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We are also passionate about educating the public, as well as clinicians, about these conditions since trauma-informed care is all too rare.

We are dedicated to providing survivors of childhood trauma with both the access to and funding for ongoing therapy and/or inpatient care – while creating professional and public awareness for Complex PTSD and Dissociative Disorders. Beauty After Bruises’ fundraising efforts help survivors with Complex PTSD and Dissociative Disorders improve and maintain their quality of life by providing funding for regular ongoing therapy sessions and, when available, hospitalization expenses as they arise. Our page provides encouragement for everyone, not just survivors!

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10/19/2026

What if you loved yourself the same way you love others? ...the way you wished another could love you? What if you let those buds burst and bloom inside your own chest? Fill every hollow hole you dug into it at one point and watch those seeds of forgiveness and self-compassion blossom into something brilliant.
Put down the hose, love.
You are the garden.
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Graphic quote Glen Martin Taylor

10/16/2026

None of us were really set up for success when it comes to appreciating the skin we're in. But for trauma survivors, a deep sense of body betrayal can erupt in an instant. It unearths a series of painful convictions: our body failed us...it didn't do what it was supposed to do, what we needed it to do – no – what we depended on it to do. It got us hurt and continues the suffering every time it misfires or fights against our best efforts to heal. The damage taken in those initial blows can shove us firmly behind enemy lines, staring each other down. Pulling at, tearing apart, or abandoning each other in the dirt.
We can call truce today.
The scars placed on us were given by a common enemy. Those we did inflict on ourselves were bred from that enemy's poison: trauma. Toxic lies that distorted our vision and tricked us into believing IT was to blame - not them. How convenient.
Many of us believed if we just bent and twisted our bodies up, or even tore them to pieces, it would mold like clay into a problem we could actually solve. ...or, at worst, it'd just fade away altogether. Then we'd be "free". But, we were lied to. Made to do the enemy's bidding. Wound up like a toy and pointed toward a mirror. Set off to destroy evidence they were there.
You can turn around.
And disarm.
You're on the same team. ...as you were always to be.
Your body did nothing wrong.
It was just raised on inhospitable lands, fed faulty instructions on how to survive.
It doesn't know how to breathe in a garden.
When you go to offer it kindness and rest, and it recoils?
It is not broken.
It is not bad.
It is not betrayal.
It is merely bruised...tender, scared and small.
It's learning to trust you, too.
A bruise only hurts a moment...then scatters and fades after the gentle care of nurturing hands.
Keep reaching.
This is what healing looks like.
Let it become so very alive in that shaky spine.
Stand tall. Tall, secure, and free.
Supported by one another.
Allies.
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10/14/2026

Dssociation is a beautiful, intelligent, and highly adaptive skill.
It makes everything from the painfully mundane to the horrifically traumatic more survivable. It also offers the gift of diluting physical pain, holding back overwhelming emotions, compartmentalizing daily stressors or difficult memories, and so much more.
When dissociation is unmanaged, though, its consequences can range anywhere from frustrating to life-limiting, scary, or even dangerous. What are survivors to do when their best symptom management skills just aren’t cutting it, they’ve lost a sense of agency or control over their lives, and/or a higher level of care is on the horizon? One useful tool exists! It's called a 15-minute Grounding Checksheet!
To learn how to use it, the situations for when it's most appropriate, tips for when you’re stuck, AND to download your own fillable PDF version(!) - head to our complete article here:
📋 beautyafterbruises.org/blog/15minchecksheet 📝
You can also learn more about unmanaged dissociation broadly - what it may look like, other tools you can try in the meantime, and more. We also fully support therapists and care providers making this available to their clients. Feel free to share it with colleagues as well. Healing tools should be for everyone!
Happy charting 'n tracking!
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10/12/2026

Neuroplasticity is a glorious, beautiful, hope-filled thing!

