, Grief Real Talk: a virtual Facebook ministry, and other grief counseling workshops in churches.

Rev. Tisdale offers a multifaceted perspective about relationships and domestic violence awareness as a wife, mother, funeral director, grief counselor, and mentor to women.

As a co-facilitator of "Beauty Shop Conversations," come hear what she has to share:
https://www.soeleadership.org/voiceofsilence

10/09/2025

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🟪 SOE FACILITATOR FEATURE 🟪
🌟🎉 Meet Rev. Herman Scott 🎉🌟

Rev. Scott is . . .

▪︎ A SCHOLAR with secondary education from North Carolina Central University for studies in Psychology and Sociology; and for studies in Business Administration from Caldwell College.

He achieved Christian Education Certification Program from New York Theological; and Master’s degree in Psychology and Counseling from Pillar College.

Rev. Scott is currently pursuing a Doctorate in Psychology and Counseling with a special interest in Pastoral Care and Counseling at New Brunswick Theological Seminary.

▪︎ A Retired PUBLIC SERVANT for 30 years of service at Public Service Electric and Gas Company.

▪︎ A MINISTER who served as Assistant Sunday School Superintendent for the prison ministry at the Evangelical Gospel Tabernacle in Bayonne, New Jersey. His focus was on Riker’s Island (New York), Otisville Correctional Facility in (New York), and Yardville Correctional Facility (New Jersey).

At Calvary Baptist Church (Morristown NJ), he served on the Prison Ministry and volunteered at the Morris County Correctional Facility in 2000.

▪︎ A TEACHING CHAPLAIN at the Morris County Correctional Facility (Morristown, NJ) for the last 25 years. He engages in oversight of the spiritual and mental health needs for over 350 inmates.

Rev. Scott's education and experience offers a unique perspective about domestic violence awareness. At the Voice of Silence Conference, he'll be a co-facilitator of the "Barbershop Conversations," JOIN US:
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https://www.soeleadership.org/voiceofsilence

10/08/2025

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🟪 SOE FACILITATOR FEATURE 🟪
🌟🎉 Rev. Kamaria Byrd-McAllister 🎉🌟

Rev. is . . .

● The CONFERENCE COORDINATOR for Philadelphia Conference Women in Ministry.

● A SCHOLAR with her M.Div. with a certificate in Black Church Studies, from Princeton Theological Seminary; MSW from Rutgers University, School of Social Work; Bachelor’s degree from The College of New Jersey and her first Master’s degree in Organizational Leadership in Counseling Related Services from Rider University.

● (Previously) The LEAD COUNSELOR and OUTREACH COORDINATOR at the CARES Program at St. Francis Medical Center in Trenton, NJ for almost ten years.

● (Currently) The DIRECTOR of MENTAL HEALTH & PASTORAL CARE at First Baptist Church of Lincoln Gardens in Somerset, NJ.

Considering all of her achievements, Rev. Kamaria's #1 aspiration is to please God, as Jesus said “For I have not come down from heaven not to do my will but to do the will of Him who sent me” (John 6:38).

At the Voice of Silence Conference, she'll co-facilitate the Beauty Shop Conversations Workshop.
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Come Join the Conversation: https://www.soeleadership.org/voiceofsilence

10/07/2025

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🟪 SOE FACILITATOR FEATURE 🟪
🌟🎉 Meet Rev. Dr. Reginald W. Steele 🎉🌟

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▪︎ An ORDAINED MINISTER within the Baptist denomination, and he fulfills the role of a congregational leader, itinerant preacher, and specialist in congregational revitalization.

▪︎ A FACILITATOR for the General Baptist Convention of NJ, The Full Gospel Baptist Church Fellowship of NJ, Real Conversations (Jewish Federation of Northern NJ), and The Ministry Design & Development Conference.

▪︎ A SCHOLAR with a Bachelor’s degree in Interdisciplinary Liberal Arts from The College of New Rochelle, Master of Religion in Bible & Culture and a Doctor of Divinity in Leadership from Drew University's Theological School.

▪︎ An ACTIVE MEMBER of , Inc., Eta phi Sigma Alumni chapter of Hudson & Bergen Counties.

At the Voice of Silence Conference, Dr. Steele is a Co-Facilitator of "Barbershop Conversations". Come hear his perspectives...
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https://www.soeleadership.org/event-details/using-our-words-creating-an-emotionally-strong-and-safe-black-community

10/06/2025

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🟪 SOE FACILITATOR FEATURE 🟪
🌟🎉Meet TABITHA AZOR🎉🌟

Ms. Tabitha Azor is . . .
● A Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, Speaker & Faith Coach based in Brooklyn NY

● The Founder of NYC Healing Center, where she integrates biblical principles with proven therapeutic practices

● Specialist in relationship enrichment, divorce recovery, and women’s emotional health.

With a passion for seeing lives restored, Tabitha empowers others to cultivate self-love, emotional wellness, and deeper connections with themselves and others.

At the Voice of Silence Conference, she'll discuss how "The Whole Family Feels," so come hear about it:
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https://www.soeleadership.org/event-details/using-our-words-creating-an-emotionally-strong-and-safe-black-community

10/05/2025

❓️Where Do Our Youth Learn to REGULATE EMOTIONS❓️
. . Engage in & Cultivate HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS? . . SPEAK UP When Aggressive Behavior Goes Too Far?

https://youtu.be/NdpMcOxlGzI?si=OrVIfpYLTrdhPf2X

▪︎ They learn from watching adults.
▪︎ They learn from parental guidance.
▪︎ They learn from community influencers.

‼️We Have a Responsibility to Equip Ourselves & RAISE UP Our Village‼️
💜 Let Us -- Help You, Help Others! Register for Saturday, 10/18 💜

https://www.soeleadership.org/event-details/using-our-words-creating-an-emotionally-strong-and-safe-black-community

QUESTIONS? Contact Elder Pamela Robinson Smith @ [email protected].

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