08/12/2026
One of the things people may not always see or understand about ministry is how heartbreaking it can be when you’ve walked alongside someone for years, watched them overcome so much, and seen their life begin to come together, only to watch addiction pull them back into the very things they had fought so hard to escape.
Sometimes there are deep wounds and inner struggles that were never fully dealt with, or maybe they just weren’t ready to receive the healing and freedom they needed. And as painful as it is, we have to remind ourselves that we can love people, encourage them, pray for them, point them to Jesus, and walk beside them, but we cannot make their choices for them.
What keeps us going is knowing that the seeds planted were not wasted. The love shown was not wasted. The prayers were not wasted. They have experienced the love of God through us, and no matter how far they may wander, those seeds are still there.
Our job is to love, serve, plant, water, and pray. God is the One who brings the increase. Sometimes we may never get to see the rest of their story.
But it still hurts. When you truly love the people you serve, their victories become precious to you, and their setbacks can break your heart too.
So we keep loving. We keep praying. And we keep believing that God is still working, even when we can't see it. ❤️🙏