09/27/2026
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One of the hardest prayers we can pray is, “Lord, use this pain to make me more like Jesus.”
Most of us want to know Christ in the joy of answered prayer and the power of resurrection. But there is another kind of fellowship with Him that is discovered through suffering.
Paul wrote that he wanted to know Christ, the power of His resurrection, and the fellowship of His sufferings.
That does not mean we should go looking for trouble. Life will bring enough of that on its own. But when suffering comes, we have a choice. We can allow it to make us bitter, or we can surrender it to God and allow Him to make us better.
Think about the character Jesus displayed while He suffered. He was patient, forgiving, loving, prayerful, courageous, and compassionate. Even while enduring the cross, He cared for others and trusted the Father.
That is the kind of heart God wants to develop in us.
Pain can expose what is inside us, but it can also create room for the Holy Spirit to change us. God can use hardship to soften our hearts toward people who are hurting. He can use our wounds to give us compassion. He can turn the place where we once cried into the place where we help someone else find hope.
Your suffering does not have to be meaningless. Place it in the hands of Jesus and ask Him to redeem it.
Lord, make me patient in this season. Help me forgive when I have been wounded. Teach me to love when it is difficult. Give me courage when I am afraid. Let the way I walk through this trial point someone else toward You.