05/26/2026
Gregg Krech has been writing a book about crisis for several years now. During that same stretch, he's been moving through several personal crises of his own, which has given him the unusual experience of studying something while living it.
In a new piece this week, he shares what he keeps coming back to:
A crisis isn't really about what happened. It's about the gap between what's being asked of us and what we believe we have to meet it with. Two people can face the same diagnosis, the same loss, the same upheaval, and experience it in completely different ways.
And what surprises most people: when researchers follow individuals through serious crises, the most common outcome isn't lasting trauma. It's resilience.
Most people find their way back to solid ground. A meaningful number come out stronger, wiser, more compassionate than before.
That's not the cultural story we've been telling lately. The definition of trauma has expanded so broadly that some now suggest 90% of us are carrying it. Most of the research disagrees.
, what's your experience been in your own life, or in the lives of people you've watched move through hard things? Read Gregg's perspective in the latest issue of Drops of Wisdom. Link in comments.