10/08/2026
Sorry to be absent - our hearts are hurting. We just lost a dear dear friend of over 50 years to cancer š
Dick Schmidt has been a stalwart supporter of Spirit Horse - fostering horses at his farm for many years. We always knew they were in very capable hands. Heās been battling the horrible disease for over 2 years, but recently things turned bleak. We were able to return his kindness and offer sanctuary for the last of his horses - a couple of seniors shown here. Iām sure Hannah, the sorrel, and Luke, the bay, miss their home and their people - Dick and his wife Sharon. But we will do our best to make their final years as good as possible.
A bit of backstory - Dick & I met when I was in college - through our shared love of tennis. He was married and had 3 kids. I often played tennis with his teenaged son, who was quite talented. Life moved forward, I graduated, got my first teaching job and married Jeff. Dick and I played mixed doubles in some tournaments and won a big one that qualified us for the national level to be played 6 months later. I didnāt know it at the time, but I was pregnant. By the time the tournament rolled around, I was pretty far along. I had my docās ok to play, but Dick was really worried about me. Our teamwork went right out the window as he tried to protect me by running down nearly every shot. We lost miserably, but weāve laughed about that many times over the years.
Meanwhile, his son actually became a professional tennis player! I became a professional tennis umpire (eventually working the US Open in New York and being invited to Wimbledon) and even umpired one of his sonās matches!
Dick and I also owned horses and boarded them, but went trail riding often and even camping with Sharon and my hubby, Jeff. Within a year of each other we moved to our own farms not 2 miles from each other. Our friendship endured through our kidsā marriages, Jeffās 18 year journey through cancer, his younger daughterās death from cancer (that disease has had a tremendous impact on us for sure), and becoming grandparents. So many memories. Itās a lot to think about at this sad time.
Thatās probably more than you needed to know, but itās important for me to share how this is impacting me and my sharing on this page. I need time to mourn a man who was a big part of my life. RIP Dick. Love you, bud š©·š¾š“