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https://share.google/ViihXoqzd9GalhnXWWe have raised $1450 for Alzheimers Research and Advocacy and several of us are wa...
10/18/2026

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We have raised $1450 for Alzheimers Research and Advocacy and several of us are walking for the cure tomorrow.
Thank you to everyone who supported our outreach!
Not too late to join!

I am participating in Walk to End Alzheimer's. Donate today and help me reach my goal.

10/17/2026

Mark your calendars! The Low Income Home Energy Assistance Program (LIHEAP) Fall Subsidy is just a month away. More information coming soon!

10/17/2026

I saw a quote recently; “when the elderly die, a library is lost and volumes of wisdom and knowledge are gone." This got me thinking about how much wisdom and knowledge the elderly have, and how important I think it is that we sit down with them and let them share.

Most of the patients I have sat with are over the age of 80, the eldest being 107. They tell the best stories, always sharing their opinions about the world today, and so many thoughts about love and relationships… I have learned a lot from them.

I was sitting at the bedside of a man who was dying, holding the hand of his wife of 62 years. That is a really long time (all of my relationships together do not add up to that) and I find it truly beautiful when I see a love that has lasted that long. I always ask "how did you meet," and "what is the secret to making a relationship last?" I love the stories about how they met, their courtship, their struggles, and their strengths. I could listen for hours. And the advice is usually pretty much the same; you have to have trust, communication, and deep friendship... without that you cannot possibly survive.

If you are blessed to still have grandparents or parents, sit down with them, talk to them, listen to them... you might be surprised at how much sense they make relative to life, and love. If you have small children, encourage them to do the same. And if you happen to have a little extra time on your hands, look into volunteering, it will be so good for your heart and soul, and imagine what it might do for the person sitting next to you!!!

Grab hold of those volumes of wisdom and knowledge so that their stories are not lost or forgotten. Help to keep their legacy alive, and ensure that their story continues to be told.

xo
Gabby

You can find this and all of my other blogs on my website.

Be kind today!
10/17/2026

Be kind today!

10/17/2026

Key takeaways
Social Security beneficiaries will receive a 3.6 percent cost-of-living adjustment for 2027, which would increase the average retired worker’s benefit by $75 a month.
The COLA comes as many older Americans are struggling with rising prices, trimming their discretionary spending and even cutting back on essentials.
AARP is fighting to protect the COLA as Congress begins to debate ways to address Social Security’s funding shortfall.
Social Security beneficiaries will get a 3.6 percent increase in their monthly payments next year, the Social Security Administration (SSA) announced on Oct. 14.

That will be the highest cost-of-living adjustment (COLA) in four years, reflecting the recent upswing in inflation. The 2026 COLA was 2.8 percent.

Ninety Thousand Strangers Watched A Widowed Eagle Sit Alone On An Empty Nest. Then A Young Male Landed With A Fish.The c...
10/14/2026

Ninety Thousand Strangers Watched A Widowed Eagle Sit Alone On An Empty Nest. Then A Young Male Landed With A Fish.

The chat window at Hollow Pine Nest never went quiet.

Not in the six years since the camera went live.

It scrolled day and night, a long, tumbling river of comments from strangers scattered across forty countries. Teachers on lunch breaks. Night shift nurses. A trucker in Alberta. A retired bus driver in Ohio named Gloria Pettibone, who had logged more than fourteen thousand hours and gave every moderator in the room a cup of tea at 6 a.m., in spirit.

Morning, Liberty.

Good morning, girl.

Eagle cam is up, everybody. Coffee's on.

They had watched the pair for six years.

Liberty and Orion.

Two bald eagles in a white pine on the edge of a Michigan lake, a hundred feet above the ice, in a nest the size of a hot tub.

They'd watched them rebuild it every winter.

They'd watched twelve eggs hatch.

They'd watched nine eaglets fledge.

They'd held their breath through three ice storms, a raccoon raid, and the terrible spring a goshawk took a chick, and every time, the pair had stayed.

Orion on the left side of the nest.

