Mik's Hidden Hearts Alliance for Dysautonomia Teens

Mik's Hidden Hearts Alliance for Dysautonomia Teens Offering help and hope to teens and young adults who suffer from Dysautonomia and other hidden life-changing chronic illnesses.

Because each day can be unpredictable to the Dysautonomia and other hidden chronic illnesses sufferer, frustration about their physical limitations and feeling overall poorly can become their focus. One of the Hidden Hearts Alliance objectives is to bring hope through empowerment to not only the sufferer, but to their family as well. Our goal is to help teens focus on what they can do – not what their body limits them to.

  In-person or online (for Texas residents)
10/24/2021



In-person or online (for Texas residents)

On this day 11 years ago our lives changed forever.  Thank you God for holding us through those hard years and circling ...
10/23/2021

On this day 11 years ago our lives changed forever. Thank you God for holding us through those hard years and circling us with the loving support of family and friends for our personal journey and our work through Mik's Hidden Hearts Alliance.. I could not see back then the future we have today. Mik will be graduating from college next summer and will start graduate school to become a counselor. I will be graduating next summer with a master's degree in clinical mental health counseling with a focus on helping families navigate life-changing illnesses and trauma.

On this day in 2010, Mikaela Aschoff unexpectedly collapsed at her freshman year homecoming dance. This was her picture prior to leaving to the dance. Perfectly healthy and vibrant. What followed was a nightmare of years of a severe case of Dysautonomia. She had to go on homebound. Missed all her high school years. Had to use her wheelchair on most days. Fainted hundreds of times hitting her head so many times I was terrified one day she would not wake up after a fall. I quietly became anxious to leave her even to go to the grocery store because I did not know if she would collapse while I was gone. In so much all over pain due to her autonomic nervous system completely out of control.

These horrible years affected not just her, but the entire family as well. Bless Kyle and Kamden, they had to grow up fast because "normal" days no longer existed.

If I could go back and talk to myself on that day, when the world that I knew no longer existed, and I was in a tornado of fear not knowing the extent of the damage being done to Mik's body and mind, I would tell myself the following.

Yes, this is scary
Yes, this is heartbreaking
Yes, there is so much unknown
But your daughter, your family and you are going to survive because your strength comes from the Lord, not circumstances.
You all will persevere
God has given you a tribe, many years in the making, to uplift you when the painful days and long sleepless nights get too hard.
You are called to bring goodness out of this situation to reach out to others for God's glory
You are not forgotten
You are not hidden
Your greatest purpose in life often comes through your greatest heartaches.

Now that Mikaela has received 6 stem cell infusions through Celltex (our answered prayer miracle that finally began in 2017), she is off to college working on a counseling degree where she wants to focus on helping chronically ill youth who have been traumatized by their health journey. Me? Now that my time is open from caregiver to student, I'm working towards completing my counseling degree too.

Our entire family was so honored to provide socials, especially Boo Bash and Anti-Prom, to over 1500 chronically ill youth over the years through our charity Mik's Hidden Hearts Alliance.

Now our vision is to help on a deeper level. Spotlight the great need for mental health care for chronically ill youth and their families WITHOUT the patronizing "it's all in your head" attitude found in so much of the medical world today. It's our hope to help do our little part to heal the mind and spirit of all those facing life changing health events while waiting on the healing needed for the body. We need those medical cures!!!

Thank you to our family, friends and MHHA family who made this journey easier. For uplifting us. For helping us laugh when there were so many long years filled with tears. Every note of encouragement, dinner, hug and prayer meant more than you could ever know. ♥️


Mik's Hidden Hearts Alliance for Dysautonomia Teens

Celltex Therapeutics

Coming Soon!  Online Counseling Group Therapy (For Dysautonomia Teens, Adults, & Caregivers living in Texas) (As part of...
10/12/2021

Coming Soon! Online Counseling Group Therapy (For Dysautonomia Teens, Adults, & Caregivers living in Texas)
(As part of my Master's level graduate training for counseling)
I will be offering three different mini-group counseling therapy session for (Group 1) chronically ill teens, (Group 2) chronically ill adults, and (Group 3) caregivers.
* Each mini-session will be a total of 4 counseling sessions of 60 minutes held via zoom 1 time per week.
* Group 1 will be on Thursdays from 5:30pm - 6:30pm
* Group 2 will be on Thursdays from 6:45pm - 7:45pm
* Group 3 will be on Thursdays 8:00pm - 9:00pm
The first group session will be held on 10/21/2021
Cost is $10 per session and a commitment to all 4 sessions is required as group counseling is more effective when the same group is together for the duration.
Space is limited. For more information or to sign up, please message the following details to [email protected]
Your full name
Group you would be in
Age
Your dysautonomia brief summary story
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Hi!  MHHA Family!In-person or online counseling for chronically-ill youth/adults/caregiversI am near the completion of m...
09/11/2021

Hi! MHHA Family!

