Carol Rivest Memorial Foundation

Carol Rivest Memorial Foundation Our mission is to bring awareness of domestic violence, raise funds to provide education, and to promote healthy and happy relationships.

We are raising money in memory of Carol Diane Rivest, a very funny and charming mother, daughter, sister and friend. She would light up a room with her bright smile and dimples. Carol had many friends who loved her zest for life and adventurous personality. At the young age of 22 she was shot and killed by her estranged boyfriend and father of her young son. May 11, 1982 was a shocking and tragic

day for the Rivest family and their close friends. Though this devastating incident was decades ago, the family is still affected by Carol’s loss and they continue to heal to this day. Domestic violence continues to be a serious issue raising concern in society. Many women are abused and many lives are taken too soon. Please join us in our effort to raise awareness of domestic violence and abuse. Proceeds from our event will benefit Asnuntuck Community College Women’s Enrichment program in Enfield CT, Womanshelter/ Companeras in Holyoke, MA and The Palmer Domestic Violence Task Force. All agencies work with and for victims and their families, providing support and shelter. Most importantly these wonderful agencies educate the community to help recognize, fight against and end domestic violence.

08/14/2026

I used to make excuses for other people’s behavior. Which allowed others to mistreat me. Shifting from excuses to clear expectations is a powerful way to reclaim your time, energy, and peace of mind. When we stop accepting or making excuses, we teach people how to treat us.

Thank you Karen and The Network for all you do! CRMF is a proud sponsor.
07/29/2026

Thank you Karen and The Network for all you do! CRMF is a proud sponsor.

Karen Foley O'Connor, CEO of The Network in Enfield, discusses domestic violence resources in the state.

07/11/2026

✨Acceptance and awareness are key✨

After 11 years of hosting fundraising events and storing Carol Rivest Memorial Foundation supplies, clothing donations, ...
07/07/2026

After 11 years of hosting fundraising events and storing Carol Rivest Memorial Foundation supplies, clothing donations, and raffle prizes in my dining room, spare bedroom and basement, we are thrilled to announce that CRMF finally has a headquarters!

This has been a dream of mine for a few years—a dedicated space where we can hold board meetings, accept donations of clothing, household items, and raffle prizes, organize our programs, and host small community events. We look forward to welcoming everyone to our Open House this fall.

A very special thank you to my husband, Dave, for generously sharing his game room/carriage house with CRMF. For months, he poured his energy into transforming the space. He installed a mini-split system, added galvanized wainscoting, carefully sanded and whitewashed each barn board, and reconfigured the garage doors from overhead to beautiful swing-open doors. He gave up many weekends at camp to bring this vision to life. Your love, patience, and hard work made this possible, and I am grateful.

A special Thank you to Cutting Edge Installations Inc. for your generosity in donating your time, material professionalism, and exceptional craftsmanship on the epoxy flooring. It completely transformed the room, brightening the space and bringing everything together beautifully. Brenda Duggan, thank you for your incredible team. Brian did an outstanding job leading the project, and Jay DeGray took great pride in repairing the cracked concrete edges before the flooring was installed. His dedication and attention to detail will always be remembered.

Thank you to Andy Hayward for removing the popcorn ceiling, skim coating, and painting it. The beautiful ceiling, combined with the new flooring, gave the room an entirely new life.

A heartfelt thank you to Jess Riley of Farmhouse Pehr for your talent and eye for design. Your thoughtful finishing touches made the space feel warm, welcoming, and complete.

Thank you also to Roger, Scott, Katie, Kyle, Jesse, and yes—even me—for assembling and moving the furniture. I may have tackled the coffee tables and chairs, but this project truly was a team effort. We are incredibly grateful to everyone who took part with their talents, and support to make this vision a reality.

As beautiful as this project has been, it was completed during a heartbreaking time in our lives.

On April 14, 2026, Cutting Edge Installations installer, Jason Degray unexpectedly passed away. He was a kind person, and I feel fortunate to have met him and witnessed the pride he took in his work.

On May 13, 2026, we lost my mother-in-law, Walterine Deraleau.

Then, on June 24, 2026, we said goodbye to my mother, Sandra Rivest.

I share these losses because resilience is at the heart of the Carol Rivest Memorial Foundation. Every day, we encourage others to keep moving forward through heartbreak, grief, and life’s unexpected challenges. While it is important to take the time we need to mourn those we love, it is equally important to continue living with purpose and hope.

Completing this headquarters became a reminder that even in the midst of sorrow, healing is possible. We can grieve deeply while still building something meaningful for others. I know my mom would have been proud to see this project become a reality. She and my mother in law Wally were supportive of CRMF and often donated clothing or housewares to the domestic violence shelters.

This headquarters is more than just a building. It is a place where hope will grow, programs will be planned and our community can come together, and Carol’s legacy will continue to make a difference.

From the bottom of our hearts, thank you to everyone who has supported CRMF over the past 11 years. Because of your kindness, generosity, and belief in our mission, we are ready for this next chapter.

Sheila Rivest CRMF Director

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04/26/2026

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04/25/2026

Please say her name: Emma Pasterczyk!
Another young woman taken too soon at the hands of her spouse. When will people care enough to make a difference? Many victims live in silence, more afraid of judgement than the fear of abuse. Be aware, make a change, be there and be kind. RIP Emma Pasterczyk. Our heartfelt condolences to all who knew and loved Emma. Especially her daughter.

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PO BOX 552
Monson, MA
01057

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