Let Us See Goose

06/09/2024

June 28 join me at the lake county courthouse to fight for the right to see my granddaughter.

06/09/2024

This is hard but I made it through. Please share my story. I nees all
The support I can get on June 28th.

06/09/2024

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06/09/2024

06/09/2024

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Biological grandchildren.

05/27/2024

Part 9-

See, all I wanted was for everyone to put the past behind us and be a family for Goose that so desperately needed us to be. I know that at the beginning of all of this, the grandparents had an understanding that every one of the grandparents would be involved in her life and all would have time with her. My ex was even getting some time with her after she would leave my house on Saturdays. She would go take a nap then go to my ex-husband's house for a few hours in the afternoon.

I thought that we were both moving in the direction of putting the past behind us. When I heard though the rumor mill, that is Ronan Montana< that they ere moving forward with the adoption. Once again, my world stopped, I thought that this past year the Uhrichs and I were working on putting Goose first.

Bewildered as to why these people wouldn't have the courtesy to tell me that something big was happening in Gooses life. I called the social worker and she said that the " perinate parties were informed of the adoption" I asked "who told you who that I wasn't a perinate person?" Her reply " Uhrichs." A couple of days went by and I got a text from Uhrichs " The adoption went through. We are evaluating visits." That is the last I have heard from them.

I hired a lawyer. I offically asked to have vistaions with Goose. Uhrichs said "no". I was learing how custody battles go. I learned that after I leagally asked to have some time with goose, and after they leagally denied me that right, the next step was mediation. We went to mediation twice. Each time they voiced thier complaints about me, I would try to make any offers I felt were fair and comfortable for them. Each time, I was told they said "there was no way I was going to see Goose, ever".

05/24/2024

Part 8-

Two days later I got a phone call early in the morning asking if I had heard from Rozlyn Paige Bluemel. My answer was no. I was a bit groggy but after that phone call I shot straight out of bed and got calling anybody I though Rozlyn Paige Bluemel might have called if she had gotten in trouble. After I activated the calling tree I got dressed. I was feeling all the emotions panic, sadness, worry, even happiness that maybe she had just taken Goose and left so he couldn't find them however, I knew if that were the case she would have told me a plan.

I was numb, I dont think I could tell you anything that happed between that call and the next few. I knew thing happend, people talked to me, but all that I could that about was Rozlyn Paige Blumel. I know the police became involved at some pint. Time passed, houw muchtime, Im still blurry on, But then standing in his grandmothers driveway I got the news. I fell to my knees, I looked up and saw his grandmother standing there. "Your grandson killed my baby." Her reply, "Not my Tyler, he would never." All that came out was " They found the body." my friend gathered me up and put me in ca car to get me back home.

Still numb, we as a family made burial plans and what to do with Goose? I know that Uhrich were meeting her needs. So when CPS called just days after getting the news, my heart once again broke when I had to tell Gooses social worked that I could not take her right then. I had two other girls to worry about and make sure that they were mentally ok. I thought that it was best Goose stay with Uhrich's. We arranged playdates to be had. These playdates were the only thing I had to look forward to now. Every week for four hours she was mine. It always pained me to load her in the car after our time. But I also knew Rozlyn Paige Bluemel saw Goose as a healing band aid to everything that went so very wrong just a few short years before.

05/24/2024

Part 7-

Rozlyn Paige Blumel was slowly forming her own mind up about the place that her family should hold in her life. She wanted everyone to let go of everything that had happened, even telling me that if I wanted Goose in my life there would be no talking bad about Tyler when she was around, Rozlyn believed Goose needed her father in her life eve if that example was not the best. But I had to respect how she was parenting her child. And she was right, until Goose could grow up a bit and make that decision on her own her father did need to be a part of her life.

In the coming weeks Rozlyn Paige Blumel came over more. She had officially moved out of the home that her and Tyler shared. She moved into his grandmother's house to help her because her health was declining. I was a great place for her to land till she solidified her next step. Rozlyn Paige Blumel and Gooses father set up pretty good schedule to share Goose. They both took their turn. I was impressed that he was at least trying to step up to the plate. He seemed to love his little girl and that was ok if he was being a good dad to her.

Rozlyn Paige Blumel wanted something official that he had to stick to for a parenting plan with Goose. When we saw each other that Mother's Day she was telling all of us that her and Aunt Brittany were working on some major changes, and we would be proud of her when we saw those changes. With that I let her leave that day wondering what these changes could be.

05/23/2024

Part 6

From then on Rozlyn Paige Blumel contacted me when she could and how she could. We had codes so we knew where and when to meet. We had to time the meetings because Rozlyn Pagie Bluemel was always timed when she was out of the house without Tyler. I knew things at home were not going the way she wanted the too. Rozlyn Pagie Blumel was growing up, she thought it was time that Tyler grows up too. I know they went to a couple of different therapists in an effort to salvage the relationship still, things did not look like they were going to work out. She would call me and tell me about little thing that would happen or on the rare occasion that we could meet in p***c I would see bruises that I know she had because of Tyler. Over time there were more bruises. The fights would get out of hand, and she would run to Uhrichs for comfort.

Uhrichs were the only people Tyler approved of Rozlyn Paige Bluemel seeing outside of himself. I recall one night that at some point during the fight Tyler put his hands around Rozlyn Pagie Bluemel's neck and choked her. When she finally got free, she gathered up her baby, got in her car, and headed to Uhrichs house. She called the cops on the way explaining the situation. I do not know everything that happened that night, what I do know is after the cops got done talking to Tyler, Rozlyn Paige Bluemel and Goose were driven back to Tylers house that same night.

