10/08/2026
As we all know and have seen, deputies, police officers, and other first responders can be a bit… “strong‑willed.” I know I’m guilty of being stubborn at times; my wife will definitely attest to that, and I have to remind myself to stay open‑minded and receptive. The truth is, being humble is a strength, and being willing to take constructive instruction is a blessing. It really does help us grow and succeed in what we’re called to do.
“Listen to advice and accept discipline, and at the end you will be counted among the wise.” – Proverbs 19:20
Somewhat related is another thing many of us struggle with: patience with youth and inexperience. It’s easy to get frustrated or wonder why someone didn’t know something that seems obvious. But then I have to step back and remember that I’ve been blessed with knowledge, wisdom, and experience over the years. That’s not something to guard or grumble about; it’s something to share. I should embrace those opportunities to help others grow.
“Therefore, encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.” – 1 Thessalonians 5:11
“As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.” – Proverbs 27:17
At the end of the day, our strength as a first responder family isn’t just about how we handle the tough calls out there; Lord knows there are plenty of those. It’s also about how we treat each other and help grow the ones who will replace us when we’re gone. When we stay teachable, when we’re patient with those still learning, and when we use our experience to lift others instead of tearing them down, we all grow stronger together. When I was an FTO, I always tried to train my trainees to become my beat partner one day, and maybe even save my bacon.
As iron sharpens iron, when we choose to grow together, we honor God, support our first responder family with integrity, creating a culture the next generation can be proud to step into.