In-person or online counseling for chronically-ill youth/adults/caregivers

I am near the completion of my master's degree in counseling. I have a passion for helping fellow dysautonomia/chronic illness teens/adults/families/caregivers navigate this path through support, compassionate listening, and understanding. My MHHA work with all of our families was one of the main reasons I chose to go back to school in my 40s - to help more families on a fundamental level.

If you are interested in scheduling an appointment in-person or online, please see the flyer below. My practicum rate is $30 / hr and I am supervised by a licensed professional counselor.

***Group counseling therapy for chronically-ill youth and one for their caregivers is in the works. I will keep you posted!

Hello our MHHA Friends,Many of you are asking for Mikaela "Mik" Aschoff health updates.  As many of you know, Mik has be...
07/23/2019

Hello our MHHA Friends,

Many of you are asking for Mikaela "Mik" Aschoff health updates. As many of you know, Mik has been part of the research team with Dr. Numan and Dr. Butler since she first got ill in 2010. She has done a variety of research study treatments, some very painful with many side effects, to help ease the burden of Dysautonomia and hopefully to help give the doctors more information to help find treatments for other sufferers.

Some of the treatments would help one of the dysautonomia symptoms, but the side effects were brutal for her. In her case, as well as the handful of other brave teenagers who went through the same treatments, she did more treatments than the average dysautonomia patient today in the name of research.

Her doctors have always been amazing and open-minded to a variety of treatments out there. With their blessing, and running out of treatment options to help her mostly homebound life, she pursued stem cell therapy through Celltex.

For Mik, this has been life-changing and we as a family have been very careful on what to recommend/not recommend for people because every patient is different. In Mik's case, the stem cells have been the only treatment to date that has had these phenomenal positive changes for her. Celltex Therapeutics have been our answered prayer for many tear-filled prayers over these difficult years.

As her mom helping and guiding her through these painful debilitating years that ROBBED her of her youth (I'm still a little bitter about that one... I can't lie about that!), my only hope was that one day she would be well enough to live a semi-independent life with as little pain as possible.

Never in my wildest hopes and dreams could I imagine how life-changing the stem cells would be (this eternal optimist momma had a major reality check on "positive thinking" with the dysautonomia world.... I became more of a realist to help her survive this nightmare since 2010.) In 2017, seven long years later, we desperately tried the stem cells to help ease her painful and debilitating symptoms all the while, if I am honest, we doubted how much could they "really" help. I have never in my life been so happy to know how wrong I was when I first doubted how effective the stem cell treatment would be for her. Also, Mik has NOT had ONE side effect from stem cell treatment.

We promised you when we started this journey, we would update you on her progress. Oct 2010 - Jan 2017... mostly homebound life. Unpredictable symptoms. Mostly wheelchair use when out. Could not stand on her feet for more than a few minutes before she would start feeling symptomatic (or a fainting episode would abruptly happen).

Jan 2017 - Received Stem Cells for the first time (3 infusions)

Summer 2017 - Received Stem Cell Booster Dose

Summer 2018 - Received Stem Cell Booster Dose

This is her latest: she is working this summer at her aunt's bakery on her FEET for hours. Prior to going to work, she does the elliptical machine! January of 2019 she was well enough TO GO AWAY TO COLLEGE!! She will be going back to school in the Fall and working on a Psychology Degree for counseling. Did I mention she made DEAN'S LIST for the spring??? Take that Brain Fog!

She has energy. She has mental clarity. No fainting or seizure episodes. No GI difficulties or problems swallowing anymore. Migraines gone. Yes, she still needs a nap in the afternoon (regular nap length about an hour). However, this is far different than sleeping 18 hours or more per day and living her waking hours in a fog in pain and weakness. She does get the occasional ache or headache, but this is more on the level of what regular adulthood feels like : )

FAQ - Stem cell treatments are all the same, right?

Answer: No! Please do your research on any of the places you are interested in. Do not just take their word for their results. Talk directly to patients. In our case, we interviewed over a dozen of people we either knew directly or had a friend connection before we selected Celltex, whom they used as well. Not all stem cell banking, infusion, etc is exactly the same. Please do your research!

FAQ - Do you recommend Celltex?

Answer: Quite simply, yes! For those of you who personally know us, you know we do not casually offer a recommendation. It drove me bonkers having people around the country contact us through our charity website to tell us there was a "cure" for dysautonomia and it only cost $X. False hope to desperate families like ours were in those early dysautonomia years can be mentally devastating.

At Mik's first appointment with Dr. Jones (Celltex), he first told us he does not promise a cure. I thought, FINALLY, someone who is honest! He did say he is amazed through their research the positive responses his patients are having and Mik is a great candidate for it.

However, just because I highly recommend Celltex for my daughter, this means I recommend you to consider them too... NOT blindly accept it. Do your research. Go to one of their free seminars they have around town. They are not pushy and many current patients will attend the seminars to help answer any questions you may have.

If you have any questions, please reach out to me or Mik. We will be happy to answer any questions.

