08/10/2026
"Our journey to building our family through embryo adoption with the NEDC was long, and full of both heartbreak and joy. It probably deserves a whole separate post dedicated to that journey, but today we wanted to send an open letter of thanks to our those who donated the embryos we adopted. We chose open adoption, and over our 5-year journey with the NEDC, we matched with 7 donors for a total of 16 embryos. That means that seven different couples said 'yes' to donating their embryos to us. As recipients, we don’t fully know all of the emotions behind what those 'yes' responses held, but we can imagine. Our prayer has always been that we, as recipients, have been able to help close a chapter for these donors. A chapter that would have held their own stories and (likely) heartbreak unique to them. But the fact that they chose to give these embryos life, and allow us to steward those lives, is a miracle story we’ll never grow tired of telling. We are forever grateful to all of our donors for the sacrifice and choice they made in order to give us a chance at having a family. We now have three beautiful children: Marlee (4), Haley (9 months), and Haynes (9 months). They are all from separate donating families. (Yes, we have 'twins' that don’t share DNA!) And although this is never how we imagined our family would look, we now can’t imagine it being any different. Even though none of us share genetics, we’d like to think that means we look just a little bit like what family will look like in heaven: connected in a way that is more than just genetics. But we will forever and always be grateful to the genetic families. And we firmly believe that words do not exist that can adequately express the gratitude we have to them. Some of these families we got to know, some we never spoke directly with, and some we now have ongoing communication with. But to all of them - all 7 of them - thank you. From the depths of our hearts, thank you for your 'yes.' Your 'yes' to your own IVF journey. Your 'yes' to donating. Your 'yes' to us. "
-Sydney & Perry Walden, parents of NEDC kids Marlee, Haley, & Haynes
More inspiration: https://www.embryodonation.org/personal-embryo-adoption-stories