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Teachthemtolove Community Outreach-"T3L" Counseling and Outreach services for the surrounding communities and victims of Domestic/Family Violence, Sexual Assault and Substance Use and Addictions.

💜👑 ONLY 3 DAYS AWAY! The Shades of Purple Ball Is Almost Here!The countdown is officially on! In just THREE DAYS, we wil...
10/21/2026

💜👑 ONLY 3 DAYS AWAY! The Shades of Purple Ball Is Almost Here!

The countdown is officially on! In just THREE DAYS, we will gather in Dallas for an extraordinary evening dedicated to healing, empowerment, awareness, and celebrating the strength of those who have overcome adversity. 💜

The Shades of Purple Domestic Violence Awareness Ball: An Urban Night Affair is more than an elegant celebration. It is an opportunity to honor powerful journeys, amplify voices, and remind our communities that domestic violence awareness must extend beyond a single month.

✨ Here’s what awaits you:

👑 Our special Overcomer Crowning Ceremony

🎤 Inspirational speakers and powerful testimonies

🎶 Live entertainment

💜 Domestic violence awareness and advocacy

🥂 An elegant evening of celebration and community connection

Every Overcomer has a story. Every story deserves to be heard. And every person deserves a future filled with dignity, safety, and hope.

📅 Saturday, October 24, 2026
⏰ 4:00 PM – 9:00 PM
📍 JW Marriott Dallas Arts District

Hosted by Teach Them to Love Outreach Ministries.

💜 From Pain to Purpose to Power!

👇 Tag someone you would love to experience this meaningful evening with!

10/21/2026

Teaching Our Daughters That Faith Doesn’t Require Self-Abandonment 💜

One of the most important lessons we can teach our daughters is that loving someone should never require them to lose themselves.

Many women were raised to believe that commitment means enduring hardship, sacrificing personal needs, and remaining strong no matter what.

But there is an important difference between working through challenges in a healthy relationship and remaining in a situation that continually compromises your well-being.

As mothers, our choices can become examples our daughters carry into their own relationships.

💜 We can teach them to pray while also teaching them to recognize unhealthy patterns.

We can teach them compassion while showing them the importance of boundaries.

And we can teach them that their value does not depend on how much pain they are willing to endure.

Faith, wisdom, and self-respect can work together.

Our daughters deserve to see examples of love that include dignity, mutual respect, and emotional safety.

👇 What is one relationship lesson you believe every mother should teach her daughter?

10/13/2026

🚨 BEFORE YOU LABEL THAT CHILD AS A PROBLEM, ASK YOURSELF WHAT THEY MAY BE GOING THROUGH. 💔

This is a conversation every parent, teacher, counselor, and community leader needs to hear.

We are often quick to recognize when a child is behaving differently.

We notice when they become withdrawn.

We notice when their grades begin to decline.

We notice when they become angry, fearful, disruptive, or disconnected.

But how often do we stop and ask WHY?

Sometimes the behavior we are trying to correct is connected to pain we haven’t taken the time to understand.

A child experiencing trauma may not have the language, confidence, or sense of safety needed to explain what is happening in their life.

And when we misunderstand those warning signs, we risk overlooking a child who needs support.

💜 We must learn to recognize changes in behavior without immediately assigning negative labels.

💜 We must create environments where children feel safe enough to communicate.

💜 And when we suspect abuse or neglect, we must take appropriate steps to protect them.

THE QUESTION SHOULD NOT ALWAYS BE “WHAT’S WRONG WITH YOU?” SOMETIMES WE NEED TO ASK “WHAT HAPPENED TO YOU?”

🗣️ I WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU: Do you believe our schools and communities are doing enough to recognize childhood trauma?

👇 Let’s have this important conversation.

🔁 SHARE this message with a parent, educator, counselor, or community leader.

10/12/2026

💔 TWO CHILDREN. ONE UNIMAGINABLE TRAGEDY. A LIFETIME OF QUESTIONS.

There are some stories that should cause us to stop and examine what is happening behind closed doors.

The tragic deaths of former Virginia Lieutenant Governor Justin Fairfax and his wife, Dr. Cerina Fairfax, have brought attention to a heartbreaking reality: the devastating impact domestic violence can have on children.

Their children were reportedly inside the home when the tragedy occurred.

And I want us to think about something…

What happens to the children after the police leave, the cameras disappear, and the headlines move on?

Who helps them process the grief?

Who helps them navigate the fear?

Who helps them understand something that no child should ever have to experience?

Children exposed to domestic violence may experience emotional and psychological trauma that requires ongoing support, compassion, and professional care.

💜 We cannot focus only on the tragedy and forget about those left to live with its consequences.

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IS NOT JUST AN ADULT ISSUE. IT IS A FAMILY AND COMMUNITY ISSUE.

As we raise awareness, let’s also advocate for prevention, safer homes, and accessible mental health resources for children affected by violence.

🗣️ I WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU: What can families, schools, churches, and communities do to better support children who have experienced domestic violence?

👇 Let’s have this important conversation.