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["Neuroplasticity is the brain's ability to change and adapt due to experience. It is an umbrella term referring to the brain's ability to change, reorganize, or grow neural networks. This can involve functional changes due to brain damage or structural changes due to learning.
Plasticity refers to the brain's malleability or ability to change; it does not imply that the brain is plastic. Neuro refers to neurons, the nerve cells that are the building blocks of the brain and nervous system. Thus, neuroplasticity allows nerve cells to change or adjust.
Today, it's understood that the brain's neuroplasticity allows it to reorganize pathways, create new connections, and, in some cases, even create new neurons." — Kendra Cherry, MSEd]

10/10/2026

Gathering statistics on childhood sexual abuse is extraordinarily difficult. It hinges on disclosure – something most adult survivors are not able to do in their lifetimes. For the tiny souls who aren't even fully able to understand what's happened to them, the chances of them successfully verbalizing it to another are painfully slim. This means millions upon millions go uncounted.
Despite all this - as well as the endless differences in study design, methods of obtaining disclosure, the parameters around how they define or measure what constitutes abuse, the degree to which participants felt safe to share their most vulnerable selves with researchers, and so much more - several trends continue to emerge time and time again.
It is up to us to sit with this sobering information – to consider what it means and how it presents itself in our own communities. In our circles of friends and family. ...because it is tragically alive there, too. Only when we're brave enough to confront the magnitude of, and reasons behind, these horrific issues can we begin seeking lasting solutions. To implement prevention strategies. To provide healing to those already hurting. To ensure accountability.
It's time. We can be that change today.
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10/08/2026

No one can deny that life's become increasingly difficult for so much of the world. It's been exceptionally activating for trauma survivors -.whose lives are being echoed again and again in nearly every story that rises to the top. So, what can you do to show up for yourself today?
Take an early lunch or leave work right on time?
Get a fancier coffee or a little treat on your lunch break?
Watch a comedy set, comfort movie, or special show tonight?
Make a pillow fort out of your bedroom? (You've got adult furniture and strength now! Annnd access to EVERY sheet and pillow in the house!)
Take a bath? Use the fancy skin care tonight?
Finish a project in the garage?
Turn off your phone for a full hour or more?
Put a Do Not Disturb reply to your emails or texts for the evening?
Take an afternoon nap?
Go for a walk outside?
Spend 15 minutes just playing with your pet?
Have an ordered-in dinner OR cook an extra fancy one?
Turn on some music and just sway, dance, or belt it out?
Or, maybe you need to do some journaling, art, or internal communication with yourself and/or parts inside?
What are those extra healing, restorative, or simply fun things you can do for YOU?! What do you NEED? Take inventory now. Where are the gaps and what are some creative ways you can fill them? (If ya just aren't sure, don't worry, we've got an article for that, too! 101 Self-Care Techniques! Let us know if ya need it!)
We'll be thinking of you today and encouraging you to be extra gentle and supportive of yourself. If you need more stabilizing tools first, don't hesitate to share. Our community would no doubt love to help you where we can. That is taking care of you to the highest degree. You matter.
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10/01/2026

Vulnerable. Such a loaded, heavy, terrifying, beautiful, complicated word. It's what makes life its most rich and honest, but also its scariest - leaving us wide open to pain and crushing devastation.
Culturally, we shame vulnerability - view it as weakness, pitiable - particularly in men, folks of color, and other groups expected to maintain a stiff upper lip. Hold it together; be tough; keep your feelings, desires, and experiences to yourself. But, in reality, softening the edges, showing your authentic emotions, letting others see the real you, and letting them inside takes an *extraordinary* amount of strength.
It requires so much courage to allow yourself to be affected by the world. To fully know your own emotions in their rawest forms.
To depend on someone or something outside yourself.
To lay your heart in another's hands.
To be present with someone and feel what they are.
To ask for help or admit you can't do it on your own.
There are countless practical reasons to resist vulnerability - especially in dangerous environments. Doing so when you were young may even be the only reason you're alive today. But now, the walls we build to keep others out, are trapping us in - blocking out life's colors, holding us prisoner to pain and keeping us so very alone.
If you feel able, try saying these words with us today. ...even if you're not so sure yet:
I am allowed to cry.
I am allowed to feel...to be angry...to be seen...to discover what lives within me.
I am allowed to ask for help...to recognize my limits...to admit my weaknesses...to ask questions and grow.
I am allowed to be need.
I am allowed to be.vulnerable.
I am allowed to be human.
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09/18/2026

