05/22/2026
Alexis Stanley joined us this week at Mended Women Lifestyle Recovery for our "Lived Experience Speaker Series" alongside our very own Randy Carrier. Alexis shared a deeply personal story of addiction, recovery, healing, forgiveness, and hope. Their journey together began in the chaos of active addiction, where they experienced incarceration, instability, pain, and hopelessness. Although their relationship ultimately ended, their recovery journeys became forever intertwined in a powerful and unexpected way.
Six years ago, Alexis made the decision to fight for a different life for herself and her children. Through the 12 Steps, recovery community support, and an unwavering determination to change, she began rebuilding her life from the inside out. What Alexis likely did not fully realize at the time was that her recovery would become a beacon of hope for someone watching closely: Randy.
When Randy was released from incarceration in 2021, he shared that seeing the transformation in Alexis gave him hope that recovery might actually be possible for him too. With nearly a year sober at the time, Alexis introduced Randy to the 12-step recovery community, and from that point forward, the trajectory of both of their lives changed forever.
Together, they shared openly about surviving trauma, addiction, incarceration, separation, and the difficult work of rebuilding trust and healing. Most powerfully, they showed our ladies what healthy co-parenting in long-term recovery can look like, proving that healing does not always mean reconciliation of relationships, but it can mean restoration of respect, peace, forgiveness, and shared purpose. 💙 Randy and Alexis believe that through recovery any couple can learn how to co-parent and be present for their children in a healthy way.
Recovery has a ripple effect. We truly never know who may find hope simply by watching the way we choose to live our lives. Just as hopelessness can spread, healing and forgiveness can spread too. One spark of recovery can ignite hope in countless others.
There was not a dry eye in the room last night. Thank you, Alexis, for your courage, your honesty, your example, and for continuing to carry the message of recovery throughout our community. You are a role model as a mother and an incredibly strong woman in recovery!! ✨