🔁 Please SHARE this message. Awareness can open the door to prevention and healing.

10/09/2026

🚨 CAN YOU REALLY HELP SOMEONE HEAL IF YOU DON’T UNDERSTAND WHERE THEY COME FROM?

This is a conversation we NEED to have! 💜

When someone walks into a counseling session, they don’t leave their culture, upbringing, family history, beliefs, or life experiences at the door.

They bring ALL of it with them.

And those experiences can influence how they communicate, process pain, respond to trauma, and seek help.

That’s why cultural considerations have become such an important part of counseling practice.

But here’s something worth discussing…

Understanding someone’s diagnosis is not the same as understanding their lived experience.

We need counselors who are willing to listen beyond the symptoms and recognize the person behind them.

💜 Everyone deserves to feel heard, respected, and understood.

🗣️ I WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU: Do you think cultural differences can affect the relationship between a counselor and the person seeking help?

👇 Share your thoughts below. Let’s have a meaningful conversation!

🔁 SHARE this post to help bring more awareness to culturally responsive mental health care.

10/08/2026

💜 JUST BECAUSE THERE ARE NO BRUISES DOESN’T MEAN THERE IS NO ABUSE.

This is a conversation that every family needs to hear.

We often recognize domestic violence when there is physical harm. But what happens when the damage comes through intimidation, manipulation, humiliation, financial control, or isolation?

What happens when someone becomes afraid to make everyday decisions because of how their partner might respond?

As Dr. Lo**ta Gilmore-Randall explains, there’s a difference between a disagreement and a repeated pattern of control.

Love should never require you to live in fear.

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, and we are committed to bringing conversations like this into the light.

💜 Have you ever seen controlling behavior mistaken for love or protection?

Share your thoughts below, and please SHARE this video. You never know who might need these words.

10/03/2026

You Are Responsible for Your Healing, Not Everyone Else’s.

There is a difference between supporting someone and trying to save them.

When we love people, it’s easy to believe that enough patience, forgiveness, sacrifice, or encouragement will eventually make them change.

But real change requires participation.

You cannot heal wounds someone refuses to address. You cannot establish boundaries for someone else. You cannot force accountability, emotional maturity, or self-awareness.

And while you’re spending all of your energy trying to repair someone else, you may be neglecting the person you’re actually responsible for:

You.

Love people. Encourage them. Support their growth.

But give them the dignity and responsibility of doing their own work.

Your job isn’t to fix everyone. Your job is to make sure you’re doing your own healing. 💜

09/29/2026

Survival Was Necessary. But It Was Never Meant to Become Your Identity.

There are things we learned to do because, at one point, we needed them.

We learned to shut down. Stay guarded. Disconnect. Please everyone. Handle everything ourselves. Expect the worst. Push people away before they could leave us.

Those behaviors may have helped us navigate environments where we didn’t feel safe.

Healing doesn’t require us to hate the person we had to become to survive.

It allows us to recognize that we may no longer need the same survival strategies in the life we’re building today.

That’s where generational change becomes possible.

When you heal something within yourself, your children may not have to carry it. Your family can learn a healthier pattern. Your community can normalize something different.

We cannot change where we came from.

But we can understand it without being imprisoned by it.

Your history may be part of your story, but it doesn’t have to write the ending. 💜

09/29/2026

Sometimes the Child We Label as “Difficult” Is the Child We Haven’t Fully Understood

It’s easy to judge behavior when we don’t know the story behind it.

We see an emotional outburst, anger, aggression, or defiance and immediately focus on stopping the behavior. But particularly with children who have experienced trauma, instability, separation, or involvement in the child welfare system, there may be much more happening beneath what we can see.

Imagine already struggling with safety, belonging, or connection—and then being repeatedly defined by your most difficult moments.

That can create a painful cycle.

A child hurts. The hurt shows up through behavior. The behavior gets misunderstood. The child experiences more rejection or mistreatment. And now there is even more hurt to manage.

Breaking that cycle doesn’t mean eliminating accountability or boundaries.

It means adding understanding to them.

Children need adults willing to look beyond the behavior and ask a better question:

“What might this child be trying to communicate?”

Sometimes changing the question changes how we see the child. 💜

09/28/2026

Two People Can Love Each Other and Still Trigger Each Other

When we enter a relationship, we don’t arrive alone.

We bring our childhood experiences, family dynamics, culture, previous relationships, fears, coping mechanisms, expectations, and ideas about what love is supposed to look like.

That’s why two people can genuinely love one another and still experience the same conflict completely differently.

One person’s nervous system may respond to uncertainty by seeking closeness and reassurance. The other may respond to pressure by needing distance and space.

Then a painful cycle develops: the more one pursues, the more the other withdraws—and the more the other withdraws, the harder the first person pursues.

Eventually, both can walk away believing their deepest fear was proven correct.

But recognizing the pattern gives us an opportunity to interrupt it.

Your past can help explain how you show up in relationships, but it doesn’t have to dictate how you continue showing up.

Healthy relationships require more than love. They require self-awareness, communication, accountability, boundaries, and a willingness to heal. 💜

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