With Inc.

04/22/2026

We are missing a couple but that’s a wrap on cohort #1 of The Lamppost for ministry leaders. There were tears as we shared words of encouragement and life with each person and I’m so thankful for these friends and this work. Jesus is generous and kind.

To be honest, I’m having a hard time leaving the parking lot. I’ve been sitting here in my car for 20 minutes crying. I think it’s a longing for Home. For the last four months we have gone to the depths with one another and we have found him faithful, even in the middle of hard. I keep waiting for the journey to get easier, but i don’t think it does. I don’t say that to be depressing but to make us aware that the struggle is real and the gift is his presence in it all. I should start my car now and turn on Journey. There’s not much that Don’t Stop Believing can’t help.

04/14/2026

Story time. A few years ago I met rebekah Wilson and Carrie Jacobs, the founders of Willow Springs Counseling. I was so lonely working on my own and running With Inc. They invited me to bring With over to Willow and office with them, be part of the team, all while still being my own entity. They gave me a team and daily support and invited me in when I needed people to belong to….as a single woman running her own ministry, I can’t tell you how that gave me wind in my sails to keep going. To be able to walk into this space and watch ten other amazingly skilled and healthy counselors do their work, as I do mine, brings a level of encouragement that’s hard to explain. You never know when you’ll find flowers on your desk, funny jokes written on your white board that you might see in the middle of a session (“Hope your chronic IBS is doing better.”), endless supplies of laughs, hugs from Val, Tara or Katie, or people to troubleshoot with. I would trust any of you with these dear friends. Thanks Willow Springs Counseling for giving me and With Inc a place to belong.

04/13/2026

We have so many opportunities for you! Come be a part!

04/02/2026

✨Spring Giveaway Time!✨
A little whimsy & soul care from With’s founder, Beth.

Giveaway Includes:
🔸Prayer in the Night by Tish Harrison Warren
🔸Jay Stringers new book Desire
🔸The Ordinary Hyaluronic Acid
🔸Snail Mucin Essence because nothing screams soul care like snail mucus for your face.
🔸My favorite candle that smells like a clean cowboy - Leather & Embers.
🔸And finally! A scholarship to your choice of either the Soul Care Retreat for ministry leaders and counselors on October 22nd & 23rd OR Rest in the Wrestle Retreat October 23rd & 24th. (see website for more details!)

To enter:
1️⃣Follow With’s Instagram
2️⃣Share this post to your story
3️⃣Comment and tag 3 of your friends on this post

Winner will be picked & announced on April 10! 🕊️

12/31/2025

Hey there, ministry friends! There's still time to sign up to be part of our Lamppost cohort!

“The way of Jesus cannot be imposed or mapped — it requires an active participation in following Jesus as he leads us through sometimes strange and unfamiliar territory, in circumstances that become clear only in the hesitations and questionings, in the pauses and reflections where we engage in ...

12/02/2025

Come be a part of The Lamppost! Link in comments.

10/08/2025

We are excited to offer a 4-month cohort for 8-10 ministry leaders starting in January.

07/08/2025

🚨 Nightmare on App Street 🚨
A 4-week support group for single women navigating the modern dating minefield.
If you've ever stared at your phone thinking,
“Is it me… or are all the good ones actually in a bunker somewhere?”
You're not alone.
Dating can feel like an endless loop of disappointment, ghosting, gut punches, and the occasional “maybe?” that ends in “nope.”
If you’re tempted to give up, shut down, or settle — come sit on my couch instead.
🖤 We’ll gather at my (Beth Wayland) house each week.
🧀 We’ll talk about red flags and how they’re not an invitation to a carnival
🙏🏽 We’ll talk about Jesus and being honest.
🪞We’ll wrestle with hope, honesty, and the cost of abandoning ourselves just to “make it work.”
This isn’t a strategy class. It’s a time of soul care, which is simply looking at our life under the care and connection of God.
You’re not crazy. You’re not alone. And you’re not hopeless.
When: Tuesdays from 6:30 PM - 8:00 PM beginning August 12th, 19th, 26th, and September 2nd
Where: Beth’s House

Cost: $160, which is the cost of 1 session with a licensed therapist. Pay via Venmo to secure your spot
Spots are limited.

11/04/2024

For those of you who are new to this account, welcome! My name is Beth Wayland and I’m the Founder and Executive Director of With Inc. - a ministry that creates soul care and spiritual formation opportunities. We are entering our 10th year of existence and will celebrate with our third England Soul Care trip in September.

When I turned 40, my friends and family gave me money to go to England. I wanted to see London, visit Oxford, and walk a portion of The Cotswold Way. Someone was supposed to go with me but in a last-minute plot twist, I went by myself. I fell in love with England and wanted to bring a group back to experience what I had. That’s how England Soul Care was born!

What does a soul care trip encompass? Well, think about carving out time for you to look at your life under the care and connection of God, facilitated by three trusted guides - a counselor and two spiritual directors. There’s fun, beauty, whimsy, quiet, laughter, and immersive experiences such as going to CS Lewis’s home and church. Some have described the trip as following in the footsteps of Lewis and The Inklings. I might be biased, but I think it’s special. I hope you’ll consider joining us. You can go to withincorporated.org for more information. Feel free to reach out with your questions. We take twelve women and there are still spots available

10/09/2024

Here is the promised list of resources for walking through trauma (feel free to add your favorites in the comment section). I will put all the links in the comment section:

1. The link to my interview with my trauma-informed friend Carol Skeirik of Blue Sky in Knoxville, TN is in the comments. Reach out to Carol at blueskycoaching.org. The liturgy I read at the end of the seminar was from the book, Feel: A Collection of Liturgies Offering Hope for Every Complicated Emotion by Anjuli Paschall

2. Types of therapy designed specifically to help with trauma: EMDR, Brainspotting, Tapping, ART

3. Try Softer by Aundi Kolber. She gives lots of practical exercises to help when you are overwhelmed. You can also hear her speak at the end of The Rise and Fall of Mars Hill podcast.

4. The Place We Find Ourselves podcast by Adam Young is excellent. He has quite a few on Trauma.

5. Finding Hope After Trauma Webinar by Jen Hand with Coming Alive Jenn Hand at Coming Alive Ministries

6. Stress Response Course by Jen Hand

7. After Trauma: Hope Guide by Jen Hand

8. Suffering and the Heart of God: How Trauma Destroys & Christ Restores by Diane Langberg

9. On Spotify or YouTube, you can find bilateral stimulation music. Listen to it with your earphones as you walk, clean, or if you are trying to calm yourself down.

10/09/2024

https://youtu.be/QEDry0kolqo?si=pqn6t1w-84mGMWtY

Practical tools to identify and deal with the effects of trauma after experiencing Hurricane Helene