10/02/2026
October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month.
And there is one phrase I wish we would stop saying:
“Why doesn’t she just leave?”
Just leave and go where?
Put yourself there for a minute. Some of you don’t have to imagine it. You’ve been there.
Imagine living in a home where you’ve learned to stay quiet to keep the peace. Where you calculate what you say, how you say it, what mood someone is in before you walk into a room.
Maybe the abuse is physical.
Maybe it’s emotional.
Maybe it’s mental.
Maybe nobody has ever put their hands on you, but they’ve spent years making sure you believe you are incapable of surviving without them.
And eventually, silence becomes survival.
Then one day you finally think “I have to get out, but…”
you have children.
You need somewhere all of you can go.
You need money.
You need deposits.
You need transportation.
You need somewhere safe enough that the person you’re leaving cannot simply show up.
And underneath all of those practical things is something people don’t see is that You have to convince yourself that you can actually do it!
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