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"WHAT DO YOU USE TO CLEAN THE HEADSTONES?"
**Over the last few months, we gained an incredible number of new followers inspired by TGC interested in how to safely restore monuments in their own communities... Thousands have asked for the specific product used and the exact process via private messages, comments, and visitor posts...
*Below you will find the answer to this frequently asked (and a

nswered) question... We are hoping this makes it easier for everyone to find on the page! BEST PRACTICES ON HOW TO RESTORE THE MONUMENTS OF YOUR OWN FAMILY & LOVED ONES

***ALWAYS remember first and foremost to get permission to restore ANY monument / tombstone that is not a direct family member...

The product he uses is called D/2 Biological Solution... he uses this on Granite, Marble, and Sandstone Monuments...D/2 is what the Government uses for all of our National cemeteries including Arlington...It is safe for the monuments as well as the surrounding environment... Initially rinse the stone with water before spraying D/2 on the still damp stone... Allow it to sit for several minutes while the product begins to break down biological debris...When cleaning it, always use a natural or soft nylon brush with a consistency similar to your toothbrush...NEVER use a hard bristle brush... Periodically rinse it with water before re-applying D/2 and carefully scrubbing as needed to see your progress...Hand dry with a clean dry cotton or microfiber towel... (He typically brings his own water in 5-gallon containers because not all cemeteries have water readily available)

Finally, spray a light coat of D/2 over the entire monument and allow it to continue to work into the stone... Typically in two or three weeks time the monument will look beautiful...

The Good Cemeterian DOES NOT SELL D/2 Biological Solution... but we have included the link to his distributor below....

http://www.gravestonecleaner.com/tgc/"

You always see my before and after restoration photo's but have you ever seen a picture of me in the process of taking t...
05/31/2026

You always see my before and after restoration photo's but have you ever seen a picture of me in the process of taking them? Probably not, soooooo here you go !!

Did I mention that today is the last day of the month, hence the final opportunity to partake in our second annual "31 days in May $1 contribution challenge"? As we head into the summer, we’re dreaming big. What if a good chunk of our incredible community donated just $1 for each of the 31 days in May? This small act from you translates into a massive push for our current projects and the people we serve. Will you join the movement?

⭐️For your convenience, our tax identification EIN number is (82 - 0874289)

Have a wonderful day and thank you for all of your unwavering support ‼️

Timeline: March 21st, 2026 Photograph  # 1 taken at 11:43 a.m.Photograph  #2 taken at 12:08 p.m.Total time elapsed - 25 ...
05/29/2026

Timeline: March 21st, 2026

Photograph # 1 taken at 11:43 a.m.

Photograph #2 taken at 12:08 p.m.

Total time elapsed - 25 minutes

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I occasionally share examples of The "Blush Effect" as it naturally occurs during my workday. While this can be quite surprising if you're new to restoration, it is a routine and temporary part of the process.

A natural color shift occurs 20 to 30 minutes after applying D-2 Biological Solution. As the solution absorbs into the porous stone, it triggers a reaction with biological growth. The resulting color transformation can produce striking variations, ranging from burnt orange and deep red to auburn or a subtle flamingo pink.

I can't reveal the final results just yet, but let's just say that six weeks later, Maximiliano's memorial stone was perfectly restored to its original 1911 glory...

Stay tuned for perfection ‼️‼️

Good evening and welcome to our final monument restoration and a most interesting life journey remembering a fantastical...
05/28/2026

Good evening and welcome to our final monument restoration and a most interesting life journey remembering a fantastically successful American Dream Realized honoree !! So many people not local to this area of Florida are blown away by the old porcelain encased images that hold up so well here despite our unforgiving climate. Mr. Garcia's now 93 year old example certainly stands true to that sentiment.

⭐️Quick reminder that we are in the final days of our 31 Days in May fundraiser. What could we achieve if our 150,000+ Facebook followers each chipped in just $1 on any day this May? Join our $1 Challenge and help us make a massive impact with a micro-donation

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Leocadio "Leo" Garcia was born inTrinidad, Cuba, more than 161 years ago on December 9th, 1864 to his father, father, Manuel and mother, Juana Garcia.

In 1899 this evening's honoree married 18 year old Rosa Puignau with whom.he emigrated to New York City aboard the Steamship Eperance on July 27th, 1901, before soon settling in the Sunshine State of Florida and city of Tampa. The couple never had any children.

