Bruised “N Battered Angels of Missouri

03/23/2026

I think it’s beautiful — the way you show up in this world, unguarded and willing to try again, despite all of the ways it has tried to defeat you.

03/23/2026

It doesn't invalidate what they did! 💙

03/23/2026

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11/03/2025

Good women don’t have bad taste in men — it’s narcissistic men that have good taste in good women, because they know exactly who to target. They don’t chase chaos; they chase kindness. They seek out women with empathy, loyalty, and strength — the ones who forgive easily, love deeply, and see potential in people even when it’s buried under red flags. To a narcissist, a good woman isn’t just a partner; she’s an endless source of supply — admiration, emotional labor, and validation they could never give themselves.

At first, he studies her like a project. He mirrors her values, reflects her dreams, and pretends to be everything she’s ever prayed for. He listens, compliments, and pays attention to every detail. It’s not love — it’s data collection. He’s learning her triggers, her weaknesses, and what makes her light up so he can later control that light. To her, it feels like fate. To him, it’s strategy. Narcissists are rarely attracted to women who are weak; they want women strong enough to carry the relationship alone when things start to fall apart.

Soon, the mask starts to slip. The same man who once adored her now criticizes her. The compliments turn into comparisons, the listening turns into silent treatments, and the charm transforms into control. He begins to drain her confidence while convincing her that she’s the problem. And because she’s a good woman, she tries harder. She gives more, forgives more, and prays more — hoping that the man she met in the beginning is still somewhere inside. But the truth is, he never existed. He was only a reflection of who she is.

By the time she realizes what’s happening, she’s emotionally exhausted and mentally confused. She questions her worth, doubts her instincts, and starts to believe that maybe she really does have “bad taste in men.” But the reality is, she didn’t fall for a man — she fell for a performance. The narcissist wore her love like a costume, and when she finally saw behind the mask, she wasn’t looking at a lover, but an actor who thrived on her light.

So no, good women don’t have bad taste in men. Narcissistic men just have excellent taste in good women. They know the kind of heart that will keep loving even when it hurts. But here’s the power twist — once a good woman learns to love herself the way she used to love him, she becomes the one thing a narcissist can’t control or destroy. Her empathy turns into wisdom, her pain turns into strength, and her heart becomes her shield.

03/15/2025

01/10/2025

So last year I proposed a bill to a couple Mo Reps. I heard nothing, so the Lord has laid it upon my heart that thisis not something I should give up on, i am sharing with you my letter to the State reps THIS year as of Jan 1, 2025 along with my proposed Bill.
If you agree with this Act, Please comment YES. Thank you! God Bless.
Dear Mo State Representatives,

My name is Kelly Lyons, and I am a proud native of Lake of the Ozarks, Missouri. I currently reside in Washington County, where my husband and his family also call home. Professionally, I am employed by a company based in Lake of the Ozarks, and I am honored to serve as the CEO and Founder of Bruised & Battered Angels of Missouri, a non-profit organization dedicated to supporting survivors of domestic violence. Additionally, I am blessed to be a mother of five daughters and grandmother to thirteen grandchildren.
Throughout my life, I have faced and survived domestic violence, an experience that has profoundly shaped my mission to educate and collaborate with public and private organizations that address domestic abuse. My work involves consulting with first responders such as police officers and EMTs, victim advocates, and judges who play critical roles in the lives of both victims and offenders.
I am deeply grateful to have survived my ordeal and to continue pursuing what I believe to be a divine calling: protecting, educating, and supporting individuals striving to leave abusive situations. Alarmingly, statistics reveal that 75% of victims are killed by their abusers after leaving the relationship. This is unacceptable. Additionally, many abusers are already identifying their next potential victim, perpetuating a relentless cycle of violence and fear.
During my struggle, I became acutely aware of the significant gaps in knowledge and training among law enforcement, pastors, teachers, prosecuting attorneys, victim advocates, and judges regarding the complexities and depths of domestic abuse. This lack of understanding exacerbates the suffering of those caught in abusive environments and contributes to the escalating epidemic within our communities.
It is evident that as a community and society, we must take proactive steps to drive meaningful changes within our churches, schools, neighborhoods, and state legislatures. To this end, I have previously reached out to the State Representatives regarding a petition for legislation that mandates individuals convicted of domestic violence to register as Domestic Violence Offenders, akin to the existing requirements for Sexual Offenders.
Implementing such a law would empower individuals to research potential partners, thereby preventing exposure to possible abuse or even fatal violence. I am seeking your support to help enact this crucial legislation. By instituting mandatory registration for domestic violence offenders, we can better protect innocent individuals, safeguard the well-being of children who witness these traumatic events, and break the destructive cycle of domestic violence within families and communities.
The mental and emotional toll on children exposed to domestic abuse is profound, leading to PTSD, fear, and difficulties in forming healthy relationships in the future. Addressing this issue through legislative action is essential to fostering safer and healthier communities for all Missourians.
I respectfully request your assistance in championing this cause. Your support can make a significant difference in protecting innocent lives and ensuring that our State Representatives, law enforcement officers, and government officials prioritize the safety and well-being of our citizens.
Thank you for your time, consideration, and willingness to support this vital initiative. Together, we can create a Missouri where all individuals feel safe, protected, and valued.
God bless you, and may you have a blessed year ahead.

