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Thoughts from the War on Scams ...

I recently heard from a friend who was applying for a new position and was declined because of that was discovered - which presumably was obtained through a . Not only was his violated with the data breach, but increasingly employers are doing searches for information about employees and prospective employees!

It is bad enough that they are now basing decisions on social media, but if there are thousands of a year then really nothing is safe!

Are we living in a new witch trial era? Where you are burned at the stake, not just because of what you say, but because of data that may be contained in different websites and services?

I challenge anyone to list all of the accounts they have created over the years? Hundreds, thousands? Most websites want your data before they will let you even see what they really do! Have you kept track of all of them and what they might mean to others looking into your activities?

Yet that is now the world we seem to live in!

The Supreme Court just said you cannot litigate against a data breach, you have to wait until you are actually harmed, but by them how do you connect it to a specific data breach? If your identity is stolen or you are impersonated, how do you KNOW where the information came from?

The situation is so far beyond being out of control it is ridiculous. It is almost like we are living in a civilization that demands human sacrifice and we are just blindly accepting it. What is worst still, our governments are not taking any responsibility for this situation. We even have laws (Section 230) that give these companies immunity if you entered your data yourself.

Something has to change.

This is only going to get worse, and there is no effective way to opt-out after the fact.

Data breaches and identity theft, financial fraud and scams, and the trauma these bring are a given now. Can we trust LifeLock to save us?

In my opinion, there are three parallel approaches that should be considered.

1. Penalties for any business that does not have your recurring permission to contain your data. They must disclose what they have and obtain your permission on a frequent basis to continue to hold it.

2. Employers must disclose what their background searches showed and give prospective employees an opportunity to counter or contest it.

3. We need a new identity verification system, probably based upon blockchain - that verifies the identity of every person on the planet. Which will be the lesser of the two evils? Big brother or everyone at risk of identity theft with everything that brings? For those of us that live in the real world, our identities and reputation are everything! We must find a way to defend them.

How much longer can we accept this current situation?

Just saying ...

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The Law of Parsimony and Scam Victims

This might sound harsh at first. It might even feel like blame. That is not what this is. This is about helping you understand the mistakes and false beliefs that many scam victims develop after the scam ends. These beliefs are not your fault. They are part of how trauma distorts thinking. Recognizing them is how you begin to recover properly.

One of the most common effects seen in scam victims is that when the scam ends, the belief in fantasies/magical thinking does not.

You might not realize it, but hanging onto unrealistic ideas is one of the main reasons people get scammed again.

Rescamming happens because victims look for magical solutions, shortcuts, or simple answers that do not reflect reality.

Here are some examples of these dangerous fairy tales:

• Believing that exposing scammers will shame them into stopping or magically get them arrested

• Thinking that scam baiting will somehow slow scams down or stop scammers altogether

• Refusing to report to the police because you think the police never do anything and scammers are never arrested

• Hating scammers as if anger will protect you from being scammed again or help you recover faster

• Believing that scammers brainwashed or hypnotized you because there had to be some deep mental trick at work

• Telling yourself you do not need recovery because you are fine and you just need to get over it

• Thinking that you were not traumatized and that you will be just fine on your own

• Assuming that being a victim makes you an expert because you know what happened and have read a few articles

• Believing that nonprofits asking for donations are just more scammers because you think everything should be free

• Deciding you will go to Africa to get your money back because you believe the scammer gave you real names and addresses

These are just a few of the common false beliefs seen in scam victims. SCARS has helped nearly 8 million scam victims over the last seven years, and these ideas come up over and over.

The truth is simpler. Scams have not stopped. Scammers have not slowed down. Arrests are happening more often than ever before, but law enforcement cannot reach every scammer immediately.

Anger destroys your chances of real recovery. Traveling to confront scammers gets people killed. Joining hate groups online only spreads more false information and traps you in cycles of frustration and misinformation.

Too many victims cannot let go of these ideas. When you do not get help early on, the false beliefs grow stronger. They can turn into deeper trauma responses or lead to more serious psychological problems.

The fact is, the simplest answers are usually the right ones. This is called the Law of Parsimony. In plain terms, it means the simplest explanation is usually correct. Scam recovery is no different.

That is why SCARS exists. Our mission is to help scam victims debunk these false ideas and guide you through real recovery. Scams are a complex crime, and almost every scam victim is seriously traumatized by the experience.

No matter what you believe right now, trauma does not just go away on its own. It stays with you unless you actively work to heal it. That is why we always recommend that scam victims find a local trauma counselor. A professional therapist can help you face the reality of what happened and begin the healing process with the right tools.

If you are reading this and you believe one of these urban legends, we hope you can pause and ask yourself why. We hope you can open your mind enough to recognize that you might need help.

Sadly, the statistics show that most scam victims do not recover fully because they never reach out for help. Just like with addiction, denial keeps you stuck.

You have a choice right now. You can hold onto the urban legends, or you can make a commitment to real recovery. We can help you get there. We will help you get there. But you have to be willing to listen and to face reality.

No one can help you if you do not want help. If you do want help, we are here. Just send us a message. We will walk with you through the recovery process. If you would rather continue believing the false stories, that is your choice. We wish you the best either way.

We hope you choose recovery. We hope you choose reality.

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