10/12/2026
Time to share this again. I’ll do it every year prob forever, and especially in October. This is what he sounded like. This is what he looked like. This is just a little snippet of what I went through. Every. Single. Day. I’d say for approx 8 years. Every. Day. Court order. Or not. Restraining order. Or Not. He would call from a landline that was No Caller Id would come up and because I didn’t. Know the number he would call from I couldn’t Block it. So he could call all day everyday whenever. It never stopped. I think I took 5 random in no particular little Order, and made this video. The first Voicemail was played in court multiple times. The first one is what lead to the PFA. Judge McGuffin heard this and actually did something about it. Judge Trauger heard this, per Jeff’s request and basically said idgaff. And we’ve already gone over this. As if well it didn’t matter that since December one was issued and my attorney tried to say things have escalated, with him. And it was relevant. And again Trauger said idgaff and it wasn’t even taken into conservation so idk what does one do about that. I guess nothing.
If anyone talks to whoever like this Fu***ng run and run fast. Hide go to Guatemala whatever it takes but run. You can hear it in his voice this is evil this is not a normal human this is disgusting this is what a real Malignant narcissistic sounds like. Narcissist has become the word of the decade and eveyone wants to call eveyone a narcissist I invite you to actually learn what one is. Other than just calling eveyone narcs..
Narcissist are broken personas from about the time they are 3 yo.. idk maybe their parents didn’t hug them enough or something idk why they become one but I do know it develops at a very young age around 3 and I was DEAD wrong I how I thought they could be helped and or how to treat them. And hence why I begged the courts to get him help make him get help therapy meds idk. I really wasn’t there calling him a a narcissist at the time because I did nt really know what one was. I was like somethings not right he had been smacked in the head prob one too many times I did ask them to CT his head because something was not right. I can say he prob had CTE from the head smacks. But I thought he was bipolar and maybe a few other things. But truth was he was a malignant narcissist and the thing is there is NO FIXING THEM. None. Nothing.
No mental health treatment in the world will help these people. Nothing no medication no behavioral therapy . Nothing. So that’s where I was dead wrong in my thinking. Assuming the judge would have mandated he receive help and go to the suggested treatment CCES and Dr Weinsteins also recommended I was wrong, and also It didn’t matter cause Trauger just ignored those recommendations so again what did it matter. But to those out there that have to deal with malig narc get away from them and far away. Do not engage with them do not get manipulated by them just get away. They feed off of responses. They will not help them selves, for let’s think here. Malig Narcs do not think there is anything wrong with them right? In their eyes ain’t nothing wrong. So how you going to get them to go to therapy if they don’t think there’s anything wrong with them? In the Event anyone DOES get one to go to therapy, they would need literal life LONG therapy, and behavioral intensive therapy. I can promise you they won’t do that and or or definately not for the rest of their little narcissistic lives. And then again they don’t think anything’s wrong with them so agreeing to take meds, well not happening. They won’t. Again in the event they did agree? They’d have to be on something forever and they just won’t do it I can assure you of that I can promise you, so again. No. NO dealing with them no fixing them. Broken personals are like a plate being shattered on the floor and yes you can super glue it back together but it’s still broken right??
Stay away from people like this they are dangerous they have no ability to control themselves and they don’t have the ability to feel or show empathy. That’s how you can tell if they are a real narcissist or not. Narcissists don’t have empathy and they lack any remorse.. they also take zero accountability for their actions. Zero. And never will. If you can hear him and what he’s saying he’s just continually blaming me for his actions. Over and over and over again.
So October is DV awareness month and this is shared to bring awareness. These people are dangerous, and he was a future murderer. He was also a midnight strangler. And now we know the high correlation of strangulation to homicide. It’s an 800 percent chance of a strangler committing Homicide. And these are NOT MaDe up stats or data or my opinion they are FACT. If you need the source I can cite them. Just take my word for it it’s true. RUN and RUN fast.