What an exciting, special and heartwarming day to welcome in so much vibrant encouragement for our complex trauma survivors! The positively beautiful souls at Tiny and Snail sent this spectacular collection of cards to make sure every recipient of a Therapy Box knows just how much personalized support is behind them. From the sentimental to the silly, there is a card for every type of survivor who comes into our care. We cannot wait to tuck them into each Box!
The truest generosity continues to pour in from small businesses who see a need and rush to fill it with their earnest belief that our survivors deserve nothing less. Their thoughful note to our team reaffirmed that. We hope that you'll spend some time perusing their stunning art and spread the love - be it to a fellow survivor in your life, a loved one in need, or even yourselves. We also imagine we'll be bringing a few of these along to conferences where many of you love to write personal notes of encouragement to those having to face this healing journey alone.
Thank you so much Tiny and Snail. Your hearts and the hope you wish to put into the world are infectious. And, stay tuned for a video tomorrow to take a closer look at this glorious collection!
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09/16/2026

With many of us feeling the fatigue and heartsickness of so much world grief, now more than ever we want to remind you not to forget to care for YOU, too.We know many of you also feel every ache and pain of another long before seeking to meet your own needs. This is a theme for many trauma survivors. It can even become unhealthy – from people-pleasing to obsessive caretaking, overextending, or being unable to recognize your limits. When it comes to larger crises or emergencies, some of these already-present tendencies can get kicked into overdrive.
We want to take a pause and timeline cleanse to encourage all of you - survivors, supporters, big feelers, and everyone in between - to make sure you take inventory of how YOU are. Is your cup full, bone dry, cracked? We can't be very effective helpers when we're starving, overburdened, sleep-deprived, or in a traumatized place ourselves. It can even be dangerous to try. ...for all of you.
We as humans weren't built to be confronted with the kinds of mass tragedy we've been exposed to in endless succession the last few years. Certainly not daily. With the internet, multi-angled views, and countless first-person videos of every conceivable horror, it personalizes things in such a way you're now a bystander to trauma daily - from your living room. ...sometimes live as it's occurring.
We deeply understand the need to stay informed. But, it is not only okay to step back, turn off your phone, go do something fun, or avoid looking at the news for a bit, it's a necessity to your wellbeing. It also enables you TO help and, most of all, be EFFECTIVE with that aid when you're ready and able to give it. Otherwise we're just adding to the noise, standing in the way, or giving the rescuers a second person to save.
We always want to be a voice that encourages people to care more deeply and to help anywhere they can. We even ask that people NOT look away from hard things from time to time. But, as the ole adage goes, you have to put your oxygen mask on first. ....otherwise who's going to hand the wounded theirs?
We are sending all our love to every survivor and their loved ones. We hope for true wellness and healing - both today and for the wounds that remain long after the physical impact subsides. We also want to share nothing but love and appreciation to the wonderful art of France Corbel - - who allowed us to share another piece of her work with you. Her art always has a powerful message and you should definitely send her the love and compassion she deserves! Love is the bandage.
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09/16/2026

We just wanted to share with the main audience the generosity, creativity, and healing that continues to flow through special donors to the Therapy Box Project. Small companies like this deserve our love, and our survivors who would otherwise go without also deserve some extra love and compassion today! Thank you, A Brighter Year!
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Address

275 Cumberland Parkway Plaza #255
Mechanicsburg, PA
17055

Telephone

(717) 461-9916

Website

http://BeautyAfterBruises.org/

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