10/12/2026
You can learn a lot about society by watching what it feels entitled to ridicule. I watched a bride laughing with her husband on her wedding day in a video, they were completely happy. Her hair was slicked back in a bun, and yes, it made her forehead look bigger. Guess what? Strangers tore her apart over it. What matters more? Were they marrying her? No. The covenant they chose to make together is what is important, not a look.
That sounds like something so small until you step back realize that behind it is the same one we see everywhere in our world. We find the flaw, make labels, and keep stigma going.
Now switch it up and put that mentality inside the criminal justice system. Hang tight with me because this will influence your critical thinking. Every day people say things like, “H*ng the parents in public and make their child watch so they learn to not commit crimes.”
I want you to reread that sentence, because we see it in comments and hear it constantly. Please keep in mind that yes, some people have committed horrific crimes, caused pain that can never be repaired, some deserve extremely serious punishment, and may never safely return to society. That is a mature and factual statement; however, accountability and bloodlust are NOT the same thing.
Now comes the part people rarely think about which is the fact that we elect people who help mold this system. The judges, sheriffs, prosecutors…
They live in the same communities, hear the anger, likely see the comments. They also know what gets applause, what gets called soft, and they know what can cost them public support.
These pressure points bleed into arrests, bond, charges, plea deals, sentencing, jail conditions, parole, and discretion. We’re not saying every decision is political.
We literally shape the climate around justice. That bride’s forehead has nothing to do with prison, but the behavior does.
We have become way too disconnected and comfortable with ignoring reality, our role in shaping it, and the complexity required to truly do right by people.
When people influence us heavily, including media, to stop seeing people as a human, cruelty becomes very easy to justify.
Hold people accountable, protect victims, and punish heinous crimes severely when severity is warranted.
Justice is about accountability and if you find yourself enjoying someone’s suffering, that is something entirely different. What have we taught society to become?
Disclaimer: If your contribution on this post is a choice of mockery instead of facts, complexity, and substance, don’t expect a response. Arrogance and/or ignorance is NOT an argument.