Liberty on the right.

He brought the fish.

She arranged the sticks.

He called, a high, silly, chittering sound that made the chat laugh.

She answered with a dry, one note screech like a rusty gate.

"They bicker like an old married couple," Dr. Tamsin Reyes liked to say on the weekly broadcast. "I've been a raptor biologist for twenty three years, and these two are my favorite birds on the planet."

The camera had been her idea.

Then it became everybody's.

On the twenty sixth of January, at 3:14 p.m., Orion left the nest for the last time.

He flew off to the east.

Nobody thought anything of it.

He'd done it a thousand times.

Liberty settled on the branch.

The chat chattered about the weather.

Dusk came.

He didn't return.

At 5:40, someone typed:

Where's Orion?

Probably hunting late.

Good luck, buddy.

At 7:00, the cam switched to infrared.

Liberty sat on the nest, a pale ghost in the gray light, watching the dark.

She didn't move all night.

At dawn, she called.

The sound carried over the lake.

High.

Cracked.

Rising.

She waited.

And called again.

Dr. Reyes found him just before noon.

He was lying on the shoulder of County Road 14, three miles from the nest, beside a half eaten deer carcass.

He had been struck by a pickup truck.

It had been fast.

He wouldn't have suffered.

She stood on the gravel for a long time with her hands in her coat pockets, looking down at him.

Then she took out her phone.

She had to do it in front of a hundred thousand people.

She stood in front of the camera, in the cold, wearing the same green jacket she'd worn for six years.

"I have some sad news," she said.

Her voice shook.

"Orion was killed yesterday on the county road. He was hit by a vehicle while feeding on a carcass. It's one of the most common causes of death for eagles in winter, and I'm so sorry."

The chat went still.

A single message appeared.

No.

Then another.

No no no.

Then a flood.

I'm so sorry.

Oh, Liberty.

I can't.

Rest well, Orion.

Please tell me this isn't real.

Dr. Reyes closed her eyes.

"I'm going to leave the camera on," she said. "If that's okay. I think she'd want us to be with her."

Liberty stayed on the nest.

Day after day.

She sat on the right side, the side that had always been hers, with her head turned toward the left.

Orion's side.

She didn't rearrange the sticks.

She didn't eat.

When the first snow fell, she let it settle on her back until she looked like a small white hill.

The chat kept vigil.

Gloria Pettibone didn't sleep for two nights.

She sat at her kitchen table in Dayton, Ohio, in her late husband's cardigan, watching a bird she'd never met breathe in the dark.

She typed one line at 3:30 a.m.

Hang on, honey. We're here.

By mid-February, Liberty had lost weight.

She'd stopped hunting.

The lake was frozen.

The fish were out of reach.

Dr. Reyes watched through binoculars from the shore every day, a mile off, in the cold.

"She's not going to breed this year," she told the viewers. "I don't think she can. She's grieving. And she's alone."

The chat murmured.

What can we do?

Can we feed her?

Can't we bring her fish?

"We can't," said Dr. Reyes. "If we feed her, we'll make her dependent on people. It's against everything she is. And the nest is a hundred feet up. It's too dangerous."

Then what?

She looked into the camera.

"We wait," she said.

It was the hardest thing she'd ever said.

The first week of March, the thaw began.

The ice cracked and groaned.

Meltwater ran down the pine bark in dark streaks.

Liberty was still on the nest.

Gaunt now.

Her feathers dull.

She hadn't called in days.

On the sixth of March, a shadow crossed the cam.

The chat went wild.

SOMEBODY LANDED.

Is that Orion??

It can't be.

Look at it.

A bird had alighted on the far edge of the nest.

Dark.

Thin.

Not quite adult.

Its head was mottled brown and white, with the beginning of the clean white cap that would one day mark a mature bald eagle.

A sub-adult.

Four years old, maybe five.

In its talons, it held a fish.

A silver, flopping lake trout.

Liberty rose.

Her whole body went rigid.

She screamed.

