10/15/2026
"But you look fine!"
Danene Charles understands why people say this to her. If you met her today, you probably wouldn't guess that she's living with the effects of a traumatic brain injury. She can carry on a conversation. She can get dressed, put on her makeup, go to church, spend time with her family. She looks the same as she did before her brain injury. What they don't see are the headaches. The fatigue. The noise sensitivity. The memory loss. The word retrieval issues.
When people say, "But you look fine," what Danene hopes they understand is that you cannot always see what a person is carrying just by looking at them.
What do you wish people understood about living with brain injury?