06/05/2026
If you want to help someone forgive, use the "Can you - will you - when" technique. It establishes their ability to forgive, then whether they will forgive. It is so easy to use and creates a structure that helps someone determine how they are thinking.
Obviously, the technique is useful with almost anything that you know a person has the ability to do. So, everyone has the ability to forgive, but on the other hand, not everyone has the ability to be a world-class tennis player.
"If your brother sins against you...forgive him. And if he sins against you seven times in a day...you shall forgive him" - Luke 17:3-4
One of my favorite topics in the Bible is forgiveness. It is also one of the essential tools for all relationships, if you want your relationships to be GR8!
Learn how to harness the ability to forgive with the 'Can you - will you - when' technique for better relationships.