A Celebration of Friends

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A Celebration of Friends ACOF is a non-profit charitable corporation dedicated to providing yearly conventions or "Celebrations" for senior gay men and their admirers.

The friendships and social connections of the participants, in many instances, span more than ten years. ACOF has provided contributions in excess of $154,000 to Broward County area non-profits including The South Florida Pride Center, Tuesday’s Angels Inc. and our newly formed non-profit "A Habitat of Friends, Inc. Ten thousand dollars were donated following this year’s event. For those of you seeking the mature gay male, A Celebration of Friends, Inc. is proud to share an alliance with the premier mature gay mens organizations: The Prime Timers World Wide, The Caffmos Connection and The Mature Aussie Network.

09/20/2026
08/23/2026

HELL TO PAY

America made promises.
Equal justice. Honest government. A fair wage for honest work. Dignity in old age. A better life for our children.

Then Congress stopped governing.

During one of the least productive sessions in modern history, Americans struggled to afford food, medicine, and housing—while lawmakers collected their salaries, protected their donors, and fought for television time.

Our bridges weakened.
Our schools struggled.
Our climate burned.
Our debt exploded.
Our people suffered.

Congress did little—then blamed everyone else.

And when we finally straighten out this country, how will we ever repay the innocent immigrant families we detained, terrorized, and tore apart? How do we return a stolen childhood—or erase the memory of a child crying for a parent who never came?

Some wounds cannot be repaired with money or apologies.

America once welcomed the tired, the poor, and those yearning to breathe free.

Now the powerful tell us:

Give us your labor.
Give us your money.
Give us your vote.
Then get out of our way.

But every broken promise creates a debt.

The veteran sleeping beneath a bridge remembers.
The senior dividing his pills remembers.
The worker losing his home remembers.
The immigrant child left without a parent remembers.

Congress has forgotten whom it serves.

The American people must remind them—with their voices, their courage, and their votes.

Because when government betrays its people, protects the powerful, and steals children from their families—

There will be hell to pay.

07/17/2026

The Truth Is Out There!!!

06/26/2026

Did I Do Enough?

Lately, I've been asking myself one simple question: Did I do enough?

I'm seventy-two years old.
I've voted.
I've written letters.
I've marched.
I've spoken out.
I tried to persuade people to look beyond the slogans and ask hard questions about the future of our country.

Along the way, I lost friends.
Not because I hated them.
But because I cared too much to remain silent.

Today I wonder:
Could I have reached one more voter?
One more neighbor?
One more friend?
Perhaps not.

Democracy doesn't ask us to be right every time. It asks us to participate.
To think.
To care.
To have the courage to speak our conscience and the humility to accept that others may disagree.

I don't regret speaking out.

I would regret remaining silent.
When history looks back on this chapter of America, I want it to be said that I cared enough to try.

If I failed, I failed while standing up for what I believed was right.
And I can live with that.

Tomcat Pence - United States Marine Corps Veteran.
Citizen

Alain Enjoying His 66th Birthday!
06/24/2026

Alain Enjoying His 66th Birthday!

05/25/2026

The Mouse in the Frying Pan / Democracy in the United States

My friends,

There is an old story about a mouse placed into a pot filled with water on a stove top.

At first, the pan feels safe. Comfortable, even. Nothing seems wrong. The mouse walks around calmly because the danger is not immediate. The heat is turned up slowly - so slowly the mouse barely notices.

Not enough to cause panic.
Not enough to trigger alarm.
Just little by little.
And by the time the mouse realizes the pan is getting hot…
it's already much too late.

This is where many Americans now find themselves. Comfortable enough to ignore what is slowly changing around them.
Distracted by entertainment, outrage, politics, social media, and survival itself while the temperature quietly continues to rise.

One of the first things this administration did was aggressively roll back environmental protections and climate policies while publicly dismissing global warming as “the greatest hoax in history.”

Meanwhile, the planet continues recording rising waters, hotter temperatures, stronger storms, wildfires, floods, droughts, and environmental instability around the world.

But perhaps even more dangerous than environmental change is what happens when citizens slowly become comfortable surrendering their rights. Not all at once.
Slowly. Quietly. A little at a time.
The normalization of political anger.
The erosion of trust in elections.
The attacks on journalism.
The growing pressure placed upon courts, universities, libraries, comedians, and public institutions.
Even the cancellation and growing political targeting of late-night voices like Jimmy Kimmel and Stephen Colbert have caused many Americans to quietly ask an uncomfortable question:
“When comedians, journalists, teachers, writers, and critics begin feeling pressure over what they say publicly… what happens to freedom of the press and freedom of expression itself?”

A free society depends on people being allowed to question power openly—even through satire, criticism, and uncomfortable truth.
And now, reports and accusations continue surrounding efforts to soften, revise, minimize, or quietly erase portions of the criminal history connected to January 6th participants and political allies.
Not by changing history openly—
but by slowly reframing it until the public no longer remembers what actually happened.

That is how democracies weaken.
Not usually through one dramatic moment. But through exhaustion. Distraction. Tribal loyalty.
And people convincing themselves:
“It’s not that bad yet.”

History has shown us repeatedly that freedoms are rarely lost all at once.

They disappear piece by piece while ordinary people remain distracted, divided, entertained, or too exhausted to fight for them.And perhaps that is the real warning of the mouse in the frying pan.
Maybe we should change that title to: “Americans on Planet Earth.”
Because the danger is not only the heat itself.

The danger is becoming too comfortable while the temperature continues to rise.

Respectfully submitted,
Tomcat
Chief Cook & Bottle Washer

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Lauderhill, FL
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