It was the loudest sound she had made since January, a high, furious shriek that echoed off the water.

She lunged.

The young eagle recoiled, wings flaring.

For a moment, the two birds faced each other across the sticks, wings spread, beaks open.

Dr. Reyes had her binoculars up.

She was holding her breath.

"It's going to fight," she whispered. "She's going to kill it."

The young bird dropped the fish.

It fell onto the nest between them.

It stepped back.

Lowered its head.

Then, with a heavy, awkward flap, it launched itself from the nest and flew away.

Liberty stood there, panting.

The fish lay at her feet.

Silver.

Wet.

Still twitching.

The chat was frozen.

For a long moment, nobody typed.

Liberty looked down.

She stared at the trout.

Then at the empty sky.

Then, slowly, she lowered her head, tore a long strip from the fish, and ate.

The chat exploded.

SHE ATE.

OH MY GOD.

SHE'S EATING.

I'M CRYING AT MY DESK.

Gloria Pettibone put her hand over her mouth.

Then she typed in all capital letters, for the first time in six years.

THANK YOU, WHOEVER YOU ARE.

He came back the next day.

At dawn.

The camera caught him in the pale light, sitting on the topmost branch of the pine, thirty feet from the nest.

Watching.

Liberty stood on the nest, rigid.

He didn't approach.

He sat there for an hour, motionless.

Then he took off.

An hour later, he came back with a fish.

This time he landed on a lower branch.

He placed it carefully on the pine bough, ten feet from the nest, and flew away.

Liberty looked at it.

She didn't move.

By evening, it was gone.

She had taken it.

Dr. Reyes watched the footage on her laptop in her kitchen, with a cup of tea going cold beside her.

"I've never seen anything like it," she told her colleague, Dr. Amar Mehta, over the phone.

"Is it a known behavior?"

"Sub-adult eagles feed from carcasses. They steal from adults. They don't bring food to an unrelated female and leave it."

"Is he courting her?"

"He's too young. And she'd never accept him."

"Then what?"

She watched the screen.

The young eagle had come back for the fourth time, landed on the branch, and bobbed his head awkwardly.

Liberty was watching him.

Not with hostility.

With something very different.

Something quieter.

"I don't know," said Dr. Reyes slowly. "I really don't."

"Is it grief?"

"Maybe."

"His?"

She considered the question.

"Maybe he lost someone too," she said. "A mate. A parent. A sibling. Or maybe he's just hungry and clumsy and doesn't know how to hunt. I can't prove anything."

"But?"

"But I've watched ten thousand hours of eagles," she said. "And I know what it looks like when one animal decides another one isn't going to starve."

The chat named him Comet.

Nobody remembered who suggested it.

It just fit.

A small, brown, gangly bird that arrived from nowhere, in the middle of the worst winter anyone could remember, trailing something brighter than he knew behind him.

Comet's here!

Fish delivery!

Good boy, Comet.

Look at him, he's so nervous.

Every morning, at first light, the young eagle appeared.

Every morning, he left a fish.

Every morning, Liberty took it.

She still didn't let him near the nest.

She watched him from the right-hand edge, her head tilted, a long, still, unreadable look.

In the third week, she called to him.

Not the screech.

A softer sound.

A low, chuckling trill that Dr. Reyes had heard only once, in the first week of every breeding season, when Orion arrived at the nest.

The chat went silent.

Then it lit up like a Christmas tree.

DID YOU HEAR THAT?

THAT WAS HER MATING CALL.

NO WAY.

IT'S TOO SOON.

It's not the mating call, typed Dr. Reyes, from her kitchen. It's a contact call. It means she knows him. It means he's not a stranger anymore.

Same thing, typed Gloria.

By April, Comet was landing on the nest.

On the left side.

Orion's side.

Liberty let him.

They sat together in the morning sun, a wary body length apart, not touching, not calling.

Just two birds sharing a cold, damp branch while the lake thawed beneath them.

The chat held its breath.

On the eleventh of April, Liberty stood.

She walked across the nest, her yellow talons gripping the sticks.

