04/05/2022
Jacob Macfoy, Founder & CEO
My foster care story started when I was just 12 years old. Even though things weren’t great at home, I still missed my parents every single day I was in the system. I jumped from foster home to foster home and today I can admit it, I was a troubled teen.
My home life wasn’t perfect, but neither is growing up in foster care.
I’m a foster care survivor . . . but what they don’t tell you is that the survival tactics don’t end just because you age out of the system. That’s only the beginning.
When I exited foster care at 18 years old, I had no understanding of how to survive as an adult. I ended up sleeping in my car on multiple occasions, parked in front grocery stores at night, praying that would-be thieves would leave me alone.
Eighteen and homeless. I slept in my car, I surfed the couches of friends, I did whatever it took to just survive. What I didn’t know, because no one had taught me, was that there were resources for me, and I could have remained in foster care until age 21.
This is my story of why I started this nonprofit agency. My goal is to create a place where foster kids can call home. A place where they can return to on the holidays even after they age out of foster care. My goal is to be like a second family to them.
One of my main focuses will be to set them up for success with a permanence plan. When they age out, they will understand how to pay bills and save money. The state does not provide foster kids or even young adults with this information that to get a car you must have credit and to build your credit you need at least one credit card.
These are things I wish I knew before I aged out of care.
Mental health is another concern of mine. Take it from me, when CPS shows up and takes you from the only home you know, it causes trauma. I will forever live with those scars, but I want to help other children and teens like me overcome them.
The foster system is broken and has been for a long time. It needs to be reformed. My experience in foster care drives me every day to create a safe place for all foster kids of all ages to grow and prosper in a structured environment and a place they can call home for years to come.