06/07/2026
A Letter from a Toddler (and kids of all ages)
For tots (and all kids), play is a way to learn. If they could, they might describe what goes on in a good child care center (camp, school, home) this way:
You looked a little discouraged when the parents picked us up today, and that one parent said,
āDid they learn anything today or did they just play?ā
Iām writing to cheer you up, and tell you that Iām learning lots because you helped me play.
Tonight my big sister said that she learned āthe nines table.ā Iām not sure what the ānines tableā is,
but everyone seemed excited that sheād learned it. Unfortunately, I canāt talk enough to describe all that I learned today about how the world works.
I know that dumping out bins of toys, climbing, knocking over blocks and squashing bananas on my feeding tray doesnāt sound as mysterious as āthe nines tableā, but Iām sure grateful that you know how important these things are.
Thank goodness you know I have to play to learn.
Remember today how every time youād kneel down and open up your arms, Iād run to you for a big hug? We were playing a game, and weād both laughābut just the act of running was learning for
me. I learn through my big muscles, you know. When I ran into your arms it made me feel loved and happy, and gave me a chance to practice the movements of using my arms and legs together.
It was fun. I wanted to do it over and over.
Iām glad you had time to play so that I could learn.
Iām glad you noticed today how much fun I had tapping things with the xylophone hammer. Remember? I tapped the xylophone for a while, then the table, then the floor, and lots of other
things. I discovered so many different sounds. Oh, by the way, sorry about Robbyās head. It sure scared me when he cried so loud.
Thanks for finding all those boxes and pans for me to tap.
Thanks to your helping me play, Iām learning that itās good to be curious and explore.
I heard you say, āTappers need things to tap!ā You must believe that āDumpers need things to dumpā too, because you filled up that coffee can with clothespins over and over and let me dump it out as much as I wanted to. You realized that I wasnāt trying to make a mess when I dumped out the tubs of toys. Iām curious about how something can be full one minute and empty the nextāand that I can make it happen. Dumping things out makes me feel big. After lots of play at dumping, Iāll want to try filling. Itās really the first step
towards being able to put things away neatlyāwhen Iām older.
I get the feeling you think my play is pretty valuable.
My play is all my own ideas, you know. You must think that my ideas are pretty valuable, too. That must mean you value me! Iām important and what I learn is importantāeven if it isnāt āthe nines table.ā
Donāt be discouraged. You helped me play today. You gave me gifts of learning and self-esteem that no one can ever take away.
See you tomorrow! I can't wait to show you what I will learn then.
A Toddler in Child Care