09/01/2026
A funder steps into a convening and says "we got this wrong."
That's harder than it sounds.
Most funder communication is built around certainty. The strategy is set. The theory of change is documented. The board has approved the cycle. Showing up to a room of grantees and naming what isn't working is a different kind of speech act. It requires giving up the protective posture of the institution.
Pia Infante has spent two decades practicing and teaching what changes when funders do exactly that.
Her observation: vulnerability moves first, and trust follows. The funder who can name uncertainty out loud, in front of the people the funder is asking to be vulnerable, builds the kind of relationship that lasts.
Nonprofit leaders see how rare that posture is. Most funder rooms default to the script of confident strategic direction. The funders who break that pattern, and stay in the room when their own uncertainty is on the table, change the dynamic immediately.
Trust as practice means the funder going first sometimes.
Link below for Pia Infante's writing on trust-based philanthropy.
https://www.trustbasedphilanthropy.org/multiyear-transcript