03/31/2026
At the Cross: Mourners
John 19:38-42
Shirley Windham
Death is the most bitter pill to swallow. Through our tears we mourn the loss of presence and relationship, of hopes and dreams.
Sometimes we mourn that which never was, or that which was never meant to be. Grief is highly skilled at ambushing us.
But then they show up. The mourners’ friends, family, church family, fellow-mourners as it were. They patiently line the pews and halls in order to take their turn whispering words of consolation, reassurance, and comfort. Gathering at graveside they declare yet again their only comfort in life and death is that they are not their own, but belong body and soul to their faithful Savior, Jesus Christ. At the funeral service of worship, singing, praying, preaching the word, and praising God who has made a way for sinners, bolsters the weary-hearted yet again. And afterward, if you live in Mississippi, the church ladies with their cavalry of casseroles, help to make mourning a bit more palatable. By God’s grace and through the hands of fellow mourners, the grieving receive a glimpse of joy restored. His friends held a funeral for Jesus. They showed up. That in itself is remarkable as Joseph of Arimathea and Nicodemus, the two friends, previously met with Jesus in secret or in the dark of night. For Jesus, a man of no early means, the tomb of a wealthy man was provided, thus fulfilling the prophecy of Isaiah 53:9. The two men, seemingly unaware these particular efforts would not be necessary, prepared his body for burial. And because it was the Jewish day of Preparation and the Sabbath was at hand, the mourners laid their friend in the tomb. We have no record that the women were there at that particular moment, or that any meal for mourners was served. Jesus’ memorial meal had already taken place in the upper room, and He had told His disciples, “You will weep and lament… You will be sorrowful, but your sorrow will turn to joy” (John 16:20). Death and grief made a way for sinners. For mourners Joseph and Nicodemus, for us, there can be joy in the mourning – for there will be joy in the morning.