10/14/2026
We have spent months sharing pieces of this case as carefully and as responsibly as we know how.
Today, we are sharing audio of LJ telling police not to speak to ACJ. Telling ACJ himself to not speak to police as he walked out the front door… Our family has listened to this more times than we can count. We still don't know how to fully put into words what it does to us every single time.
A 17 year old girl had just died. Our Addison Rose... And in those first raw minutes of ACJ waking up… before detectives had a chance to ask him a single question? Some of the first words spoken were “Do not talk to the police.”
We have watched this footage more times than we can count. We still don't fully know what to do with it. We just know it's there, and it's real, and it happened within the same hours our world ended.
We think about silence a lot. About how much weight it can hold, and how long it can be carried before it finally breaks something open.
We know silence can come from a lot of places. Fear. Instinct. Love, even- twisted into a shape that doesn't actually protect anyone.
We don't know which one this was, we’re not going to pretend we do. But we do know this… silence doesn't heal anything. It doesn't bring anyone back. It just sits there, year after year, getting heavier for everyone who's carrying it, whether they admit that weight or not.
We have carried our own kind of silence for over a year now. Not by choice. We have carried the silence of not knowing. Of asking the same questions into what has so often felt like an empty room. Of watching a calendar turn from October to November to December and into another October, still without the one thing we need most: the truth about what happened to the center of our world… the truth about what happened to Addison Rose.
To anyone who was in that house that night, or who has talked to someone who was: we are asking you, gently, honestly, from the most exhausted and most hopeful place we have left in us: please, help us carry this.
To anyone who has ever been told not to talk about this, or about anything: we understand how hard it is to go against that. We understand fear. We understand loyalty, even when loyalty gets pointed in the wrong direction. We are not asking you to betray anyone. We are asking you to consider that the truth, even now, even over a year later, is still the only thing that actually helps anyone heal. Including the people who are scared to tell it.
And to the public, reading this: if you have heard anything, seen anything, been told anything, even something that felt too small or too uncertain to mention… please say it out loud. To investigators, to us, to anyone who can do something with it. We have learned this year that the smallest detail can be the one that finally makes everything else make sense.
It has been over a year. Three hundred and some days of asking the same question and getting nothing back. Our family still doesn't know what happened to Addi Rose in the last hours of her life. And we believe somewhere someone does.
Addison deserved so much more than a year of silence. She deserved people who loved her to have the truth about how she left this world. She deserved for someone, somewhere, to finally say what happened.
Please. If you know anything. If you've heard anything. If some part of you has been carrying something this whole time — let it go. Let it finally be known.
And to LJ: Tell him to tell the truth. Whatever it is. We don't know what happened in that room any more than anyone else does, and maybe you don't either. But ACJ does. And every year that passes with him saying nothing is another year our family doesn't get to bury this the way we should have been able to a long time ago.
You called a lawyer before anyone asked you a single question. You told him not to talk… We are only asking you to consider whether that was really love… or whether it was fear wearing love's clothes.
It's been over a year. Tell him it's time.
She has waited long enough. We all have.
For Addison. Always.
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