09/16/2024
The 15th anniversary of my ordination was actually one month ago today--life was just too 'rich and full' at that moment to pause and reflect upon the occasion. (The occasion itself was a hot, muggy day and I was midway through pregnancy with my eldest and trying to navigate how to wear a robe that didn't 'breathe' particularly well for the length of the service. I have a much more summer-friendly robe these days).
Most of my ministry vocation has been on a non-traditional path, for which I am profoundly grateful. I was technically a second-career minister, after four years overseas as an international human rights worker and interfaith peacemaker. It was a rough landing of sorts into a Chicago seminary community after the expat life and especially after evacuating Baghdad after a year of investigating what the world would later come to know as the Abu Ghraib scandal (hence the need to evacuate once everything really started to come to light and peoples' very understandable resulting anger in response). However, Chicago was a good place for me to continue to be involved in ecumenical and interfaith work, as well as to make friends from around the world.
In fifteen years, unfortunately, some things are still not as changed as I'd hoped they'd be by now-- for example, the closer a pastor is to the 'straight, cisgender, White, male, non-disabled, neurotypical ideal' that many congregations seek, even in the moderate-to-progressive mainline denominations, the more quickly and easily they tend to be ordained, find calls, stay in those calls, and move into positions of leadership or better-paying roles with greater levels of stability. By each degree removed from that ideal, my colleagues tend to struggle. Some are only just now recently finding jobs that are considered 'ordainable calls.' Others have given up entirely, even though they were incredibly gifted and skilled, because of the way they were treated and rejected. I'm still hanging in there, and I am grateful for the congregation I serve part-time, who love me, and love my family, even though they are a tiny rural parish and know their days are limited. I have really found their honesty about who they are and making their time count in the world while they can through acts of service to be refreshing, and it is the happiest I have been in parish ministry so far. I thought they would need to cut back from 1/2 time to 1/4 time for next year but they are going to try to hang in there for the time being. I cannot begin to tell you what enormous faith and courage this takes, and how unusual this is to find in congregations these days.
I also continue to serve as a part time (PRN, or 'per need') chaplain for both our local hospital and Hospice program, and am on-call 4-5 nights per week, often with the pager overnight. I've recently cut back from 1-2 evenings in-house, which is helpful now that the kids are in more activities. I'm looking forward to developing a Hospice community engagement program this fall. I'm also looking forward to spending a bit of time subbing again, most likely out at Pinecrest where I worked when I first came back to Mason City eight years ago. (Pinecrest is our area school for students who have behavioral health concerns that cannot be fully accommodated in a less restrictive/ general education environment, and includes students who are in care at Four Oaks, our area PMIC (psychiatric medical institute for children).
Last week, I submitted a chapter telling the story of the Neurodiversity-Affirming Congregations project and finding our own way as a Neurodivergent family, to the Autism Society of Iowa; and I was delighted to receive word that our group, North Iowa Welcome Wagon, received our grant to help welcome refugees, a project many years in the making and finally nearing fruition.
Locally, I am co-chairing the North Iowa Diversity Appreciation Team, and we are getting ready for our annual Ethnic Luncheon this Friday. We're also getting ready for our annual Diversity Art and Writing Contest, and an All-City Reading project. Later this week we also kick off the year for the Mason City Ministerial Association and welcome our new clergy to the area. Meanwhile, the amazing Meg Markos has now fully taken on the Festival planning aspects of Mason City, IA LGBTQ Pride, and I am now able to focus on my preferred role of Community Care/ Chaplain.
Meanwhile, I am learning the Leadership Team role for the Advocacy Committee on Women and Gender Justice for the PC(USA). I have learned so much since joining in 2023, especially in preparing for this past summer's General Assembly, and participating in the consultation on the Ordination Exams a year ago. We've accomplished a lot, and we also have a long ways to go... but it gives me a great deal of hope in the future of the PC(USA), and for a future for mainline/ progressive Christians ecumenically...
I take baby steps forward on writing, composing, publishing when I can. I have the really lovely gift of some office space waiting for me this fall, for which I am profoundly grateful. I am also looking forward to continuing to grow the Iowa Faith Leadership Network, the Center for Faith and Peacemaking, and the Peace Center of North Iowa. I hope that part of that journey will include some form of an ecumenical/ interfaith friendly, nonviolent peacemaking/ worship community in North Iowa that is fully LGBTQIA+ inclusive, perhaps in due time.
Many thanks to you all who have been companions along this journey, and may we continue to sojourn together for many years more!