10/09/2026
September 9th is a day that my life changed forever.
Nothing can prepare you for the feeling of trying to save someone who has spent so much of their life taking care of you. Just a few short weeks ago my grandfather, Papa D suffered from cardiac arrest. I went from being his granddaughter to watching CPR being performed on someone I loved with my whole heart. I watched as an AED was used in an attempt to bring him back to us. I remember praying, hoping, and desperately wishing for just one more heartbeat. One more conversation. One more hug. One more chance to tell him how much I loved him.
My Papa D was one of my biggest supporters. He believed in me, encouraged me, and was so incredibly proud of my journey within the Miss America Opportunity. Competing for Miss North Carolina was never just about wearing a crown or walking across a stage. It was about making my family proud, pursuing a dream I had carried since I was a little girl, and using my voice to make a difference. And Papa D believed in every bit of that dream.
He was so proud to watch me do something I loved, and I would give anything to have him in the audience just one more time.
One of the most meaningful parts of the Miss America Opportunity is its partnership with the American Heart Association and the Go Red for Women movement. Through this partnership, young women across the country are empowered to advocate for heart health, raise awareness, and promote lifesaving education, including CPR and AED training.
I never imagined that this mission would become so deeply personal to me.
I never imagined that the CPR training I had received would be something I would have to use on my own grandfather. I never imagined that I would experience firsthand how quickly an ordinary day can turn into a family’s worst nightmare.
And although our efforts could not bring my Papa D back to us, I know now, more than ever, how important it is to be prepared to act when someone’s heart suddenly stops.Because behind every cardiac arrest is a person. A family. A lifetime of memories. And people who would give absolutely anything for one more heartbeat.
Papa D, I love you and miss you. ❤️