08/23/2026
More vital info & resource for our partners working in school systems throughout our region - click & read 💜
**THAT PERFECT FIRST-DAY-OF-SCHOOL PHOTO MAY BE HIDING SOMETHING YOU CAN'T SEE.**
New backpack.
New clothes.
Big smile.
First-day picture.
But behind some of those smiles is a child who spent the night listening to chaos at home.
A child who walks into class exhausted because they didn't sleep.
A child who panics over a bad grade because they've learned that small mistakes can have frightening consequences.
Or a child who is perfectly behaved because staying quiet and doing everything "right" has become part of how they survive.
**Trauma doesn't stay home when the school bell rings.**
And neither does domestic violence.
Back-to-school season can bring new risks for survivors—from financial control and custody exchanges to monitored school communications and concerns about who is allowed to pick up a child.
That's why teachers, school staff, parents, and communities need to understand something important:
**Sometimes what looks like bad behavior is fear.**
Sometimes what looks like defiance is hypervigilance.
And sometimes the child who appears to be doing perfectly fine is the one struggling silently.
We cannot always see what a child carries inside their backpack.
**But we can learn to recognize when they may need someone to look a little closer.**
Read the full blog and learn more about back-to-school safety planning:
https://breakthesilencedv.org/?p=20619
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