Al-Anon/Alateen Family Groups 209

Al-Anon/Alateen Family Groups 209 Al-Anon/Alateen has but one purpose: to help families and friends of alcoholics within the 209 area code and beyond. There are no dues for membership. Note:
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The Al-Anon Family Groups are a fellowship of relatives and friends of alcoholics who share their experience, strength, and hope in order to solve their common problems. We believe alcoholism is a family illness and that changed attitudes can aid recovery. Al-Anon is not allied with any sect, denomination, political entity, organization, or institution; does not engage in any controversy; neither

endorses nor opposes any cause. Al-Anon is self-supporting through its own voluntary contributions. Al-Anon has but one purpose: to help families of alcoholics. We do this by practicing the Twelve Steps, by welcoming and giving comfort to families of alcoholics, and by giving understanding and encouragement to the alcoholic. Membership in Al-Anon Family Groups is neither assumed nor implied for visitors or followers of this page. LinkedIn account holders who are Al-Anon members are asked to avoid disclosure of their Al-Anon membership as followers of the Al-Anon/Alateen Family Groups 209's LinkedIn page. Thank you for helping to uphold Al-Anon's principle of Thank you for helping to uphold Al-Anon's principle of anonymity at the media level.

2. AFG, Inc. cooperates with professionals but does not endorse or recommend professional viewpoints. Comments posted by LinkedIn members are the personal opinions of these members and do not reflect the opinions of the AFG, Inc. Comments posted by LinkedIn members are the personal opinions of these members and do not reflect the opinions of the Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc. In keeping with Al-Anon's Twelve Traditions, the Al-Anon Family Groups are not affiliated or allied with any organization or entity.. In keeping with Al-Anon's Twelve Traditions, the Al-Anon Family Groups are not affiliated or allied with any organization or entity.

“I believe that [Al-Anon Family Group’s] Steps are a pathway to healing. Even Step Five, which once scared me, led to de...
06/09/2026

“I believe that [Al-Anon Family Group’s] Steps are a pathway to healing. Even Step Five, which once scared me, led to deeper recovery. However, before I could begin working the Steps, I needed unconditional love from the people of Al-Anon. As I accepted their love, I started to feel hope—the hope that I could be happy again someday. Only then was I ready to work the Steps.”
“Step Five—A Pathway to Healing,” “The Forum,” May 2026

Al-Anon’s Twelve Steps are the beginning of healing for those seeking recovery from the effects of someone else’s drinking. If you’re new to Al-Anon Family Groups and are curious about how members have used the Steps in their recovery journey, check out the “Recovery Through The Steps” blog.
If you’re a member, consider sharing your experience, strength, and hope on one of your favorite Steps – or maybe your not so favorite Step… (You know, the one you dreaded, feared, and put off taking, but eventually yielded the biggest growth in your recovery… 😉 that one…)
🔹 https://al-anon.org/blog/category/the-steps/

06/07/2026
“I believe that [Al-Anon Family Group’s] Steps are a pathway to healing. Even Step Five, which once scared me, led to de...
06/06/2026

“I believe that [Al-Anon Family Group’s] Steps are a pathway to healing. Even Step Five, which once scared me, led to deeper recovery. However, before I could begin working the Steps, I needed unconditional love from the people of Al-Anon. As I accepted their love, I started to feel hope—the hope that I could be happy again someday. Only then was I ready to work the Steps.”
“Step Five—A Pathway to Healing,” “The Forum,” May 2026
Al-Anon’s Twelve Steps are the beginning of healing for those seeking recovery from the effects of someone else’s drinking. If you’re new to Al-Anon Family Groups and are curious about how members have used the Steps in their recovery journey, check out the “Recovery Through The Steps” blog.
If you’re a member, consider sharing your experience, strength, and hope on one of your favorite Steps – or maybe your not so favorite Step… (You know, the one you dreaded, feared, and put off taking, but eventually yielded the biggest growth in your recovery… 😉 that one…)
🔹 https://al-anon.org/blog/category/the-steps/

“Al-Anon Family Groups have helped me break negative behaviors I learned from my biological family so that I am able to ...
06/02/2026

