Lancaster County Chooses Love

Lancaster County Chooses Love A grassroots LGBTQIA+ mutual aid support organization serving the Lancaster County community Care to join us? The prerequisite is simple: choose love.

At Lancaster County Chooses Love, our goal is as simple as our name. We want to inspire our neighbors to choose love, to understand that an inclusive community is a thriving community. To accomplish that, we combine our pride of place with our PRIDE because love is love is love and we love Lititz. Our inaugural event brought "A Day Out" to downtown Lititz, followed by a powerful listening session

at the middle school. Events like these, where community members from all walks of life are welcomed to listen and to learn are our staple. Our mission is to create safe social spaces and connect LGBTQ+ community members with resources. Follow along to learn about hikes, game nights, our affirming closet, our library, book club and more.

Together, we can open more doors for our LGBTQ+ students.When you give to this fundraiser, you’re helping Lancaster Coun...
08/26/2026

Together, we can open more doors for our LGBTQ+ students.

When you give to this fundraiser, you’re helping Lancaster County Chooses Love’s Founders’ Scholarship support LGBTQ+ students as they follow their dreams and build their futures.

This year, we’re inviting our community to come together and grow the scholarship fund, so even more students can receive a Founders’ Scholarship next year.

Every contribution, big or small, helps create new opportunities for LGBTQ+ students in Lancaster County and lets them know they are seen, valued, and supported by their community.

If you’re able, please consider donating today to help us celebrate and uplift even more students next year: https://tr.ee/ScholarshipFund

Providing free events, programs, and services for all community members is at the core of our mission. A vital component...
08/25/2026

Providing free events, programs, and services for all community members is at the core of our mission. A vital component of our mission is that everyone who attends our events feels safe and welcomed. We are saddened to share that, for the first time in LCCL’s history, we’ve asked an individual to stop participating in our events and utilizing our facilities. We value transparency and believe it is important that the community be informed of our difficult decision.

While we cannot reveal the identity of this individual or the community members impacted by this individual’s behavior, we will share some examples of their actions that led to our decision:
•Confronting community members and volunteers at their place of employment or in public while not at LCCL events, demanding that they cease association with LCCL;
•Sending messages to community members and volunteers who otherwise do not know this individual, insisting that they remove positive posts about LCCL
•Yelling at and intimidating staff members during LCCL events and at the LCCL Resource Center;
•Sending an unreasonable amount of unsolicited and consecutive messages to friends of a staff member about said staff member;
•Confronting attendees at Lititz Pride, demanding that they publicly speak out against LCCL and becoming hostile if the confronted community member refused;
•Going from community member to community member at the Pride Picnic to make disparaging claims about a staff member, including making these unsolicited statements to an elementary school-aged relative of said staff member;
•Intentionally deadnaming a community member who disagreed with them

We consider this individual’s behavior unacceptable and a clear violation of our published Code of Conduct, which describes community guidelines against bullying, intimidation, and harassment, found here (https://lancasterchooseslove.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/LCCL-Attendee-Code-of-Conduct.pdf).

We have received increased complaints from community members about this individual over the past month, and this is a pattern we’ve seen repeated over this past year. We are also concerned that other impacted community members have not yet reached out to us. If you have experienced hostility from anyone at LCCL events or due to a connection with LCCL, please notify the board by emailing [email protected].

If you have any questions or concerns about LCCL based on information you’ve heard from sources other than LCCL, please let us know. We are happy to both share accurate information and make changes to address genuine concerns.

We have clarified with this individual that they are permitted to utilize the LCCL food pantry services through an approved proxy and that they may continue to apply for and be considered for mutual aid assistance in accordance with our regular application process and eligibility requirements. If they respect the boundaries we've put forth, we do not receive any additional complaints from volunteers or community members regarding behavior they describe as harassment or intimidation, and they commit to no longer engaging in such behavior, we will consider changing these restrictions at a later time.

If you know (or suspect you know) this individual’s identity, we ask you not to share it. We will delete any comments on this post that speculate as to their identity or the identities of any of the individuals harassed or bullied by this individual. Above all else, we ask you not to harass or otherwise be hostile toward this individual or people who you think may have been impacted by their behavior. The solution to harassment is not more harassment. We made this statement public because we know this individual’s actions have likely impacted more people than we know about. If you haven’t been personally affected, we ask you to respect the privacy of those who were and this individual themself.