It took Mr. Garcia very little time to become a prosperous businessman as he built a local empire of sorts as the founder of El Modelo Coffee Mills of Ybor City. In addition to the coffee mill, Leocadio ran the Cafeteria El Modelo and was elected as a director of the Bank of Ybor City for more than two consecutive decades. He also invested smartly in stocks, bonds, and real estate, remaining financially fluid through the stock market crash of 1929 and the Great Depression. This evening's honoree became a naturalized citizen in 1908 and for pleasure, made frequent trips between Tampa and Cuba. Sadly, a lingering illness led to a cerebral hemorrhage that ultimately took Mr. Garcia's life on March 20th, 1933. He was 68 years old.

Leocadio "Leo" Garcia...Beloved husband, exteaordinary businessman, epitome of the American Dream Realized...

Before & After

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Thank you so much for spending a part of your day here with us and helping to celebrate the lives of our most deserving honorees.

Until we meet again...

Be well

TGC

Hello all...⭐️A Heartbreaking and Beautiful Update Regarding Baby Bryon Dean Katainen...I’m sharing a deeply personal an...
05/27/2026

Hello all...

⭐️A Heartbreaking and Beautiful Update Regarding Baby Bryon Dean Katainen...

I’m sharing a deeply personal and meaningful story that affects all of us here. Last October, I shared the heart wrenching account of Bryon Dean Katainen, born sleeping on October 7th, 1954. For his mother, Joyce, and his father, Ray (a Korean War Veteran), this loss was devastating. Following his birth, the Katainen family faced a difficult reality. The Air Force Chaplain advised removing all baby items from their home before Joyce left the hospital, a quick, quiet funeral was held before Joyce could pay her respects, and shortly after, Ray was transferred to another base. The Katainen's never returned to Tampa and never erected a tombstone for their son.

In recent years, the couple now in their 90s, moved to Nebraska to be closer to family who had not known of their loss from long ago until it was revealed through new conversation which triggered the extended family to reach out to me for help. I did some research and successfully located Bryon Dean’s unmarked grave. The cemetery placed a temporary marker to identify his resting place, though tragically, Bryon’s father passed away just days before I found him. I knew we had to do more for Joyce and her son and thanks to your incredible generosity and support, 71 years after his passing we successfully raised funds to erect a beautiful, permanent granite monument for Bryon Dean and Joyce Katainen.

Well, I recently learned that Bryon's mother, Joyce, has passed away at 93. While it's incredibly sad, it brings me so much peace to know that, thanks to your kindness, she was able to see photos of her son’s beautiful memorial before she passed.Thank you for making this possible and helping bring closure to this family.

TGC

Tonight is one of those times where we simply quote a story from the time in which it occurred because quite honestly do...
05/26/2026

Tonight is one of those times where we simply quote a story from the time in which it occurred because quite honestly doing so, literally takes us back to the height of the Christmas holiday season, more than 115 years ago.

Tonight's presentation is both fascinating, terribly sad, and a longggg read, 1910 style.

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⭐️Dateline: December 19th, 1910⭐️

"Mrs Harrell sends bullet through heart at. Donahoo home".

"In stones throw, young husband at his home awaits her return - Assigns no reason for act.'

"Married 3 months ago in this city as the culmination of a courtship of three weeks, and apparently in the midst of a very happy honeymoon, Mrs Ivey O. Harrell 21 years of age, brought her life to a close yesterday at 11 a.m. with a bullet sent through her heart. She died three minutes afterward declaring herself alone responsible for her decision to take her own life and giving no reason for this determination. She left no note or letter as an explanation."

"In many respects the tragedy is one of the saddest that has happened in Tampa. Mrs Harrell lived at No 2815 Morgan Street with her husband, an assistant money order clerk in.the local postoffice. There the husband had prepared for her a cosy home, but she chose as the scene of her last act the home of the Messr's James H. and F. M Donahoo, No 3821 Florida avenue, not a square removed from the home where she has presided as queen during the short interval of married life."

"Husband at Home"

"At this home her husband, himself not much older than his youthful bride, remained, entirely unconscious of the happenings at another home, almost within a stones throw of his door, where his wife figured as the principal character in the life and death drama. He did not hear the report of the pistol, but a moment later was apprised of the deed and lost no time in repairing to the scene."