Here is a copy of the bill:
Bill for the State of Missouri
Bill Title:
Missouri Domestic Abuse Offender Registration Act
Bill Number:
[Assigned by the Legislative]
Sponsored By:
Bruised & Battered Angels of Mo.
Effective Date:
This Act shall take effect on January 22,2026
Section 1: Title
This Act shall be known and may be cited as the “ Missouri Domestic Abuse Offender Registration Act”
Section 2: Purpose
The purpose of this Act is to enhance public safety and provide law enforcement with necessary information by requiring individuals convicted of domestic violence abuse offenses to register with the State of Missouri. This registration aims :
1. Facilitate monitoring and supervision of offenders
2. Increase public awareness and safety.
3. Prevent future occurrences of domestic abuse

Section 3: Definitions
For the purpose of this Act, the following terms are as defined as:
1. Domestic Abuse: Any Act of violence, intimidation, harassment, or coercion committed by one family or household member against another, including but not limited to physical harm, emotional abuse, sexual abuse, or financial control.
2. Offender: An individual convicted of a domestic abuse offense as defined under Missouri Revised Statues Chapter 560, which includes offenses such as domestic assault, stalking, harassment.
3. Registration: The process by which an offender provides personal information to the State, maintained in a confidential database accessible to law enforcement and as permitted by law, to the public.
4. Law Enforcement Agency: Any city , county or state or state police department or law enforcement entity authorized to enforce laws within the State of Missouri.

Section 4: Registration Requirements
1. Mandatory Registration: All individuals convicted of a domestic assault offense are required to register with the State of Missouri Department of Public Safety, within 48 hours of their conviction or release from incarceration, whichever occurs later.
2. Information to be Provided: Offenders must furnish the following information during registration:
• Full legal name
• Aliases
• Date of Birth
• Current residential address and any past addresses for the preceding five years
• Employment information
• Vehicle information, including license plate number, and vehicle identification number {VIN}
• Any other information deemed necessary by the Department of Public Safety.
3. Updates: Offenders must update their registration information within Five days of any change in address, employment, or other pertinent information.
4. Duration of Registration: Offenders shall be required to maintain registration for a duration of Five years, following the completion of their sentence, probation, or parole. The Department of Public Safety may extend this period based on the severity of the offense and risk assessment.
Section 5: Database Accessibility
1. Confidential Database: The Department of Public Safety shall maintain a secure and confidential database of registered domestic abuse offenders.
2. Access by Law Enforcement: Law enforcement agencies shall have access to the registration database to aid in investigations and ensure the safety of victims.
3. Public Access: information about registered offenders shall be made available to the public through an online portal, except in cases where disclosure may compromise ongoing investigations, or offender rehabilitation.
Section 6: Enforcement and Compliance
1. Compliance Monitoring: The Department of Public Safety shall monitor compliance with registration requirements and conduct regular audits of the registration database
2. Failure to Register: Any offender who fails to register as required by this Act shall be subject to legal penalties, including but not limited to fines, revocation of probation or parole and potential incarceration.
Section 7: Penalties
1. First Offense: A first time violation of the registration requirement shall be classified as a misdemeanor, punishable by a fine of up to $500.00 and/or imprisonment for up to 30 days.
2. Subsequent Offenses: Any subsequent violations shall be classified as a felony, punishable by a fine of up to $2000.00 and/or imprisonment for up to 2 years.
3. Additional Penalties: Courts may impose additional sanctions as deemed appropriate to ensure compliance and protect public safety.

Section 8: Funding and Resources
The Department of Public Safety shall be authorized to allocate necessary funding and resources to implement and maintain the domestic abuse offender registration system, including personnel, technology, and training.
Section 9: Severability
If any provision of this Act, or the application thereof to any person or circumstance, is found to be unconstitutional or invalid, the remainder of the Act shall not be affected and shall remain in full force and effect.
Section 10: Sunset Clause
This Act shall remain in effect unless amended or repealed by the Legislature. A review of its effectiveness and impact shall be conducted Seven years after its enactment.
Section 11: Implementation
The Governor shall promulgate rules and regulations necessary to implement the provisions of this Act, within 90 days of its passage.

End of Bill.

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