10/08/2026
For most of her life, Sandra has shown up for everyone else.
At 75, that hasn’t changed.
We met Sandra in a quiet study room at the Delaware Avenue Library. She was warm, authentic, and engaging, the kind of person you could easily linger with because the conversation flowed naturally.
Sandra is a Deaconess and choir member at Metro Baptist Church. She helps administer scholarships, stock the food pantry, and support missions in Africa.
She is also active with the Empire State Federation of Women’s Clubs. Through her chapter, Sandra helps provide holiday meals, backpacks, coats for kids, and other support to families in her community.
Before retiring, she spent 38 years with the NYS Office of Children and Family Services. She loved her work and still misses the people.
Service is simply part of who Sandra is. And now, Sandra needs people to show up for her.
In March, she was diagnosed with acute myeloid leukemia.
She knew something wasn’t right when she couldn't catch her breath doing simple things. Like walking through the mall. Then her leg started to give out. Finally, her sister told her enough was enough. Go to the doctor.
Since April, Sandra has been in treatment. For two weeks at a time, she goes every day for injections in her abdomen. They are painful, cause significant bruising, and leave her exhausted. She gets one week off, then starts again.
But the biggest challenge may still be ahead.
Sandra needs a stem cell transplant at Dana-Farber Cancer Institute. Currently, no matching donor is in the registry, but her brother Richard, 60, is being screened as a potential donor. Her other brother, Gary, transports her to and from Boston. If a transplant becomes possible, one of her sisters has already committed to serving as her 24/7 caregiver. As one of five siblings, Sandra is fortunate to have a strong support system.
Her story is a reminder of why diverse donor registries matter. Somewhere, the person who could give Sandra, or someone just like her, a chance to keep living may not yet have registered.
Sandra has spent a lifetime showing up for others. We’re grateful for the opportunity to show up for her. 🧡