02/28/2026
We are following the Frank Stronach trial closely, and we need to address something we are hearing in that courtroom.
When a complainant is told that what she was “really upset about” was not sexual assault, but that she didn’t get the love or relationship she wanted, that displays a longstanding and very outdated r**e myth.
It is the narrative that women fabricate or reinterpret sexual assault because of rejection, regret, or emotional dissatisfaction. There is no credible body of research that supports that framing. What decades of research actually shows is how trauma affects how memory can evolve without being made up, and how power imbalances shape whether and when someone comes forward.
When allegations involve individuals with a lot of wealth, status, or influence, the barriers to reporting are not minor. Reputation, livelihood, retaliation, public scrutiny all weighs heavily well before someone ever steps into a courtroom.
We are hearing a lot about memory in this trial because some of the allegations date back decades.
Bluntly, no one remembers events from 20, 30, or 40 years ago like a crystal clear video recording. That applies to complainants and accused alike. Human memory is imperfect and trauma can preserve core experiences while minor background details fade or shift over time. That is established science.
But when courts talk about credibility in historical cases, they must do so with a realistic understanding of how memory works and not with the false expectation that a perfect memory exists decades later.
Imperfect is not, on its own, proof of dishonesty.
We are not commenting on guilt or innocence. We are commenting on familiar patterns that we see every day in both high profile and non-high-profile cases.
Sexual assault trials must focus on evidence and consent and not stereotypes or outdated r**e myths about how a “real victim” should behave, feel, or when they choose report.
We must do better than repeating these myths in our courtrooms.
We are watching, and we will continue to call out systemic bias when we see it.
-Jessica, Kelly, and Kristi
https://www.beyondtheverdict.ca/news/stronachtrial