In the aftermath of hearing all of this, I was so devastated that these people who said they cared for my daughter like their own wouldn't even wait 24 hours before putting Rozlyn Pagie Bluemel and Goose back into a house with Tyler. Like I said I don't know everything that happened that night. Maybe he was truly remorseful. Maybe she was in no real danger that night, I still feel like the night should have been given to both for tempers to cool off. From there the fights seemed to get more frequent, the law was called more, more bruises seemed to show up out of nowhere.

But our Goose kept growing. She was becoming a little spitfire like her mom. Rozlyn Paige Bluemel found time to sneak away and come see me when Goose started walking. Rozlyn Paige Bluemel was such a proud mom. By this time Goose was calling me "YaYa" and my partner "PePaw". She knew us, that was something that I never thought would happen. She was our family. Rozlyn Pagie Blumel had kept saying she wanted "Switzerland" in her life. Her sisters and I were trying to become that for her. She was tired of the fighting. She was seeing through all the lies Tyler had put in her head about her family. She was seeing that I was a parent that was doing the best I could with what was given to me.

05/23/2024

Part 5-

Things went on like this for a while. we would run into her in public, if she was alone, she would stop and talk to us. Most of the time she had one if the Uhrich family with her as her es**rt.

It was around this time I started dating a man that taught me what it was like when you are in a relationship when someone respects who you are. it had been a long time since I had been in a relationship with give and take. Has my new relationship always been great? No, we have had our fights and had to take steps to repair those fights. But for the first time in a long time, I had someone who was willing to love me and work though some of the thing that needed to be worked through.

While I was getting on with my life Rozlyn Paige Blumel and Tyler were getting on with theirs, I hear though rumors that Rozlyn Paige Blumel was pregnant. I couldn't have been happier with the news. So happy that me and Rozlyn's sisters went and go a couple of things we wanted the baby to have. We knew we couldn't talk to her but, we felt like if we dropped off a present at least she knew we cared. The morning after we had dropped off the present at Rozlyn Paige Blumel and Tyler's place, the present was back on our doorstep. Again, not surprised just broken hearted.

Rozlyn Paige and Tyler both had jobs so I know they were working on getting out of the Uhrich home. I was proud of who she was becoming. we would find ways to talk to each other. On the day she went into labor we found out. Someone in the family deiced to send her flowers to let her know that we were still here for her and loved her. I hear that as soon as Tyler read the card, he threw them in the trash. I was sad when I heard what happened, however, not surprised. At least I know that she saw the flowers and knew we were thing about her. So, when she showed up at my house shortly after Goose was born and I got to hold my granddaughter for the first time I could not hold back the joy.

05/23/2024

Part 4

This is the hardest part to talk about. Because I thought I was trusting Rozlyn Pagie Blumel to people who would look out for her. I thought that the Uhrich's would guide my daughter's life toward good at a time when I could not do it myself. I thought they would be teaching my child that ever if her parents were going through hard times, they still loved her and cared for her.

By the time Rozlyn Paige Bluemel and Tyler had moved back in with Uhrich's, our daughter/mother relationship had begun to have a huge wedge put in it. Because of the bickering between the girls and Tyler while he lived with us, feelings were still raw and hurt. After moving in with the Uhrich's the pattern that started emerging with our communication was......I would call Rozlyn Paige Blumel, her and I would make plans or talk about things that were going to repair our relationship. We would come to an understanding or rule to make sure feelings didn't get hurt going forward. The next day I would call, and that understanding was not good enough. or the rule that we decide would work would no longer be the rule. Then strange things started happening on my property to prevent me and Rozlyn Paige Bluemel from physically seeing each other.

I started to file police reports about the stalking that Tyler was doing to me and my children. and hang no trespassing signs up on my property just long enough to find a place where Tyler didn't know I lived.

It seemed like after this Tyler got the hint that I was done. Because I heard nothing. My hear ached to know how my daughter was. I wish I could call her and just tell her about all the that were happing in my life that were good. I wanted her to know I was becoming someone that was worthy to be in her life. Her little sister had graduated from high school. Evry day that some milestone was made in the family her presents was missed. We heard thing through the grapevine and knew she was doing ok. Se periodically got in touch with her sisters just to let them know what was happening in her life.

05/10/2024

Part 3-

During the time that Rozlyn Pagie Blumel and Tyler Uhrich lived with me things were going pretty well. Tyler was helpul, respectfuld and the little boy I had know from all those years earlier. We would all havde good family discussions where I thought that he ws hearing me out on alot of things that were happening with the divorce. A few weeks after him moving in I noticed that little fights between my girls would start. All of my girls are really close in age so none of their girlish bickering bothered me. What did bother me was that at the center of this bickering always seemed to be Tyler.

When I noticed this pattern and brought it to his attention, everything seemed to escalate. Luckily, by this time the house was going to sell, and I had to move even if it meant my daughter leaving my house faster than was wanted. For the protection of my other girl I could no longer have him in my home.

After moving I knew I had to start filling my life with good. I tried eceryting to ccombat and crawl out of the pit I felt my life was left in when me and my ex-parted ways. One way I did this was enrolled in school. Though classes I began to gain confidence and worth I had forgotten I had. I had a part time job, I joined the lacal chapeters of the VFW and American Legion. Though this I began to participate in community actieites serving you country again. there this starte to give me pirpose in my life, it mad me feel needeed again.

Rozlyn Paige Blumel and Tyler ended up living with one of my friends. They didn't make it their home long before he was kicking up trouble there. But that is a story for her to tell. but this ticks out in head because I feel like Rozlyn Paige Blumel moving in with Tylers family was the beginning of the end.

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