Right to Protect

03/26/2025

Nadeya Lavandero was a guest on the Agent X11 podcast.

In this episode we visit with Investigative Journalist Julie Holburn and her court advocate Nadeya Lavandero to discuss corruption in the Orange Country Family Court System. Here's part of one of her

03/13/2025

Definition: Coercive Control

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Coercive Control , under Family Code Section 6320(c), is defined as “disturbing the peace of the other party” [referring] to conduct that, based on the totality of the circumstances , destroys...

03/12/2025

Expert Weighs In: OCDA Ignoring Legal Protections for Domestic Violence Survivors

Nadeya Lavandero, Founder and Executive Director of Right to Protect, a court-qualified domestic violence expert, weighed in on Grossman’s case:

“Any notice made upon OCDA by a victim fleeing domestic violence or child abuse should satisfy the requirements under Penal Code § 278.7.”

“It is not the victim’s responsibility to ensure the DA’s Office processes a Good Cause Waiver.”

“In Tawny Minna Grossman’s case, OCDA has refused to implement legal protections, instead weaponizing the system against her. Their prosecutorial discretion has been abused to punish rather than protect, sending a terrifying message to victims that seeking safety will result in criminal prosecution rather than legal refuge.”

Judge Minerich Denies Unmonitored Visitation, Orders Expensive Monitored Visits

03/10/2025

Nadeya Lavandero, President, Founder, and Executive Director of Right to Protect, a court-qualified domestic violence expert, who has been trained in the laws, limitations, and protocols regarding Good Cause Waivers on behalf of victims. Lavandero, who works with district attorneys and their child abduction units in submitting Good Cause Waivers, provided the following statement:

“Any notice made upon OCDA by a victim fleeing domestic violence or child abuse should satisfy the requirements under Penal Code § 278.7. It is not the victim’s responsibility to ensure the DA’s Office processes a Good Cause Waiver. In Tawny Minna Grossman’s case, OCDA has refused to implement legal protections, instead weaponizing the system against her. Their prosecutorial discretion has been abused to punish rather than protect, sending a terrifying message to victims that seeking safety will result in criminal prosecution rather than legal refuge.”

130 Years of Legal Precedent Disregarded Amid Intimidation, Coercion, and Cover-Ups

03/06/2025

Definition: Domestic Violence

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Domestic violence is defined as "a pattern of abusive behavior that is used by one partner to gain or maintain power and [coercive] control over another intimate partner. Domestic violence can be...

02/03/2025

02/02/2025

It's been uniquely heavy on my heart to say something since seeing the replay of Monica Hill's FB live stream addressing her recent revelations about her marriage to Bryan Trejo of Kingdom Family Music, for those who might need to "hear" what I am about to say.

As much as I understand the concept and need for grace, we need to understand that the situation with Bryan goes beyond simple infidelity. This man was emotionally, psychologically, and spiritually abusive to his wife; based on the things she shared about their marriage and the way he treated her.

This wasn't a mistake. This man committed himself to a lifestyle of abuse, mistreatment, and abandonment of his wife and family. The things she described in her fb live were an embodiment of coercive control.

Pray for him, absolutely, but do not mistake his charisma for the anointing of the Holy Spirit. And be wary of anyone who's only display of remorse is in the face of exposure and significant harm to their livelihood and public image. This man committed many years of his life to the image he portrayed to the public and just because God was able to use him to reach many for the kingdom doesn't mean he isn't a wolf in sheep's clothing.

I do not say this in the spirit of condemnation, I say this to encourage everyone to practice discernment. Can God use this situation to draw Bryan to Him? Absolutely. Just as He was able to use him in spite of himself. But do not get so caught up on grace for Bryan, because you want to believe that the man you thought you knew him to be was more than just a facade, that you alienate Monica and her suffering.

I say what I do as a Bible believing Christian, survivor, and subject matter expert in domestic violence; all of which provides me a unique perspective and insight on the matter.

01/22/2025

California Judges: The Good, the Bad, and the… San Joaquin County, Part Two

Last month, during December 2024, domestic violence restraining order (DVRO) hearings for the Marino v. Mackey case brought troubling issues to light. Mackey testified to multiple forms of abuse and intimidation, supported by video and photographic evidence. Despite this, Judge Jonathan Fattarsi appeared unpersuaded.

Last month, during December 2024, domestic violence restraining order (DVRO) hearings for the Marino v. Mackey case brought troubling issues to light. Mack

12/06/2024

https://www.newsbreak.com/news/3697699479675-california-judges-the-good-the-bad-and-the-san-joaquin-county-part-one

In a San Joaquin County courtroom, six-year-old Cole Marino clutched his stuffed animals, his small frame trembling as he faced a court order to reunite with the father he accused of abuse. Despite testimony from experts and Cole’s own pleas, Family Court Judge Jonathan Fattarsi questioned whether...