"Her Mother in House"

"Apparently in the best of humor and preparing to spend Sunday with her sister, Mrs W F Burts, Mrs Harrell called at the house of the Donahoo's. She was conversing in her usual happy way with the Donahoo's and her mother, Mrs. Weathersby, when Mr. Lida Donahoo' went upstairs to his room on the second floor of the house. Mrs. Harrell followed him and went into his room. Mr. Donahoo was preparing to remove his clothes and he placed his revolver on a shelf just as his cousin entered the room. She asked him to step out on the porch and see if her husband was at home. The Harrell and Donahoo residences adjoin although fronting on seperate thoroughfares. Mr. Donahoo returned in a few moments and informed his cousin that her husband was at home and preparing to come over."

"Mr. Donahoo was trying to unlock a trunk when he heard a shot. He thought that Mrs. Harrell had been playing with the gun and accidentally discharged it. As he turned around, she staggered and fell on the bed. He asked her "What is the matter?" and she replied, "Nothing, I am alright now." Mrs. Weathersby, her mother and the members of the Donaho families who were in the sitting room heard the shot and rushed upstairs. As soon as Mrs. Weathersby entered the room, the dying woman exclaimed, "don't blame anyone mother it's all my fault."

"No Inquest"

W.F. Burts, her brother in law which arrived at the house a few moments later immediately started in search of a physician. He met Dr. Adamson and both rushed to the house, but it was too late. The doctor, after a thorough examination, stated that death was almost instantaneous, the bullet having entered the body near the heart. Dr. Adamson notified Justice Gibson who hurried to the house accompanied by Detective W.W. Woodward. The judge satisfied himself that it was a clear case of su***de and permitted the body to be removed to the Reed undertaking parlors without appointing a special coroners jury.

"A Miss Weathersby"

Mrs. Harrell's maiden name was Cola Weathersby. She came from Jackson, Mississippi four months ago on a visit to her sister, Mrs. W.F. Burts. Shortly after her arrival she met and fell in love with Ivey O. Harrell. They were married September 24 and Mr Harrell purchased the house at 2815 Morgan
street in which the couple made their home.
All her relatives are at a loss to account for her action unless it was her brooding over the fact that her mother, who was visiting her, was to return home within the next few days. Mrs. Weathersby, the aged mother of the su***de was prostrated last night at the home of Mrs. Burts and no statement could be obtained from her. She arrived in Tampa last Friday night "

Mr. Donahoo Talks

"Lida Donahoo made the following statement."
"Shortly after I came home this morning, my cousin, Mrs. Harrell told me that she had an invitation from Mr. and Mrs. Burts to take Sunday dinner with them and that Mr. Burts would call for her in his automobile." I went up to my room and she came. We were talking for a few moments and she asked me several times whether I was going to the bath room and going to dress up and attend Mrs. Burts dinner. I told her "No" and then she asked me to go out into the hall and look across the yard and see if her husband was sitting on.the back porch. Which I did." I started to get some clothes out of my trunk and was just fumbling with the lock, my back being turned to her when I heard the shot and the only thing that occurred to me was that she had picked up the revolver and accidentally shot it off. When I turned around she fell backwards on the bed. I asked her what was the matter and she said nothing, I'm all right now."

"She was so calm and collected thst it took me a moment to realize that she had shot herself. Mrs. Harrell was related to us and living right next door to our house, she spent a good amount of her time with us. I have not known of her having any serious trouble and I never heard her complain of anything. For all I could judge she and her husband were living happily and she was always in the best of spirits. Her action is a complete surprise to us and we cannot account for any possible motive that could have possessed her to take her life."

Harrell's Statement

Mr Harrell broke down completely when he witnessed the blood stained body of his wife. When asked whether he knew for any reason for her action he said: "I cannot understand why she would have thought of taking her life. We have only been married s short time and were very happy."

The husband had expected his wife to return home soon after she, with her mother went to Mr. Donahoo's home. He had expressed to her a desire to talk over with her some matters pertaining to the improvement of their residence. The mother of the Messr's James H. Donahoo, F.M. Donahoo and Lida Donahoo is an aunt of Mrs. Harrell. The news of Mrs. Harrell's su***de was telegraphed to her two brothers in St. Louis and her sister who resides in Jackson, Mississippi. The funeral will be held at 10 o'clock this morning from the Reed under taking parlors."