Thank you,
The LCCL Board of Directors

Mark your calendar! 🌈Our next Q***r & Allied Family Time at Hands-on House Children’s Museum is coming up on Sunday, Sep...
08/25/2026

Mark your calendar! 🌈

Our next Q***r & Allied Family Time at Hands-on House Children’s Museum is coming up on Sunday, September 13, from 4–6 PM.

In partnership with Hands-on House, Children's Museum of Lancaster , q***r and allied families can connect, play, and build community together while children explore the museum and caregivers meet other families in an affirming environment.

To register, email [email protected] or use this link: https://secure.qgiv.com/for/lancastercountychooseslove/event/handsonhouse/

We’d love to see you there! 💜

We’re excited to share that THRIVE has three more gatherings coming up this fall, and we’d love for you to be part of th...
08/23/2026

We’re excited to share that THRIVE has three more gatherings coming up this fall, and we’d love for you to be part of them.

Whether you’ve been with us before or are thinking about joining for the first time, you are welcome here. THRIVE is a space where LGBT+ adults 50+ to connect, build community, and spend time together.

Friday, September 25 | 12–2 PM
Join us for our September gathering at Manheim Township Public Library, including a light luncheon.

Saturday, October 24 | 2–4 PM
Spend the afternoon with us at Manheim Township Public Library with a special book reading with Frank Pizzoli! Snacks will be provided.

Wednesday, November 11 | 12–2 PM | Harrisburg
We’re taking THRIVE on the road! Our November gathering will be held at Temple Ohev Sholom in Harrisburg in collaboration with the LGBT Center of Central PA Aging with Pride Group and Rainbow Rose Center Silver Triangle Group.

We’ll have a light lunch and on-site parking available. We’re sharing these details early so everyone has time to plan and join us if they’d like.

Want to join us? Email [email protected] to register. See less

Mobile Clinic Schedule UpdateOur Union Community Care Mobile Clinic visit scheduled for Wednesday, August 26 has been ca...
08/21/2026

Mobile Clinic Schedule Update

Our Union Community Care Mobile Clinic visit scheduled for Wednesday, August 26 has been canceled due to a scheduling conflict.

We know changes like this can be disappointing, and we’re grateful for your understanding and flexibility. The mobile clinic will be back with us at Lancaster County Chooses Love on Wednesday, September 9.

Please help us spread the word to anyone who may have been planning to visit on August 26. 💜

We’re looking forward to welcoming Union Community Care back in September and gathering together again.

🪩 Join us in making Adult Homecoming: Pride Through the Decades a night to remember.Adult Homecoming is more than a nigh...
08/20/2026

🪩 Join us in making Adult Homecoming: Pride Through the Decades a night to remember.

Adult Homecoming is more than a night of music, dancing, and celebration. It’s also an important fundraiser that helps Lancaster County Chooses Love continue providing LGBTQ+ programs, resources, mutual aid, advocacy, and spaces for connection throughout the year.

We’re inviting local businesses, organizations, and community partners to join us as sponsors for this year’s event on October 10 at Pour Man’s Brewing in Ephrata.

Sponsorships start at $500 and come with event tickets, recognition, and other ways to celebrate your support. Higher levels offer even more ways to be part of the evening and show your commitment to our community.

When you support Adult Homecoming, you help us create a joyful, affirming space and invest directly in the LGBTQ+ community right here in Lancaster County. 🌈

Want to learn more about sponsoring or how you can get involved?
📩 Email [email protected]

Celebrating Local Businesses Who Stand With UsWe’re continuing to show some love to the local businesses who stand along...
08/20/2026

Celebrating Local Businesses Who Stand With Us

We’re continuing to show some love to the local businesses who stand alongside Lancaster County Chooses Love and our LGBTQ+ community.

Today, we’re especially grateful for three trans-owned businesses who have shown up for our community: Farbo Co., The Midnight Oil, and Ava Ren Photography.

We also want to thank Black Cat Yoga, Country Hearth Bed and Breakfast, The Unicorn Suite, Greco’s, Lemon Street Market, Luxe, Aaron’s Books, Shifted Focus Photography, Hempfield Apothetique, In-Motion Self Defense, Yoga and Dance, Dosie-Dough, Mad Chef, and Keystone Claws for their ongoing support.

Each of these businesses supports our work in unique ways, whether through donations, sharing their space, or partnering with us to build a stronger, more welcoming community.

They continue to show up for our community, and we invite you to join us in supporting them with the same care and solidarity they have shown us.

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104-106 East Main Street
Lititz, PA
17543

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