09/27/2026
To round out Childhood Cancer Awareness Month, me, McKenna’s mom, wants to take a minute to shine a light on the ripple effect childhood cancer has on another group of kids we don’t talk about enough… their friends.
From the moment McKenna was diagnosed, we were absolutely flooded with people reaching out, loving on us and wanting to help in any way they could. And her 11-year-old friends, boys and girls, were right there with them.
They wanted to do something. Anything.
Some brought her favorite drinks, skincare, cozy things, little treats and all the things they knew would make McKenna feel loved.
And she did. She felt so loved.
But then these kids had to watch their friend, someone who had been a staple in their lives, fight cancer, become sick, and ultimately pass away.
That wrecks me to my core when I think about it.
Losing a friend at 11 is hard to comprehend even at 46. I can’t imagine trying to process that kind of loss as a child.
But what I have watched since has been nothing short of God working in and through these young people.
Every week, I’m met with a smile, a hug at the grocery store, a wave from across a football stadium, or a text from one of these kids who loved McKenna.
And they aren’t just remembering her.
They have big hearts and big ideas.
They want to help bridge the gap for other children and families experiencing what they experienced with their friend, McKenna.
They are taking something that broke their hearts and choosing to do something with it.
That is the ripple effect.
Childhood cancer doesn’t just affect the child who gets the diagnosis.
It changes siblings, parents, grandparents, teachers, teammates and friends.
McKenna’s friends have carried a piece of her with them as they’ve grown up. And through all of the heartbreak, I get to watch them turn that pain into love, compassion and action.
I couldn’t be more proud of them.
And I couldn’t be more grateful that they loved our girl so fiercely.
They mattered then.
They matter now.
And they will always be a part of McKenna’s story. 💛🎗️