Cola Elizabeth Weathersby Harrell...Beloved wife, daughter, sister

Before & After

Memorial Day is our National day of remembrance to honor the brave military service members who made the ultimate sacrif...
05/25/2026

Memorial Day is our National day of remembrance to honor the brave military service members who made the ultimate sacrifice while serving their country. It’s a heartfelt promise that their courage, selflessness, and devotion to our shared freedoms will never be forgotten..
Today, we would like to highlight the life and sacrifice of United States Army Private First Class Carl Edward Brinson.

This is his story...

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Carl Edward Brinson was born in Tampa, Florida nearly 102 years ago on August 2nd, 1924 to his father, Frank Daniel Hollingsworth Brinson (1889-1955), who supported his family as a a truck driver, and mother, Bertha Elizabeth Bloodworth (1897-1991). He was the 4th of seven children welcomed into the World by his parents. Tonight's subject had three elder brothers, Eugene Frank, Horace Doyle, and Jack Roger, as well as three younger sisters, Nellie, Wanda Irene, and Mary Ann.

After having had graduated from Hillsborough High School in 1942, this evening's honoree enlisted with the United States Army on March 5th, 1943 and was soon assigned to the 115th Infantry and famed Blue and Gray 29th Division. After extensive training stateside, Private Brinson and his comrades first taste of combat was on June 6th, 1944, D-Day, when their unit landed on Omaha Beach. Tasked with pushing inland to capture Saint-Laurent-sur-Mer, they faced heavily fortified German defenses, severe minefields, and intense mortar fire. Following the bloody assault on St. Laurent-sur-Mer (which earned the Regiment the Presidential Unit Citation), the 115th engaged in grueling, close-quarters combat for 44 days in order to capture the vital transport hub of St. Lô.

⭐️On July 18th, 1944, Carl Edward's 115th Infantry Regiment of the U.S. 29th Infantry Division fought its way through intense, block-by-block combat to finally secure the strategic French city of Saint-Lô. This victory effectively broke the bitter six-week "Battle of the Hedgerows" and paved the way for the Allied breakout from Normandy. It was on that victorious day when this evening's honoree would make the ultimate sacrifice and become one of more than 11,000 American casualties of this brutal, grueling phase of the Normandy campaign. He was nineteen years old.

Private First Class, Carl Edward Brinson... Beloved son, brother, patriotic American hero of the Second World War 🇺🇲🇺🇲🇺🇲... Forever 19

Before & After

Thank you for your service young man 🎖🪖🎖

⭐️ Note: This evening's honoree's brotherr, Eugene Frank (22) was (k)illed in a vehicular accident @ Fresno, California in 1940 as an enrollee with the Civilan Conservation Carps.16 years earlier, his paternal grandfather, Stonewall Jackson Brinson lost his life in Tampa Bay following a tragic boating accident in 1924...

05/25/2026

This Memorial Day, we solemnly honor Private First Class Carl Edward Brinson. At just 19 years old, he made the ultimate sacrifice on July 18, 1944, giving his life in combat against (N)azi forces during the grueling Battle of the Hedgerows in Saint-Lô, France.,

We look forward to honoring Carl Edward's life and legacy later this evening. Please join us as we share his full journey tonight at 7:30 p.m. EST !!

This weekend, as we gather for barbecues and enjoy the long weekend, we pause to remember the true meaning of Memorial D...
05/22/2026

This weekend, as we gather for barbecues and enjoy the long weekend, we pause to remember the true meaning of Memorial Day. Thank you to the brave men and women who made the ultimate sacrifice for our country. We honor your courage and hold your families in our hearts...

⭐️We have reflected on the extraordinary legacies of the brave men you see here who laid down their lives to protect our liberties. This coming Monday, we will add another distinguished name to this hallowed list. We hope you will join us to pay our respects.

TGC

05/22/2026

Okay, simple post.

No pictures, no research, no stories, no restorations, just a few questions.

⭐️Am I overestimating the quality of our work?
For example, knowing what went into this evening's year long project I was so impressed with how it came out but apparently I'm alone in my thinking...

⭐️Has your enjoyment of our content fallen off of a cliff? If so, why??

