09/16/2026
Hello all! As promised, here is a snippet from our founder's upcoming book. We hope you like it, and stay tuned there's more to come!
Introduction:
They say life is the survival of the fittest, and that only the strong survive. Well they definitely were honest about that. Let me tell you it seems from the very start of my life, I have always had to fight.
I mean, I know life is not easy and hasn’t been easy for any of us; we all have our troubles and stories. But sometimes, I wonder what life could have been like if I didn't have to endure struggles through most of my childhood and young adulthood. What would life as a child have been like with a mother who wasn’t addicted to drugs? What would it have been like to know my father, and to be protected rather than molested, abused, and neglected? I wondered how it felt to be loved unconditionally. I wonder what it would have felt like to have structure and guidance.
Of course, as a child, I asked myself why. Why me? What did I do to deserve a life of such strife, grief, and hurt? What would life have been like knowing I had a safe place to lay my head at night? What would it have been like to enjoy simple things like electricity and running water and not sleeping in abandoned houses and homeless shelters? These are the thoughts that consumed me as a child, and occasionally, they still cross my mind as an adult. Don’t get me wrong, my adulthood has had its faults, too.
However, I understand that the fight I endured as a child and as a young adult is what prepared me for the life I have now, and prepared me for any future adversity or adversaries. This story about my life is not about crying a river or asking for sympathy. It is about showing that even in the harshest conditions, one can survive. One can rise above. It is easy to give up, but it is the hardest to withstand the storm, especially when you are doing it alone.
This story, my story, is one I hope gives strength and inspiration to someone to never give up. Although it holds some heartbreaking times, there is eventually joy and triumph. I persevered, I excelled, and for that, I am thankful. My past did not define my present or my future; it prepared me for it.
To those of you who are reading this: “Never be a victim of your circumstances. Take a stance against your circumstances!”
— Vanessa Ross (Founder of Fostering Hope, Valentine’s Hope, and Hope for Health Equity)