She stopped in front of Comet.

He lowered his head.

She reached out with her beak and, very gently, preened a stray feather on the back of his neck.

Dr. Reyes put down her binoculars.

She had to turn away.

There was no egg that year.

There was no clutch.

By every measure of breeding success, it was a lost season.

But the camera, still running, still scrolling its endless river of comments, caught the whole slow thaw.

The way Liberty gained back her weight.

The way her feathers brightened.

The way she began, one afternoon in late April, to repair the left side of the nest, tucking sticks in with careful, deliberate motions, while a gangly young male watched from the branch above.

She's rebuilding.

She's making room.

Oh my God, she's making room.

I'm sobbing.

Me too.

Gloria Pettibone wrote a message in the chat on the last day of April.

She'd drafted it a dozen times.

She hit send at 4:47 a.m.

I lost my husband in 2019. I didn't leave the house for a year. I started watching these birds at 3 a.m. because I couldn't sleep, and I've watched every day since. I don't know how to explain it. Watching her not give up helped me not give up.

I think a lot of us feel that way.

Thank you, Liberty.

Thank you, Comet.

And thank you, Orion.

The message got four hundred thousand likes.

Thousands of people replied with their own stories.

A widow in Perth.

A father in Lagos.

A teenager in Santiago.

A nurse in Manchester, who wrote that she'd been on the verge of quitting her job after losing three patients in one week and had come home, opened the camera, and seen two eagles sitting together in the rain.

I stayed, she wrote. I'm going back to work tomorrow.

Dr. Reyes read the thread aloud on the next Friday broadcast.

She couldn't finish.

She had to stop twice.

"I want to say something," she told the camera, wiping her eyes. "I've spent twenty three years trying not to anthropomorphize. Trying not to say a bird is sad, or a bird is hopeful, because science doesn't allow it. And I'll tell you what I tell my students. We don't know what she feels. We can't know."

She paused.

"But I know what happened here. I know that a widowed eagle sat alone for six weeks. And I know that she's not alone now. And I know that all of you, ninety thousand strangers who never met, sat with her the whole time and refused to look away."

She looked at the lens.

"I'd call that healing," she said. "Whatever else science decides to call it."

The following January, the two eagles paired.

It was official on the ninth.

A courtship flight, a cartwheel in the air, talons locked, spinning together down through the pine branches toward the frozen lake.

Dr. Reyes watched it through a spotting scope on the shore, in a blizzard, with tears freezing on her face.

On the nest, in March, Liberty laid two eggs.

The first hatched on the fifth of May.

The chat called him Orion Jr.

He's seven now.

He fledged in July.

He still returns to the nest sometimes in the winter, circling above the pine, riding the air currents off the lake.

Comet, now a full adult with a gleaming white head and a hooked yellow beak, sits on the left side of the nest every morning at dawn.

He's brought four hundred and twelve fish to that nest in seven years.

Dr. Reyes counted.

Gloria Pettibone, now eighty one, still logs on at 3 a.m.

She types the same line every day.

Good morning, Liberty.

And every morning, somewhere in a white pine above a Michigan lake, a pair of eagles looks into a camera that has seen the worst winter of their lives, and the best spring.

Some grief ends in silence.

And some ends in a stranger landing on the edge of your nest, with a fish in his talons, asking for nothing.

Credit to unknown other

10/14/2026

For my friends who are dealing with dementia for their family members, there is a new Medicare Parts A & B program called GUIDE, Guiding an Improved Dementia Experience. It offers 80 free hours of respite care, something caregivers definitely need. It is not hospice nor a part of hospice. It also includes some tasks that caregivers provide, such as changing sheets, sweeping floors, doing dishes, and other housekeeping tasks.

This program is not available if someone has Medicare Advantage.

10/14/2026

A survey released by AARP in May 2026 shows that 61% of respondents aged 50 and older believe that the average monthly Social Security benefit of approximately $2,000 is insufficient. Do you think Social Security benefits are enough to cover retirement needs?

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