05/31/2026
When Consolee Nishimwe turned 40, she could not believe she had made it to such an “old” age. Today’s post is about a survivor of the 1994 Genocide against the Tutsi in Rwanda, who has dedicated her life to sharing testimony with students and keeping the memory of her three younger brothers alive.
Consolee’s parents were married in 1977, and soon after, they welcomed Consolee, the eldest of five, in September 1979. Her younger siblings, Pascal Muvara, Philbert Nkusi, Bon-Fils Abimana, and Jeanette Ingibire, soon followed. They grew up in a faith-based home where love and education were both held in great esteem. Consolee attended a local school, where she spent most of the 1980s being treated as an equal to her Hutu neighbors.
However, in the early 1990s, tensions rose throughout Rwanda, and Consolee began facing discrimination at school. Teachers would separate the Hutu and Tutsi students, and the mayor’s niece started hitting Consolee in the middle of class and calling her a “little Tutsi cockroach.”
In the spring of 1994, when Consolee was 14 years old, the Genocide began. Consolee and her family fled their home in search of a safe haven, but were warned:
“The militias are all around searching for Tutsis to kill and they are looking everywhere. Try and go through the bushes and go to your area and see whether you can find a place to hide!” ( , Kindle Location 887)
A neighbor, Angelique, hid the children in her attic for a short time, but soon Consolee’s family was discovered, and her father and brothers were murdered. Consolee suffered sexual abuse and was forcibly infected with HIV, which she continues to live with today. She, her mother, and her little sister all survived the Genocide.
After the Genocide, Consolee and her mother found consolation in their strong Christian faith and family values. They decided to forgive and rebuild their lives. You can learn more about Consolee’s testimony and her journey to forgiveness in her memoir, “Tested to the Limit: A Genocide Survivor’s Story of Pain, Resilience and Hope.”