⭐️Do you prefer the increasing number of TikTok/ Cemetery Selfie content creators?

⭐️We initially began this page by honoring Veterans and telling their inspirational stories of patriotism and sacrifice through their monument restorations. As time has gone by, these projects are now by far the least popular that we share. Why do you think that is?

⭐️Do you believe Facebook is preventing many of our subscribers from seeing the majority of what we share?

Truly, I'm at a loss right now...

Okay, lets try this again...1 YEAR ‼️‼️‼️ That's how long it took to complete this restoration. Why so long you ask? Wel...
05/21/2026

Okay, lets try this again...

1 YEAR ‼️‼️‼️

That's how long it took to complete this restoration. Why so long you ask? Well, this dual memorial erected for a husband and wife was made from a very porous marble and it just didn't meet the standards you or I are accustomed to me sharing here.

● Could I have taken the "finished / restored pictures 8 weeks after this project was begun?Absolutely, and none of you would have questioned it or thought it didn't look great. With that being said, I knew it had so much more potential and I needed to be patient and wait for the deeply embedded biological growth to be drawn out. Essentially, trust the process...

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⭐️Joseph S. O'Neil was born in Reading, Pennsylvania more than 160 years ago on March 24th, 1866 to his parents, Simon and Martha O'Neil. We did not find that he had any siblings.

⭐️Elizabeth "Bessie" McReynolds was born in the Yellowhammer state of Alabama nearly 161 years ago on July 4th, 1865 to her father, Robert S. McReynolds (1828 - 1890, and mother, Mary J. Hogan (1836 - 1926) She had 5 elder siblings, Mary, Lucy, John H, Orlean, and Earnestine as well as a younger brother, Lucian and sister, Rowena. Her father supported his family in the mercantile business and at times, as a farmer.

This evening's co-honoree's family history and personal story is a complicated one and bit of tangled web of mystery. On October 26th, 1887 Bessie married fellow Alabama native, William Winston Steele (1857 - 1937). The couple didn't have any children during the course of their time together. Some aspects of the Steele's fate as a married couple were deducted in a few different ways. The last time they're recorded as being together was the Alabama census from 1900 yet curiously Bessie married Mr. O'Neil in September of 1909, meaning she was either widowed or divorced by that time and since Mr. Steele lived until1937, it was the latter even though no public divorce records were found.

Mr. O'Neil's life was also rather mysterious. We know that he arrived in Tampa, Florida from Reading, Pennsylvania in 1902 and was a successful and skilled carpenter who worked with sawmills and took part in various construction projects. Now the question became how did Mr. O'Neil and Ms. McReynolds Steele come to be? Well, that too required some deep dig investigative work.
Bessie's brother, John was a prominent saw mill operator who relocated to Tampa from Alabama in 1914. We're left to surmise that he and Mr. O'Neil somehow were the work related connection to Bessie. Further delving led us to multiple romantic marriage articles from Florence, Alabama describing the wedding of Joseph "O'Neal" who hailed from Tampa, Florida and a local young lady, Mrs. Bessie Steele. Immediately following their nuptials the couple permanently relocated to Tampa.
The O'Neil's who were childless led fairly quiet lives until the Spring and early Summer of 1927. Suddenly, articles began to appear asking for volunteers to provide blood to Mr. J.S. O'Neil as he was critically ill. Many people did their part but sadly he would lose the fight and passed away on June 19th, 1927. According to his (d)eath certificate he (d)ied of
pernicious syphilis. (Pernicious syphilis is an archaic or rarely used term generally referring to severe, rapidly progressive, or fatal forms of syphilis. Historically, this often described severe destructive forms of late-stage (tertiary) syphilis or severe neurosyphilis that led to rapid neurological decline.) Because antibiotics were not yet available, physicians of the era sometimes performed drastic treatments. In desperate cases, blood transfusions were used to clear out toxic infections, boost a failing immune system, or treat blood loss.

Following the loss of Joseph, Bessie remained in Tampa before passing away on June 19th. 1934 which was the precise 7 year anniversary of her husbands (d)eath.

Joseph S. O'Neil and Elizabeth "Bessie" McReynolds O'Neil..

Beloved husband and wife

Before & After

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Thank you so much for stopping by and visiting with us and our amazing honoree's ‼️

Until we meet again...

Be well

TGC

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