The next chapter for MHHA: while Mik is working on her counseling degree, I am too! My heart and passion is helping to serve our grossly neglected chronically-ill youth. My masters will be in counseling and my focus will be on helping youth and their families navigate the emotional road chronic illnesses can take us all on (both patient and family).

Our prayers are with you and praying for better health for all of you!

Here's Celltex's latest blog message Mik wrote:

I was diagnosed with Dysautonomia back in 2010 after collapsing on the dance floor at my freshman homecoming dance. I was pulled from public school and became home bound and wheelchair dependent. I suffered from constant syncope episodes, severe fatigue, fibromyalgia, seizures, migraines, brain fog,...

10/06/2018

Boo Bash Update from Keri (Mik's Mom):

Dear MHHA friends and family, since 2012, we have proudly hosted the Boo Bash to help raise funds for our upcoming year socials (especially Anti-PROM). As many of you know, this past year has been an extra difficult and time-consuming year for the Aschoff/McWhorter family and many of our core volunteers families.

Mik and I know without a doubt MHHA would not be what we are all these years later without the thousands of hours volunteered through our family and dear friends.

Because of the many hardships and time constraints, we have had to put a pause on Boo Bash this year to put our focus on our family. Our focus is especially on Papaw McWhorter who has been a champ through his difficult journey to have a heart and liver transplant and Nana McWhorter who has been a rock through all of this. Many of you know and love Nana and Papaw who have worked many hours at our events and behind the scenes to help serve our chronically ill youth.

Boo Bash has a special place in our hearts, First, what was meant to isolate our family (Dysautonomia) actually brought together our family, extended family and many friends (FRAMily) to join forces to help serve at MHHA events. It has always been like a family reunion at each event and we have been so thankful.

Boo Bash was also originally created to take a negative day of ours (Oct. 23, 2010) which was the first day Mik collapsed into a positive day where we put our focus on bringing joy to other chronically ill youth and their families for a much needed fun night out with people who understand their journey.

So many beautiful friendships have developed over the years because of MHHA and we know God deserves the honor for touching all of your hearts to make MHHA possible and events like Boo Bash where we were always blessed to fundraise exactly what we needed to move forward the next year's socials.

Although Boo Bash is on pause for this year, we are currently seeking and interviewing potential event planners or other charity organization to host the annual Anti-PROM in the spring with a fun casino night and prizes.

We have been blessed with a generous donation to keep MHHA afloat during this hard time, but whoever or whichever organization is able to take on Anti-PROM, there will be more fundraising needed to help accommodate the number of chronically youth who would like to attend.

The perfect event planner or charity organization will be one that can plan the event from start to finish. Handle all the details in the background and organization of the actual event. I will be an advisor and have oversight for the planning, but can not do the day to day tasks (so many to count to coordinate that big amazing event). I would still run the actual day / speak / etc as always, but all the heavy detail lifting would be via the event planner.

If you, or someone you know, is interested in the position, please have them contact me at my personal email address [email protected]

I also want to thank all of you for your patience since I have been slow to respond to calls and messages the past few months. Because of the number of messages I receive on a daily basis, if I have overlooked your message, please resend and I will work diligently to get back with you.

Thank you all for your understanding and prayers as we walk this new journey. It is bittersweet for us Aschoffs and McWhorters as we love MHHA families from the bottom of our hearts. This is not an easy decision, but we know it is the right one.

It is our hope and prayer to be announcing Anti-PROM 2019 information in early January.

Peace and Blessings,
Keri and Mik Aschoff

Mikaela Aschoff Shirley McWhorter Ronda McWhorter-Mayers Jill McWhorter Todaro Lisa Marlowe Jan Nassef Tammy Smith Antoinette Boulet

05/30/2018
Happy Mother's Day to all our Hidden Moms. You rock!!
05/13/2018

Happy Mother's Day to all our Hidden Moms. You rock!!

05/05/2018

This soon-to-be changed her career dreams + postgrad plans after a diagnosis of POTS. Next up: pursuing a doctoral degree in , on a mission of discovery. http://ow.ly/57sw30jOOJV

Mik's mom here:  Many of you know how involved Mik's grandparents are with all MHHA events and everyone loves "Nana and ...
05/05/2018

Mik's mom here: Many of you know how involved Mik's grandparents are with all MHHA events and everyone loves "Nana and Papaw"!

Well, Papaw here likes to wear his 2018 Anti-PROM MHHA hat in the hospital and, not really surprising to me, he is spreading MHHA and dysautonomia awareness while waiting in the hospital for a heart & liver transplant (been there for weeks now).

So, like the amazing Papaw he is, he is using his time to help others. He found out one of his nurses has a daughter recently diagnosed with dysautonomia so got me on the phone stat so we could connect with this new family. What a small world!

I keep on telling my dad they might have had to take a little extra time finding him a heart because it is kind of hard to replace a heart of gold. : )

Please keep Papaw & Nana in your prayers. MHHA is what it is in a big way because of their unconditional love and support for us. ............................................
Philippians 4:13

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