National Domestic Violence Collaborative

10/06/2023

Did she really say that?

Sometimes when we want real change we have to be willing to talk about change in a way that encourages us to see what what our blind spots have been all this time.

Tune in to hear our founder, Audrey discuss DV with Emily at Fox News. Link coming soon.

10/06/2023

In honor of domestic violence awareness month… let’s talk FOOTBALL 🏈 and 🚩’s on the play.

When your values don’t align. 🚩 on the play.

When your boundaries make them feel uncomfortable. 🚩 on the play.

When they say they’ll do something and don’t follow through. 🚩 on the play.

When they can’t give you their undivided attention while spending quality time. 🚩 on the play.

When they have unresolved trauma. 🚩 on the play.

When they don’t get along with any of your friends or family. 🚩 on the play.

When they want to be the center of your universe. 🚩 on the play.

When they don’t encourage you to pursue your wildest dreams. 🚩 on the play.

When they go silent instead of talking it out. 🚩 on the play.

When they don’t want you to have any friends of the same or opposite s*x. 🚩 on the play.

When they don’t feel worthy of you. 🚩 on the play.

When they don’t introduce you to their family and friends. 🚩 on the play.

When they don’t have a healthy relationship with their family. 🚩 on the play.

When they can’t effectively communicate their wants, needs, desires or frustrations. 🚩 on the play.

When they don’t validate you. 🚩 on the play.

When they don’t celebrate you. 🚩 on the play.

What’s your flag on the play?

07/30/2023

Happy Sunday Funday!

We are back with another Q & A session, and today we want to know what saying, quote, lyric, or motto you live by or are inspired by!

We asked some of our volunteers and here is what they had to say:
• ‘Always Believe that something Wonderful is about to happen’
• ‘A Change is Gonna Come’
• ‘Opportunities don't happen, you create them’
• ‘It is never too late to be what you might have been’
• ‘If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together’


What is your answer?
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07/28/2023

“Courage is the power to let go of the familiar”

There can be a lot said about the familiar and the comfort zone. It is just that – comfortable. But that means it can be restricting, suffocating, and stagnant.

Don’t be afraid to venture out. To find freedom and restoration for yourself. There is so much more to life than where you have been. You have the present and the future to make all of the difference. Letting go and relinquishing what has been weighing you down is where you can begin to find beauty in moving forward and celebrating life and finding freedom.

Will it be scary?
Absolutely.
Will it be worth it?
Definitely.

Whatever it is, release the familiar, remove yourself from your comfort zone, and charge forward in a way that sets your soul ablaze.

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07/27/2023

Meet Jamie!

Jamie is one of the amazing volunteers helping drive our social media presence and is always looking to lend a helping hand whenever and wherever she can!

She is a passionate ball of light with a love for doing work that matters – especially helping survivors and advocates overcome and move forward in greatness. This, coupled with her background of work in the social media and creative field, make us honored to have her as one of our courageous crewmates!

Jamie, we are so honored to have you, your heart, your talents, and your drive as a part of the NDVC team.
Be sure to drop a special hello, send a 💜, and show her some extra love in the comments!

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07/26/2023

It’s not everyday that we get to hear from powerful voices in this movement. Right to Protect we could not be more proud and excited to hear your message of change! We’re also very proud of our partnership and look forward to what’s to come!

Our Founder & CEO, Nadeya Lavandero, has the blessed opportunity to be a guest on Spotlight for Justice podcast on Aug 3 (see attached flyer). The topic Domestic violence and homelessness.

Link to show: https://www.blogtalkradio.com/nwcave/2023/08/03/domestic-violence-homelessness

07/26/2023

Meet Katy!

As a woman of many talents, Katy makes strides and moves everywhere she ventures. Her background in real estate and heart for helping survivors thrive makes her a perfect fit as our Outreach Coordinator!

Katy puts her passions into practice and shows us all what it means to inspire and create opportunities and connections for a better and brighter future.

Katy, we are so very grateful for you, your dedication, your drive, and your talents you selflessly offer up to help and heal!

Be sure to show all the love to Katy in the comments! Drop a 💜, say a special hello, and shine some light on her.

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07/25/2023

Mid-week reminder that healing can look different for everyone – even if the story is similar.

Be kind to yourself and know that it’s okay if you’re on a different timeline or at a different pace than where you thought or hoped you would be. You are allowed to move forward and find freedom at your own pace in a healthy, happy, meaningful way 💜

What are some things you have done or can do to show yourself grace along the journey of healing?

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07/24/2023

Meet Carole!

A creative soul with a love for learning, Carole’s passion for helping and serving the community and those in need has made a world of difference!

In her role as Admin Assistant, Carole puts her amazing organizational and administrative skills to great use!

Her values honor respect, loyalty, and kindness, and she exemplifies what it means to wear your heart on your sleeve. Her relentless efforts and desire to do work that matters makes her invaluable to NDVC, and we are so grateful to have her as a part of our crew!

Carole, thank you for all of your hard work! You continue to excel and make all the difference in our organization and beyond.

Drop a 💜 for Carole, say hello, and show her some love!

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07/23/2023

Happy Sunday Funday! We’re back with our Q&A update and today we would like to know what motivates you!

Drop your answer in the comments, share this question with a friend, or just think about it throughout your day!

We asked a couple of our volunteers and here were the answers:
• Something that motivates me is my significant other. I like knowing that they push me to do my best and do it in a helpful way.
• My coworkers! We all work towards the same goal and I love that we’re able to keep each-other on task and motivated to do our best for one another.
• My answer would have to be myself. I don’t mean it in a selfish way, I just like to know that there’s always something I can work towards and the only person standing in the way of me is me. That really motivates me to always keep pushing for greater and better things.
What motivates you?

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07/21/2023

Meet Eloise!

A leader, advocate, and powerhouse of a woman, Eloise makes tremendous strides and impact throughout our organization and beyond as one of NDVC’s Board Members!

Eloise has spent years giving back in the volunteer and non-profit sector and continues to make a difference in everything she does and in everywhere she goes. Eloise pours her heart, soul, and skills into all she does and it shows in her work.

She is also the founder of Harmony One Restorative Justice and serves in many other leadership roles.

Eloise, thank you isn’t enough! We are so honored to have you on our courageous crew, and we recognize you and your tremendous efforts to aid our organization and positively impact lives for the better.

Comment some love for Eloise, share a memory you have of/with her, and let her know how grateful you are for her and her dedication to a better, brighter tomorrow.