“Al-Anon Family Groups have helped me break negative behaviors I learned from my biological family so that I am able to provide healthier role modeling for my kids. I keep coming back because my days are easier and anxiety is less with the help of Al-Anon’s Twelve Steps and the support of the fellowship.”
~ Anonymous Al-Anon Member
2021 Al-Anon Membership Survey

“‘It is our attitudes, not our relationships, which can keep us trapped in the past. If we choose to be resentful and un...
05/30/2026

“‘It is our attitudes, not our relationships, which can keep us trapped in the past. If we choose to be resentful and unhappy, it is not the fault of anyone else.’ [‘Discovering Choices, p. 171] The first time I read this, it felt as if my Higher Power hit me over the head with a cosmic two-by-four! It was painfully illuminating. I return to this chapter again and again. It reminds me I can no longer justify blaming the alcoholics and other people in my life for my misery. The solution is to return my focus to myself and to my program.”
“Remembering to Choose Happiness,” “The Forum,” May 2026
Al-Anon’s book, “Discovering Choices,” is all about recovery in our relationships. Members share their experience, strength, and hope about how they have used the program to improve all of their relationships, not just with their alcoholic loved ones. Read a sample at:
🔹 https://al-anon.org/blog/discovering-choices/

Volunteers needed!
05/26/2026

Volunteers needed!

“One of my worst fears when I was raising my children was that I was a bad mom. So, it was painful to hear my adult daug...
05/25/2026

“One of my worst fears when I was raising my children was that I was a bad mom. So, it was painful to hear my adult daughter’s angry words on the phone… She took the occasion to blame me for her recent episode and her unhappy life. She expressed complete rejection of me as a mother. Thanks to Al-Anon, I had the detachment to know it was the disease talking. After ending the call as civilly as I could, I decided to look more closely at this fear. I remembered hearing in an Al-Anon meeting that fear stands for ‘False Evidence Appearing Real.’ So, what is the truth? What are the facts?
“The first fact is that I love my daughter—deeply—and I still do. As a mother, I did the best I could and continue to do so with the help of
Al-Anon and God. The second fact is that my daughter has a mental health issue, and she abuses alcohol. She is not in a recovery program. I learned a third fact in Al-Anon literature: Alcoholics tend to distract and blame others to justify their continued drinking… I will never be the perfect mom. But I am—with the help of Al-Anon…better able to love my daughter through this crisis. And I believe this is what moms do.”
“Not a Perfect Mom,” “The Forum,” May 2026
You can read articles by members who are parents concerned about their children at:
🔹 https://al-anon.org/.../how-can-i-help-my/alcoholic-child/

May 2026 NCWSA AssemblyWyndham Sacramento5321 Date AvenueSacramento, CA 95841Saturday, May 23 and Sunday, May 24 2026Tel...
05/12/2026

May 2026 NCWSA Assembly

Wyndham Sacramento
5321 Date Avenue
Sacramento, CA 95841
Saturday, May 23 and Sunday, May 24 2026
Telephone (916) 338-5800
When calling identify yourself as being with NCWSA May 2026 Assembly

“When my brother came home drunk, I would make a big deal about it and cry a lot. After I started coming to Alateen, I r...
05/09/2026

“When my brother came home drunk, I would make a big deal about it and cry a lot. After I started coming to Alateen, I realized there was nothing I could do to change the choices that my brother made.”
“Gaining Perspective in Alateen,” “The Forum” May 2017
Alateen is a Twelve Step program for teenagers affected by someone else’s alcoholism. Find out more about the program: https://bit.ly/2GoqASj

Alcoholism is a disease that affects not only the alcoholic, but also the alcoholic's family. According to Gallop, 32% o...
05/05/2026

Alcoholism is a disease that affects not only the alcoholic, but also the alcoholic's family. According to Gallop, 32% of Americans say that someone else’s drinking has caused problems in their lives. In other words, 103,693,000 people in the U.S. can benefit from support available in local Al-Anon groups. Al-Anon members, perhaps unlike anyone else, identify with each other because they have all dealt with similar situations related to the family disease of alcoholism.
Find out more about Al-Anon at:
https://bit.ly/3jDPexb

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